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Posted on Fri, Mar 10, 2006 10:26

Bonjour ...je m'appelle Denise...Honesty and being nice are two very important factors in a new relationship,unfortunately this does not occur often...We must try harder to make the realtionship last...I hope my english is correct ,I'm better at french....merci beaucoup.....



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Posted on Sat, Mar 24, 2007 22:31

Without Honesty there is no relationship. Kindness ok, but communication, compromise, trust,openness,creativity, and side by side, no-one walks in front or behind. Two together.

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Posted on Fri, Jan 05, 2007 22:56

rac1257 write:
Obviously alot of you seem to mistake kindness for weakness. This has been a fatal flaw throughout history. Using tact to put it simply means you can tell someone to go to he11 and they want to know where to buy a ticket.


I agree. Kindness is more a vulnerability of openness rather than a weakness. If it is exploited/abused, then it has the potential of becoming a weakness.



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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 14:28

rac1257 write:
Obviously alot of you seem to mistake kindness for weakness. This has been a fatal flaw throughout history. Using tact to put it simply means you can tell someone to go to he11 and they want to know where to buy a ticket.

  


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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 10:38

Obviously alot of you seem to mistake kindness for weakness. This has been a fatal flaw throughout history. Using tact to put it simply means you can tell someone to go to he11 and they want to know where to buy a ticket.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 10:05

mick2003 write:
rac1257 write:
Being Honest & Nice are important in all relationships.


Ah! But the rub is: 1. If you are nice, you may not be able to be totally honest, and 2. If you are totally honest, I think it is impossible to always be nice about it (or at least have the other person think you are being nice about it).

This is a trick question, isn't it?

I have to agree with Mick, nice and honest are a contradiction in terms.. How about REAL?? REAL is refreshing, noone should be nice all the time, its phoney and boring and to me its an insult, it says that you are so insecure about what others think of you that you will not allow anyone to know the REAL you!!

Havent you ever been around someone who is nice ALL the time?? No matter what's goin on they are just nice... Im sorry but that just makes me want to hurl!! Much rather be around REAL people who speak thier mind... Im not talking about obnoxious but if a bunch of guys are being disrespectful to your lady and all the guy does is be nice?? He's no man at all!! Real men are only nice when its appropriate!! Good men can get down right nasty when its appropriate too!!



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Posted on Tue, Apr 25, 2006 11:48

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Really.. What is any relationship without honesty?


A Bad One?



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Posted on Sun, Apr 23, 2006 07:35

hi aj how are you doing im fine im sure hear for you smile wink andi

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 11, 2006 13:28

Really.. What is any relationship without honesty?



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Posted on Tue, Mar 14, 2006 11:03

In the middle of being honest & nice is tact. All this means is engaging ones brain before opening ones mouth.



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Posted on Mon, Mar 13, 2006 19:52

Well AJ

I like to know if I am talking to someone they are nice and honest, It does help. If they are not than I dont want to waste my time on the games. but hey that is just me...



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Posted on Mon, Mar 13, 2006 18:44

Being honest and nice go together after all those are the 2 main ingrediants for a relationship.. :)



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Posted on Mon, Mar 13, 2006 14:00

I agree RAC, communication and openess is up there too.

jj



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Posted on Mon, Mar 13, 2006 13:03

Bon Jour.

I cant really comprehend why so many people poke at honesty and being nice. Is this all expected from day one?

Don't these things take some time to matter and develop? I know that most of the time I meet new people, I dont give a rat's azz about them knowing "me".

And, vice versa I am sure...

AJ



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Posted on Sun, Mar 12, 2006 22:46

I agree

  


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Posted on Sun, Mar 12, 2006 12:36

Being Honest & Nice are important in all relationships.