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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 01:25

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Slim is that pic of you when you were young?? LOL You aged well my friend.
aw shucks, thanks. but that's what i really look like today. i posted a different picture because i just want women to get to know me for the wonderful person i am on the inside. what i really LOOK like shouldn't matter since i have so much to offer someone. right? if this mentality works for the women it should work for the men. i believe in being an equal opportunity offender.

~Slim

Well I am an admitted DirtyBikerSlut LMAO so I guess my need to throw up at that analagy doesnt count... ha ha I think honesty is more important than looks and that guy was fukin UGLY!!!!



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Posted on Mon, May 15, 2006 21:02

The "experts" say women are looking for tall men. I guess it has to do to leadership and making money. The same "experts" say men look for women with 26 inch wastes and 36 inch hips. This has to do with child bearing. BK gives everyone an equal opportunity to get past those statistics. I've found some really nice men friends and only a couple of men not worth my time. Works for me, -vetducgirl



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Posted on Sun, May 14, 2006 06:56

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You crack me up, Slim!
yep, i'm funny, good looking, sensitive, sexy, intelligent, and just an all around wonderful person. oh, and my best trait is modesty.



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Posted on Sun, May 14, 2006 06:55

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
Slim is that pic of you when you were young?? LOL You aged well my friend.
aw shucks, thanks. but that's what i really look like today. i posted a different picture because i just want women to get to know me for the wonderful person i am on the inside. what i really LOOK like shouldn't matter since i have so much to offer someone. right? if this mentality works for the women it should work for the men. i believe in being an equal opportunity offender.

~Slim



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Posted on Thu, May 11, 2006 07:04

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Oh, and not everyone that doesn't post a pic on here is ugly. I'm actually quite fine, but would just prefer to have a normal conversation with someone w/o my T or A involved.

BBBB, this is NOT directed at you since you do have pictures posted and you are "quite fine" as you say. this is only in reply to your comment above ...

i can understand your point, but honestly how many profiles do you read or look at that don't have a picture? there has to be something to attract us (me) to look further at a profile. when i first started the online thing i would spend hours reading profiles (pics or not) and sending emails, etc to try to get to know someone only to later find out that they are not anything like they describe themselves. i wasted a HUGE amout of time. now, that DOES NOT mean they aren't great people and that is not what i am saying here. but some who describe themselves as great looking and athletic may be so only in their own eyes or in the eyes of the Russian Sumo Wrestling Team, but not according to my taste. if someone has to sneak up on a drink of water, or their parents had to tie a pork chop around their neck to get the dogs to play with them as a child - ya might want to rethink the "great looking" description and be honest with yourself about yourself.

personally, i choose not to waste time on profiles w/o pictures. but that's just me and my fiddy cents.

~Slim

Slim is that pic of you when you were young?? LOL You aged well my friend.



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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 18:55

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It is what you make of it, a person is just a person regardless of looks.

right or the ol lady vest...lmao

ROFLMFAO!!! geeez



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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 17:44

hdbabygirl73 write:
It is what you make of it, a person is just a person regardless of looks.

right or the ol lady vest...lmao



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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 05:17

beachbumbikerbabe write:
Oh, and not everyone that doesn't post a pic on here is ugly. I'm actually quite fine, but would just prefer to have a normal conversation with someone w/o my T or A involved.

BBBB, this is NOT directed at you since you do have pictures posted and you are "quite fine" as you say. this is only in reply to your comment above ...

i can understand your point, but honestly how many profiles do you read or look at that don't have a picture? there has to be something to attract us (me) to look further at a profile. when i first started the online thing i would spend hours reading profiles (pics or not) and sending emails, etc to try to get to know someone only to later find out that they are not anything like they describe themselves. i wasted a HUGE amout of time. now, that DOES NOT mean they aren't great people and that is not what i am saying here. but some who describe themselves as great looking and athletic may be so only in their own eyes or in the eyes of the Russian Sumo Wrestling Team, but not according to my taste. if someone has to sneak up on a drink of water, or their parents had to tie a pork chop around their neck to get the dogs to play with them as a child - ya might want to rethink the "great looking" description and be honest with yourself about yourself.

personally, i choose not to waste time on profiles w/o pictures. but that's just me and my fiddy cents.

