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Posted on Wed, Feb 08, 2006 07:25

Got this from my BeliefNet this morning...Felt the need to share with friends here...Have a great day everyone & many hugs...
Love, Smile2005

Feb 08, 2006
Everything that is worthwhile in life is scary. Choosing a school, choosing a career, getting married, having kids--all those things are scary. If it is not fearful, it is not worthwhile.
Paul Tornier

Today's Inspirational Story

Manifesting True Love
If you don't believe love is possible for you, it will never happen. But if you do believe...
By Daphne Rose Kingma

If you've been sitting around in the singles' department, watching the handsome guy at the pool, if you've been overwhelmed by a career that hasn't left time for intimacy, if all your friends are married and you feel like the only person in the world who hasn't found, "the one," then you may believe that there won't ever be a true love for you.

If that's true, then you need to start believing that love does indeed await you. Just as nobody gets to Paris without believing that Paris exists, nobody falls in love without believing that a wonderful love is possible for them.
That's because conceptualization creates reality. In the story of almost every successful tycoon, we read that there was a belief that against all odds he or she would succeed some day. It's no different with you: what becomes manifest in your life arrives because consciously and unconsciously, you believe it can happen-whether it's a better job, a new car, or a true love.

The precondition of love's ever arriving is that you believe that somewhere out there is a real live person for you to love. If you believe it, it'll be true; if you don't, it will never happen. In fact, the person who could be the love of your life could step right up and look you in the eye, and you could say, "Excuse me, I've got an appointment," and head off in the opposite direction.

Believing that there's a true love for you may seem like a very small thing, but for a lot of people there's a great big hovering doubt that this wonderful thing called love could actually happen to them. Maybe you've already had twenty-four hour lousy relationships, maybe your fiance died in a car crash, maybe you've always believed you aren't pretty enough, smart enough, or successful enough, or you're so shy that you can't even imagine having the kind of conversation that could get you into a relationship in the first place.

Remember Cinderella? She lay in rags on her pile of cinders and dusted up after her nasty stepmother and stepsisters. The furthest thing from her mind was that she, the raggedy cindersweeper, could ever fall in love.

Yet deep inside, Cinderella had faith, because when the Fairy Godmother showed up, she was open to the possibility that something good could happen to her; she didn't run away.

Instead, she put her faith in the Fairy Godmother, she accepted that the pumpkin turned into a coach, and she stepped into the little glass slippers with absolute confidence. She didn't say, "My goodness, how do you expect me to walk on these, they're going to splinter the minute I put my feet inside them?" No, she was open to love. Deep inside, she already said, "I believe in love; I believe that miracles can happen."

If you don't believe in Fairy Godmothers, you'll certainly never see one. And if you don't believe in love, it will never show up for you either. So take a risk, find the faith, open your heart, and believe that the love of your life awaits you.

  


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Posted on Thu, May 04, 2006 20:19

SeminoleSlim write:
DirtyBikers4Eva write:
I am suddenly feeling way out numbered!! You guys are starting to sound like the women!! If a blow up doll makes ya happy?? I say, all the power to ya!! ROFLMAO!!

Oh, she doesn't make me COMPLETELY happy. But she does have some advantages;
- never a bar tab
- her size is easily adjustable
- doesn't eat much
- never talks back or gets moody
- no monthly visits from Aunt Flow
- never has to stop to pee on trips
- never have to go shopping with her
- doesn't object to me seeing other women
- fits easily into my saddlebag on long trips
- attracts a lot of attention (which we ALL want)
- faithfull and loyal
- she is ALWAYS in "the mood"

I'm sure there are other advantages, too. But I don't have time to list anymore right now ... gotta go, she's calling to me.

~Slim

Yep that
s whats needed like someone said a blow up doll or a dummy/puppet on a string



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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 13:56

Badbikerkitty write:
SeminoleSlim write:
DirtyBikers4Eva write:
I am suddenly feeling way out numbered!! You guys are starting to sound like the women!! If a blow up doll makes ya happy?? I say, all the power to ya!! ROFLMAO!!

Oh, she doesn't make me COMPLETELY happy. But she does have some advantages;
- never a bar tab
- her size is easily adjustable
- doesn't eat much
- never talks back or gets moody
- no monthly visits from Aunt Flow
- never has to stop to pee on trips
- never have to go shopping with her
- doesn't object to me seeing other women
- fits easily into my saddlebag on long trips
- attracts a lot of attention (which we ALL want)
- faithfull and loyal
- she is ALWAYS in "the mood"

I'm sure there are other advantages, too. But I don't have time to list anymore right now ... gotta go, she's calling to me.

~Slim

yer not right....lmfao



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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 07:33

SeminoleSlim write:
Blondeambition write:
You sound like a special guy and when the right woman for you is ready in her life for you, she will find you. Stay cool, Terie

I've was always told I was special when I was in school. I even rode the short yellow bus with all the other special people. :D

~Slim

Slim, now you need to change that frame of mind..Thats an order!!!! Kisses, Terie



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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 06:52

jdbarr12 write:
sure there is, just have to love yourself first, i don't mean be stuck on yourself, but be comfortable where you are, he or she will fall into your life, and be accepting of who you are without trying to change you, it will happen, just don't expect it

Thank you jdbarr...

