It appears that many on this site are living in some sort of fear...of life, being hurt, lied to or they find someone who is just messing with your heads. Sad? Absolutely, but where did it ever say on your birth ceritificate "life will ALWAYS be fair?" You put yourself out there, express your desires, wants and goals and hope someone with similar traits contacts you. You took a chance! Good for you! Didn't win the "jackpot?" Live and learn and spin again; just don't go and hide and think "there's nobody out there for me." BS! All good things come to those who help themselves! (Yeah, I know how it's supposed to go, but...LMAO) Good luck to us all!