MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,200+)

• Think of your bio like a two-way job interview that you get to tailor to perfection

  Let's start at the beginning: the header! Having a captivating header is the first way to draw people in. It shouldn't be too blunt or ... For detail, click here.

• Why I don't show cleavage in my profile pictures or almost ever...

  Most days I wonder if I'm typical or an oddity on dating sites. I want someone to READ my profile, look at my picture, and ... For detail, click here.

• Guys, your shirtless picture may affect the first impression others develop of you

  Guys, I get it. You worked hard to get the pecs, abs, whatever, that you have. You’re proud of this effort. And maybe you choose ... For detail, click here.

• Men are extremely visual and often make a decision based primarily on the photos that you use

  Photos that are current, reveal different aspects about your environment or personality and showcase different styles of dress or daily activities that tell the story ... For detail, click here.

• Tips by a wedding photographer on how to take a good picture.

  Photos that are current, reveal different aspects about your environment or personality and showcase different styles of dress or daily activities that tell the story ... For detail, click here.

• How to verify other members' photos

  Sometimes, a profiler's response seems a bit "off". Maybe it's a word or phrase not consistent with the profiler's stated region. Trust your gut instinct. ... For detail, click here.

• Don't go to the movies on a first date

  So, now that you've decided to meet 'offline' you're probably wondering... "What should we do?" "What would make a cool first date?" And to that ... For detail, click here.

• When your date is eating a bit slower than you, it's polite to slow down and meet them at the pace they are eating at

  I learned this one a long time ago. I have never forgotten it and I always notice if my date doesn't do it. When you ... For detail, click here.

• When meeting possible dates don't take the chronological view too seriously.

  We have all seen men and women that look younger or older than their age. This is due to many factors but research has shown ... For detail, click here.

• It's ok if your photos look like a selfie or they aren't perfect. Pictures of you living real life are great and show who you really are

  I have discovered on many dating sites that if the photos of a guy are really great photos, and he's quite handsome, he may not ... For detail, click here.