~Slim

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Posted on Wed, May 10, 2006 01:53

omg!! good 2 see ya suz!!! hey marz....relax darlin' there is someone for u ...just gotta take some time 2 find one who is like you babe!!! tryin' too hard never is gonna get you anywhere. everybody is different and u r too ..just gotta find that one..let's hope it's axe free!! unless it's axel of course for you ladies who know him ..but wonderful guy he is, is taken I'm guessin" ?? miss ya suz!!!



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Posted on Fri, May 05, 2006 22:43

I think the problem lies in looking for Mr./Ms. Right to begin with. There is no such thing. There is only an Almost Right or a Mostly Right. Everyone is an individual and if you are trying to put someone in the perfect mold of what you feel is right...you will never be satisfied.

And God forbid that you change them and make them into that mold...because then they will never be satisfied.



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Posted on Fri, May 05, 2006 10:19

It is what you make of it, a person is just a person regardless of looks.



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Posted on Tue, May 02, 2006 14:39

Marzen759 write:
Here is a sampling of some posting topics:
Are there any good men left?
Yeah, where are all the honest men?
Are there any single bikers left(written by a woman)
Not looking for an axe murderer

I find these to be really strange. Maybe the women here just pick the wrong men or don't know what the h*ll they want. When a guy does post an answer you get comments like " I thought you were looking for a puppy". I don't need a puppy I have one. Its a shame that people write things like this because there are many nice guys here. I think some of the women need to take a deeper look at themselves. The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

"I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!"....

Oh now I am sooooo hurt!!!

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 25, 2006 06:31

contessa_98 write:
MilBrat63 write:
Marzen759 write:
Here is a sampling of some posting topics:
Are there any good men left?
Yeah, where are all the honest men?
Are there any single bikers left(written by a woman)
Not looking for an axe murderer

I find these to be really strange. Maybe the women here just pick the wrong men or don't know what the h*ll they want. When a guy does post an answer you get comments like " I thought you were looking for a puppy". I don't need a puppy I have one. Its a shame that people write things like this because there are many nice guys here. I think some of the women need to take a deeper look at themselves. The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

Marzen,
I used to have a profile on another site Folks would send me stories, both good and bad, of their dates from Internet personals.
I've got a couple of ladies I know who needed help with computer related items. Things like how to post photos, negotiate sites etc...
If you had read some of the trash that comes into their e-mail boxes, seen the crude I.M.'s they receive, or been shown some of the disgusting photos that they get sent. Things sent by guys who they have never even talked with before... You'd understand why they post statements like your asking about.
Women on the personals receive a good bit more contacts then the men do. Their e-mail boxes will fill up much faster then ours do, and probably 90 percent of the mail they receive at some sites is from guys they really aren't interested in. Guy's who are nowhere near matching what's in their profiles match list.

A woman posting statements like you mentioned can actually help to weed out some of the trash before it gets to her.
Some of the married men, scumbags etc.. Will figure that she's a waste of their time, because she's not going to be one to let them play their games, they pass up her profile and go bother some sweet lady who was afraid to show some assertiveness in her profile.


As for them not finding Prince Charming.. Well heck, last I saw he lived in a fairy tale make believe land.
But we can all of us take the time, and make the effort to meet people and get to know them. It could be that some of us here will find someone who really lights the fire in our souls.

A lot of the "Dream" stories I received, was from couples who had met online and made it work very well. Have sat down to dinner with a few couples who it has worked well for.

Just give it as much time as it takes, and in the meantime...
Even if you never meet your match, you can still make some nice friends and have a few good dates.
Oh yea...There are gonna be some pretty bad ones too LOL..
I've had stories of ladies who posted someone else's photos, lied about weight, age, marital status, kids etc..
That's part of the price. Personally, I think it's worth the price.

