I want a bestfriend, someone who makes me feel safe enough to tell all my secrets to. Someone who in turn feels safe enough to tell me all of his, being positive and secure of the fact that there is no place for judgement when we expose ourselves.
Not only do I want that I also have it! I have known where it was all along but had to work on myself in order to achieve it with him.
Its not easy to be capable of REAL love.. our past creates some real problems in our ability to accept another completely, even the parts that make us insecure. I finally figured out that I could not get Real deep true love from him until I dealt with my own inner self!
Once I was able to do that? Everything I ever dreamed love could be...WAS!
Angelrider800 write: I'll reply...the next thing I want in a relationship???? OUT!!!!! I don't want a relationship, ever again! I want to be able to be friends and move on...that's what men do in the end anyway...move on.
m almost inclined to agree with you Angel on "Men moving on in the end" it does seem that way.
Good topic of conversation.
My ex... let me see.. Thought he was a kind, caring, loving, and HONEST man. Turns out he married me to get into the USA. Throw me for a loop? Oh yes it did, but just for a hot minute. Nothing I could do to change it, so I had to move on and NOT dwell on it.
I require only one thing from my relationship. HONESTY!!! For all the rest will and has fallen into place. Always remember that relationships take work.