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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 06:25

Marzen759 write:
MilBrat63 write:
Suzananana write:
Whaddaya mean???? We're wonderful we women on here. Especially the ones on the east coast..........

And yup - we want a good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides... You see somethin wrong with that? Would be a nice change from the ones I've dated lmao......

Anyone have a clue what he's talkin about????


"good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides..." LOL!
I like that!
Just made it the headline on my profile !
Now all I have ta do is wait two days for the site censors to decide it doesn't upset someones delicate sensibilities so it will show up.

Maybe we could do jousting on bikes?
Maybe Son of Sam should of been here.


Huh??? Son of Sam??

What ARE ya talkin about?????

I'm so confused lmao...........

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 06:15

MilBrat63 write:
Suzananana write:
Whaddaya mean???? We're wonderful we women on here. Especially the ones on the east coast..........

And yup - we want a good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides... You see somethin wrong with that? Would be a nice change from the ones I've dated lmao......

Anyone have a clue what he's talkin about????


"good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides..." LOL!
I like that!
Just made it the headline on my profile !
Now all I have ta do is wait two days for the site censors to decide it doesn't upset someones delicate sensibilities so it will show up.


Awwww Mil....See what you've gone and done?? Now I'm gonna have to sue ya for plagiarism lmao...

And I just peeked lol... It's there and I'm laugin - and that's always a good thing :))

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 11, 2006 09:32

Suzananana write:
Whaddaya mean???? We're wonderful we women on here. Especially the ones on the east coast..........

And yup - we want a good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides... You see somethin wrong with that? Would be a nice change from the ones I've dated lmao......

Anyone have a clue what he's talkin about????


"good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides..." LOL!
I like that!
Just made it the headline on my profile !
Now all I have ta do is wait two days for the site censors to decide it doesn't upset someones delicate sensibilities so it will show up.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 30, 2006 22:36

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You can like a lot of people. But IF and WHEN you find THE ONE, the miles won't matter at all. They can be worked through.


Totally agree. My heart is happy now, even though 1840 miles is a long ways. Time will tell...



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Posted on Thu, Mar 30, 2006 17:37

Marzen759 write:
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Marzen759 write:


The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!


Hey hon. Its a matter of weeding thru. From the 4-5 whatever number of post you've put up, easy to see your very frustrated with it. I've talked to several nice guys on here. Some not so great. So many people don't give it enough of a chance. One thing said they don't like and there gone. Seen it too many times. We're all looking for that someone special, but sometimes it sneaks up and bites you.lol You just never know. You can't do a paint by number picture of the person your looking for. Certain criteria sure, but who that special someone is just might suprise you. Don't give up, just give it time.

I never give up. And, it really isn't that important. I just liked a few women on this site, but it seems they all live somewhere else. Oh well. Last time I looked there were a few women (other than here) in the DC/Baltimore area. Thanks.

Hey Marz.. The right woman is out there somewhere for you. When you stop looking thats probably when she will come to you.. Your a good guy if I wasnt in CA I would for sure check ya out...Good luck hun



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Posted on Thu, Mar 30, 2006 11:58

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I never give up. And, it really isn't that important. I just liked a few women on this site, but it seems they all live somewhere else. Oh well. Last time I looked there were a few women (other than here) in the DC/Baltimore area. Thanks.


You can like a lot of people. But IF and WHEN you find THE ONE, the miles won't matter at all. They can be worked through.

  


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Posted on Wed, Mar 29, 2006 16:20

Marzen - I would have to turn the mirror on you. Now don't get me wrong, 'cos you know I like you, BUT you're doing the same thing as some of the women. If they seem negative its one of two things. They're either tired of the BS that they've found or its just their nature. You have a choice, you can try and figure it out or pass them by. If the negativity is from the BS BELIEVE me once they realize that you are not about that you will see the real woman. If its their nature then there's nothing you can do...and by the way, you've got my attention.

  


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Posted on Wed, Mar 29, 2006 07:47

So maybe we should come up with something like this? Would that be more helpful to you?

If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
I'm the lady you've looked for, write to me, and escape."



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Posted on Wed, Mar 29, 2006 07:35

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The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

Hey hon. Its a matter of weeding thru. From the 4-5 whatever number of post you've put up, easy to see your very frustrated with it. I've talked to several nice guys on here. Some not so great. So many people don't give it enough of a chance. One thing said they don't like and there gone. Seen it too many times. We're all looking for that someone special, but sometimes it sneaks up and bites you.lol You just never know. You can't do a paint by number picture of the person your looking for. Certain criteria sure, but who that special someone is just might suprise you. Don't give up, just give it time.

  


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Posted on Mon, Mar 27, 2006 19:50

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Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?" Women like to talk about problems more than men do--it helps us release painful situations and put things in perspective. When we find the process of "kissing a few frogs before we find our prince" a little frustrating, we come here to talk about it, share our feelings, and get support from the men and women on this site. When people respond, we know we are not the only one who has experienced that psycho, liar, cheater, etc.

Maybe you should lighten up!! Each of these posts gives you and others the opportunity to share that you are not one of the "bad guys."


Well said pawitchywoman.

Well Marzen I hoped that cleared things up for you. We all know there are lots of Great Guys on this site you all know who you are, and then their are those that aren't so great AND they know who they are too.

I agree with you HarleyChic.