Also it's on both sides that you get the lies, both men and women.
But from the stories I got sent to me over the time that profile site was up...it most certainly seems to be worse where the men are concerned.

Statements like this actually work for a woman that's why you see them in their profiles.

Thanks MilBrat for taking up for us. I couldn't have said that any better!


MilBrat I agree with Contessa I couldn
t have said that any better myself.Pat on the back for you!

  


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Posted on Sun, Apr 23, 2006 12:06

Suzananana write:
MilBrat63 write:
Suzananana write:
Whaddaya mean???? We're wonderful we women on here. Especially the ones on the east coast..........

And yup - we want a good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides... You see somethin wrong with that? Would be a nice change from the ones I've dated lmao......

Anyone have a clue what he's talkin about????


"good, honest, single, non ax-murderin man who rides..." LOL!
I like that!
Just made it the headline on my profile !
Now all I have ta do is wait two days for the site censors to decide it doesn't upset someones delicate sensibilities so it will show up.


Awwww Mil....See what you've gone and done?? Now I'm gonna have to sue ya for plagiarism lmao...

And I just peeked lol... It's there and I'm laugin - and that's always a good thing :))

Hey Suzananana, I owe you a thank you! (BTW Please don't sue me.. I have nothing and would hate to have to split it with ya. lol.).. I put it as my headline and it works well too, I got a few comments on it already.
Matter of fact the lady I am seeing from B.K., who came to the Tx. B.K. Rally with me, was laughing about it with her friends and family when I was visiting last week. ( I made sure and gave you credit for the line ..lol. ).



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Posted on Sun, Apr 23, 2006 11:14

MilBrat63 write:
Marzen759 write:
Here is a sampling of some posting topics:
Are there any good men left?
Yeah, where are all the honest men?
Are there any single bikers left(written by a woman)
Not looking for an axe murderer

I find these to be really strange. Maybe the women here just pick the wrong men or don't know what the h*ll they want. When a guy does post an answer you get comments like " I thought you were looking for a puppy". I don't need a puppy I have one. Its a shame that people write things like this because there are many nice guys here. I think some of the women need to take a deeper look at themselves. The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

Marzen,
I used to have a profile on another site Folks would send me stories, both good and bad, of their dates from Internet personals.
I've got a couple of ladies I know who needed help with computer related items. Things like how to post photos, negotiate sites etc...
If you had read some of the trash that comes into their e-mail boxes, seen the crude I.M.'s they receive, or been shown some of the disgusting photos that they get sent. Things sent by guys who they have never even talked with before... You'd understand why they post statements like your asking about.
Women on the personals receive a good bit more contacts then the men do. Their e-mail boxes will fill up much faster then ours do, and probably 90 percent of the mail they receive at some sites is from guys they really aren't interested in. Guy's who are nowhere near matching what's in their profiles match list.

A woman posting statements like you mentioned can actually help to weed out some of the trash before it gets to her.
Some of the married men, scumbags etc.. Will figure that she's a waste of their time, because she's not going to be one to let them play their games, they pass up her profile and go bother some sweet lady who was afraid to show some assertiveness in her profile.


As for them not finding Prince Charming.. Well heck, last I saw he lived in a fairy tale make believe land.
But we can all of us take the time, and make the effort to meet people and get to know them. It could be that some of us here will find someone who really lights the fire in our souls.

A lot of the "Dream" stories I received, was from couples who had met online and made it work very well. Have sat down to dinner with a few couples who it has worked well for.

Just give it as much time as it takes, and in the meantime...
Even if you never meet your match, you can still make some nice friends and have a few good dates.
Oh yea...There are gonna be some pretty bad ones too LOL..
I've had stories of ladies who posted someone else's photos, lied about weight, age, marital status, kids etc..
That's part of the price. Personally, I think it's worth the price.

Also it's on both sides that you get the lies, both men and women.
But from the stories I got sent to me over the time that profile site was up...it most certainly seems to be worse where the men are concerned.

Statements like this actually work for a woman that's why you see them in their profiles.

