This site is totally worthless to standard members!!! So you can wink at someone, big deal. Unless they or you are gold, no reply can be made! While I don't mind paying for membership, what screening is done to help prevent scammers & frauds from using the site?? In my experience, the numbers of these types of people FAR exceeds the number of real people using the site for the purposes intended!!!!! I am seriously considering canceling my membership here because it is so restricted!!! It's like in a candy store...you can look, but you cant touch!!!!!