Sexy reds is right on. it would be in their best interest ( if all these women are real ), to allow yiou to see who has viewd you........if you like what you see, then you join. So far I've had three flirts/winks, whatever you call them ( I've been a standard member roughly 45 days, to see if this site is legit ), none of which you can click on in a day or two later and they still be on here.....I don't know about you ( I fish a lot also ), but in my book....that's called BAIT. I've not seen/heard anything good about this sight yet. It's high priced, and I don't think you would get your bang ( no pun ) for your buck.