Thanks MilBrat for taking up for us. I couldn't have said that any better!



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Posted on Sat, Apr 22, 2006 12:19

Marzen759 write:
Here is a sampling of some posting topics:
Are there any good men left?
Yeah, where are all the honest men?
Are there any single bikers left(written by a woman)
Not looking for an axe murderer

I find these to be really strange. Maybe the women here just pick the wrong men or don't know what the h*ll they want. When a guy does post an answer you get comments like " I thought you were looking for a puppy". I don't need a puppy I have one. Its a shame that people write things like this because there are many nice guys here. I think some of the women need to take a deeper look at themselves. The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

Marzen,
I used to have a profile on another site Folks would send me stories, both good and bad, of their dates from Internet personals.
I've got a couple of ladies I know who needed help with computer related items. Things like how to post photos, negotiate sites etc...
If you had read some of the trash that comes into their e-mail boxes, seen the crude I.M.'s they receive, or been shown some of the disgusting photos that they get sent. Things sent by guys who they have never even talked with before... You'd understand why they post statements like your asking about.
Women on the personals receive a good bit more contacts then the men do. Their e-mail boxes will fill up much faster then ours do, and probably 90 percent of the mail they receive at some sites is from guys they really aren't interested in. Guy's who are nowhere near matching what's in their profiles match list.

A woman posting statements like you mentioned can actually help to weed out some of the trash before it gets to her.
Some of the married men, scumbags etc.. Will figure that she's a waste of their time, because she's not going to be one to let them play their games, they pass up her profile and go bother some sweet lady who was afraid to show some assertiveness in her profile.


As for them not finding Prince Charming.. Well heck, last I saw he lived in a fairy tale make believe land.
But we can all of us take the time, and make the effort to meet people and get to know them. It could be that some of us here will find someone who really lights the fire in our souls.

A lot of the "Dream" stories I received, was from couples who had met online and made it work very well. Have sat down to dinner with a few couples who it has worked well for.

Just give it as much time as it takes, and in the meantime...
Even if you never meet your match, you can still make some nice friends and have a few good dates.
Oh yea...There are gonna be some pretty bad ones too LOL..
I've had stories of ladies who posted someone else's photos, lied about weight, age, marital status, kids etc..
That's part of the price. Personally, I think it's worth the price.

Also it's on both sides that you get the lies, both men and women.
But from the stories I got sent to me over the time that profile site was up...it most certainly seems to be worse where the men are concerned.

Statements like this actually work for a woman that's why you see them in their profiles.



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Posted on Fri, Apr 21, 2006 19:59

very true Milbrat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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Posted on Fri, Apr 21, 2006 18:29

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
buggerbender write:
pawitchywoman write:
Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?" Women like to talk about problems more than men do--it helps us release painful situations and put things in perspective. When we find the process of "kissing a few frogs before we find our prince" a little frustrating, we come here to talk about it, share our feelings, and get support from the men and women on this site. When people respond, we know we are not the only one who has experienced that psycho, liar, cheater, etc.

Maybe you should lighten up!! Each of these posts gives you and others the opportunity to share that you are not one of the "bad guys."


Excellent point, and very true. There is a comedian named Bill Engvall, he does an very good job of pointing this out by using the example of two guys at a gym. One guy says; "Hey Bill, I'm getting a divorce."
Bill's response; "Man that , can you spot me?"
End of conversation.

Personally, in the short time I've been visiting this site, I've enjoyed reading the posts in the forums, and some of the profiles very much. I find it refreshing that the Ladies are so sure of themselves in what they want in a relationship, and certainly aren't shy about saying so. Some of the other sites think they have all the answers by having you spend a an hour (no exaggeration) filling out a bunch of questions, and then slam you into some math equation only to tell you they can't help you. The sites literally won't even let you view any other profiles other than what the site has determined you need to see. What I see allot of on this site is the direct opposite. I see allot of interaction, and getting to know one another. I also see allowances for those that simply want to meet and make new friends with similar interests, i.e. motorcycle riding. I see lasting "friendships" forming between folks that might otherwise never have met, because they had the opportunity to get to know one another in the forums, or IM. If it's by complaining about what pigs we men are (and we are you know), then so be it. The truth is that people don't always fit into an equation when it comes to there personal needs, and having the chance to talk amongst one another and compare wants and needs, and "why didn't that approach work, and this one did?" Mainly because what we look for in a friend/partner can and will change based upon personal experiences.

