Common pawitchy~ Cut em some slack... It's his first post and he's (I guessing) new here.

Welcome moon~ You, like many here are lookin for the same. As you look through the threads you'll see the advice is the same all over. Be pateint, get to know a few folks, develope some wonderful friendships, maybe, when you're ready, go to a few BK meets.
You may not find your soul mate here, but what you will find may lead you to what you are looking for...
Good luck.

I don't have to be a psychic to know that you will have a better chance if you post a picture. Best of luck to you!!!