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Posted on Sun, Mar 26, 2006 21:11

Marzen759 write:
Here is a sampling of some posting topics:
Are there any good men left?
Yeah, where are all the honest men?
Are there any single bikers left(written by a woman)
Not looking for an axe murderer

I find these to be really strange. Maybe the women here just pick the wrong men or don't know what the h*ll they want. When a guy does post an answer you get comments like " I thought you were looking for a puppy". I don't need a puppy I have one. Its a shame that people write things like this because there are many nice guys here. I think some of the women need to take a deeper look at themselves. The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

Its all a chance on here, some men that I have talked to on here,project to be real,nice and all that, than in person in is a totally different thing. Some people I think are much bolder and nicer on here than in person. I have had my share of the games. sometimes you have to kiss some toads to get the prince. I know my prince is here somewhere. Same goes for woman on here too they play games as well..



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Posted on Sun, Mar 26, 2006 16:18

I think it holds true for men too, that they don't know what they are looking for. I've found a lot of them saying they want one thing & then when it comes down to it, either don't have the time or run for the hills at the slightest bit of interest returned.

It takes work to build a relationship & finding out early that it isn't going to work saves a lot of heartbreak. I for one, need attention from a man. I have a ton of friends and I've found some guys are jealous of my friends. My youngest is 8 and most guys my age have kids my other kid's ages. They've raised theirs.

I guess what I am trying to say is that it is a two-way street. At the average age of most of us on here, we tend to be set in our ways on certain things. To find someone that is compatible, looking for the same type of relationship, attracted to each other.... is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. Does that mean we should stop kissing frogs? Hope not, I am becoming quite fond of them - they taste like chicken!



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Posted on Sun, Mar 26, 2006 08:37

gosh im confused?as usual...lmfao

  


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Posted on Sun, Mar 26, 2006 08:09

hehe...I was waitin for ya Suz...

Marzen's just supportin the Beach Boys... he musta heard they were down and out...

Well, east coast girls are hip
I really dig those styles they wear
And the southern girls, with the way they talk
They knock me out when I'm down there

The midwest farmer's daughters
Really make you feel all right
And the northern girls, with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night

I wish they all could be California girls
Wish they all could be California
I wish they all could be California girls

The west coast has the sunshine
And the girls all get so tan
I dig a French bikini on Hawaiian island girls
By a palm tree in the sand

I been all around this great big world
And I seen all kind of girls
Yeah, but I couldn't wait to get back in the states
Back to the cutest girls in the world.

Wish they all could be California
Girls,



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Posted on Sun, Mar 26, 2006 07:59

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Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?" Women like to talk about problems more than men do--it helps us release painful situations and put things in perspective. When we find the process of "kissing a few frogs before we find our prince" a little frustrating, we come here to talk about it, share our feelings, and get support from the men and women on this site. When people respond, we know we are not the only one who has experienced that psycho, liar, cheater, etc.

Maybe you should lighten up!! Each of these posts gives you and others the opportunity to share that you are not one of the "bad guys."


Excellent point, and very true. There is a comedian named Bill Engvall, he does an very good job of pointing this out by using the example of two guys at a gym. One guy says; "Hey Bill, I'm getting a divorce."
Bill's response; "Man that , can you spot me?"
End of conversation.

Personally, in the short time I've been visiting this site, I've enjoyed reading the posts in the forums, and some of the profiles very much. I find it refreshing that the Ladies are so sure of themselves in what they want in a relationship, and certainly aren't shy about saying so. Some of the other sites think they have all the answers by having you spend a an hour (no exaggeration) filling out a bunch of questions, and then slam you into some math equation only to tell you they can't help you. The sites literally won't even let you view any other profiles other than what the site has determined you need to see. What I see allot of on this site is the direct opposite. I see allot of interaction, and getting to know one another. I also see allowances for those that simply want to meet and make new friends with similar interests, i.e. motorcycle riding. I see lasting "friendships" forming between folks that might otherwise never have met, because they had the opportunity to get to know one another in the forums, or IM. If it's by complaining about what pigs we men are (and we are you know), then so be it. The truth is that people don't always fit into an equation when it comes to there personal needs, and having the chance to talk amongst one another and compare wants and needs, and "why didn't that approach work, and this one did?" Mainly because what we look for in a friend/partner can and will change based upon personal experiences.

I've lived in all four corners of the US, and I've dated Ladies from all four corners. Even though they looked at the world each through different eyes, they were all pretty nice to me, as I tried to be to them. I cherished each and every one (including the ones that weren't so nice to me) for the opportunity to meet them.

I've been reading some of the comments and looking at the pictures on this site from some of the recent rallies. Somehow I don't see the "other" sites similar to this one talking about how folks got together and had a damn good time meeting one another, leaving with so many great memories...



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Posted on Fri, Mar 24, 2006 22:36

pawitchywoman write:
Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?" Women like to talk about problems more than men do--it helps us release painful situations and put things in perspective. When we find the process of "kissing a few frogs before we find our prince" a little frustrating, we come here to talk about it, share our feelings, and get support from the men and women on this site. When people respond, we know we are not the only one who has experienced that psycho, liar, cheater, etc.

Maybe you should lighten up!! Each of these posts gives you and others the opportunity to share that you are not one of the "bad guys."

Nice to hear...

  


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Posted on Fri, Mar 24, 2006 14:29

Whaddaya mean???? We're wonderful we women on here. Especially the ones on the east coast..........

And yup - we want a good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides... You see somethin wrong with that? Would be a nice change from the ones I've dated lmao......

Anyone have a clue what he's talkin about????

  


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Posted on Fri, Mar 24, 2006 07:49

Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?" Women like to talk about problems more than men do--it helps us release painful situations and put things in perspective. When we find the process of "kissing a few frogs before we find our prince" a little frustrating, we come here to talk about it, share our feelings, and get support from the men and women on this site. When people respond, we know we are not the only one who has experienced that psycho, liar, cheater, etc.

Maybe you should lighten up!! Each of these posts gives you and others the opportunity to share that you are not one of the "bad guys."



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