I've lived in all four corners of the US, and I've dated Ladies from all four corners. Even though they looked at the world each through different eyes, they were all pretty nice to me, as I tried to be to them. I cherished each and every one (including the ones that weren't so nice to me) for the opportunity to meet them.

I've been reading some of the comments and looking at the pictures on this site from some of the recent rallies. Somehow I don't see the "other" sites similar to this one talking about how folks got together and had a damn good time meeting one another, leaving with so many great memories...



I second that...

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 17:49

buggerbender write:
pawitchywoman write:
Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?" Women like to talk about problems more than men do--it helps us release painful situations and put things in perspective. When we find the process of "kissing a few frogs before we find our prince" a little frustrating, we come here to talk about it, share our feelings, and get support from the men and women on this site. When people respond, we know we are not the only one who has experienced that psycho, liar, cheater, etc.

Maybe you should lighten up!! Each of these posts gives you and others the opportunity to share that you are not one of the "bad guys."


Excellent point, and very true. There is a comedian named Bill Engvall, he does an very good job of pointing this out by using the example of two guys at a gym. One guy says; "Hey Bill, I'm getting a divorce."
Bill's response; "Man that , can you spot me?"
End of conversation.

Personally, in the short time I've been visiting this site, I've enjoyed reading the posts in the forums, and some of the profiles very much. I find it refreshing that the Ladies are so sure of themselves in what they want in a relationship, and certainly aren't shy about saying so. Some of the other sites think they have all the answers by having you spend a an hour (no exaggeration) filling out a bunch of questions, and then slam you into some math equation only to tell you they can't help you. The sites literally won't even let you view any other profiles other than what the site has determined you need to see. What I see allot of on this site is the direct opposite. I see allot of interaction, and getting to know one another. I also see allowances for those that simply want to meet and make new friends with similar interests, i.e. motorcycle riding. I see lasting "friendships" forming between folks that might otherwise never have met, because they had the opportunity to get to know one another in the forums, or IM. If it's by complaining about what pigs we men are (and we are you know), then so be it. The truth is that people don't always fit into an equation when it comes to there personal needs, and having the chance to talk amongst one another and compare wants and needs, and "why didn't that approach work, and this one did?" Mainly because what we look for in a friend/partner can and will change based upon personal experiences.

I've lived in all four corners of the US, and I've dated Ladies from all four corners. Even though they looked at the world each through different eyes, they were all pretty nice to me, as I tried to be to them. I cherished each and every one (including the ones that weren't so nice to me) for the opportunity to meet them.

I've been reading some of the comments and looking at the pictures on this site from some of the recent rallies. Somehow I don't see the "other" sites similar to this one talking about how folks got together and had a damn good time meeting one another, leaving with so many great memories...

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 19, 2006 17:42

Marzen759 write:
Here is a sampling of some posting topics:
Are there any good men left?
Yeah, where are all the honest men?
Are there any single bikers left(written by a woman)
Not looking for an axe murderer

I find these to be really strange. Maybe the women here just pick the wrong men or don't know what the h*ll they want. When a guy does post an answer you get comments like " I thought you were looking for a puppy". I don't need a puppy I have one. Its a shame that people write things like this because there are many nice guys here. I think some of the women need to take a deeper look at themselves. The odds are you won't meet Prince Charming here. But, if you lighten up a little you might meet a nice guy. I have found the west coat women to be much nicer than the rest. OK go ahead!!!

Hey Thanks for noticing...lol
Maybe its the weather here on the West Coast. We get a little more sunshine and the men on the West Coast hate uptight whiny women... We can't get away with it! Doesn't mean we don't try on occasion though.. ha ha



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