MSJACQUE write: WOULD ANY OF YOU WANT OR DATE A GUY THAT IS YOUNGER,NEED SOME ANSWERS B I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS AND WORDS,IT MEANS ALOT TO ME,THANKS YA'LL AND B-SWEET
Depends on what your looking for? For instance, I personally would not, I have grown children and would be difficult, in many many ways, to date someone even "near" their age. Also, for me I have already done the two exes fighting over child support, who's visition, holidays, etc and dating someone younger than me generally means that this person likely will have young children, of which I don't want to hear the complaining, etc. Also, younger without children could mean that a person is still seeking a relationship in which to create a family, and I am not bearing anyone any babies any longer..So like I said, dating someone younger, or older, is a personal issue that only you can decide, but think about what you are seeking; don't date the younger person for the sake of having a date, because human emotion is involved and there is only one side of the human emotion you can control, yours.
Okay....have dated much older men than myself for most of my life. Met someone significantly younger than myself and we had a shared attraction...and for a very long time i had an issue with his age....but...as time went on...and the more i got to know him...i quit looking at him as a number...and just enjoyed being with him and just looked at him. His personality...his ideas and his heart....glad i was able to look at him for who he is rather than his birthdate going off in my head like a slot machine every time we were near each other....
unless he is younger than 21, you do what is good for you.i call it being true to myself...But like anything else in your life you need to weigh the pros's and cons....i am assuming that by your question you yourself have some doubt. I believe that you are looking for approval as to a discussion. I have friends that have no problem with dating younger men, but that is right for them and they seek not any approval for their actions. with that said, don't do anything till you no longer feel the need to ask.
hdshovelhead79 write: Younger is great! All of my wives were 18 when we married. I was 18 with the first. Younger is an ego boost like you won't believe. But I'll trade in 2 20 year olds for 1 good 40 year old any day!!!
Ok sorry.....LOL I want to redeem myself....LMAO No Really rotflol....
Trueth is I had some relationships with older woman, the oldest being 9yrs my senior, at the time I have to admit it was an ego boost for me that an mature woman had the hots for me. But the down side was most of them had lied about there age and didn't tell me until I was already in the relationship. But to say the least, age difference never was a problem for me. chkn