  


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Posted on Fri, Apr 28, 2006 06:36

SeminoleSlim write:
DirtyBikers4Eva write:
I am suddenly feeling way out numbered!! You guys are starting to sound like the women!! If a blow up doll makes ya happy?? I say, all the power to ya!! ROFLMAO!!

Oh, she doesn't make me COMPLETELY happy. But she does have some advantages;
- never a bar tab
- her size is easily adjustable
- doesn't eat much
- never talks back or gets moody
- no monthly visits from Aunt Flow
- never has to stop to pee on trips
- never have to go shopping with her
- doesn't object to me seeing other women
- fits easily into my saddlebag on long trips
- attracts a lot of attention (which we ALL want)
- faithfull and loyal
- she is ALWAYS in "the mood"

I'm sure there are other advantages, too. But I don't have time to list anymore right now ... gotta go, she's calling to me.

~Slim

yer not right....lmfao



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Posted on Fri, Apr 28, 2006 06:04

smile2005 write:
WarHippy write:
I've seen so many poems and nice sayings about true Love in here that I wanted to share a little thing that's been on my fridge door for about forever. Here goes:
Every one longs to give himself completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be Loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God, to His children, says: "No, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled, and content with being Loved by Me, to have an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone, discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with Me, exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, stop wishing and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing-one that you cannot omagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow me to bring it to you. You just keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things, keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am. Keep listening and learning the things I tell you. You just wait, that's all. Don't be anxious. Don't look at the things you want.You just keep looking off and up to Me or you'll miss what I want to show you. And then when you are ready, I'll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you could dream of. You see, until you are ready (I'm working even at this moment to have both of you ready at the same time) until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life that I have prepared for you, you will not be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me, and this perfect love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relation with Me, and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection, and love that I offer you with Myself. Know that I Love you utterly. I am the Almighty God. Believe it and be satisfied.
Anonymous

WHEW!! That took alot out of me, but ya know what, it might be true, if ya look too hard for something, you look right past it. Can I get an Amen from the congregation??

Amen WarHippy! Thank you!!

War Hippy: AAAAaaamen_Aaaamen....
That rocks!
grazi,

DD



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Posted on Fri, Apr 28, 2006 05:45

SeminoleSlim write:
DirtyBikers4Eva write:
I am suddenly feeling way out numbered!! You guys are starting to sound like the women!! If a blow up doll makes ya happy?? I say, all the power to ya!! ROFLMAO!!

Oh, she doesn't make me COMPLETELY happy. But she does have some advantages;
- never a bar tab
- her size is easily adjustable
- doesn't eat much
- never talks back or gets moody
- no monthly visits from Aunt Flow
- never has to stop to pee on trips
- never have to go shopping with her
- doesn't object to me seeing other women
- fits easily into my saddlebag on long trips
- attracts a lot of attention (which we ALL want)
- faithfull and loyal
- she is ALWAYS in "the mood"

I'm sure there are other advantages, too. But I don't have time to list anymore right now ... gotta go, she's calling to me.

~Slim

And, think of all the braggin you can do to your buddies,
I did her so hard she exploded when she got off.
I did her so hard, I ran out of water bed patch kits.
I f**ked her til all she could do was squeak.
I was the first one to pop her "RealSkin" authentic feeling synthetic hymen.
I was so deep into her that I started hearing gurgling sounds in her throat.
Pretty soon they'll start writing about your sexual prowess on the bathroom walls, right next to the poem that starts, "Here I sit, broken hearted...", and below the hole in the wall with the note, "If you want a free B**w J&b, put your thing in this hole at 3PM

  


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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 05:15

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
I am suddenly feeling way out numbered!! You guys are starting to sound like the women!! If a blow up doll makes ya happy?? I say, all the power to ya!! ROFLMAO!!

Oh, she doesn't make me COMPLETELY happy. But she does have some advantages;
- never a bar tab
- her size is easily adjustable
- doesn't eat much
- never talks back or gets moody
- no monthly visits from Aunt Flow
- never has to stop to pee on trips
- never have to go shopping with her
- doesn't object to me seeing other women
- fits easily into my saddlebag on long trips
- attracts a lot of attention (which we ALL want)
- faithfull and loyal
- she is ALWAYS in "the mood"

I'm sure there are other advantages, too. But I don't have time to list anymore right now ... gotta go, she's calling to me.

~Slim



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 20:12

stillme67 write:

WarHippy write:

SeminoleSlim write:
I think I finally found a woman I can trust to remain faithfull when I am gone. When I leave I just let the air out of her.

~Slim

Does she have a sister??



yea but she aint cheap...
realdolldotcom
hahaha!!!!

The ones that can't get away never are cheap

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 09:00

stillme67 write:

WarHippy write:

SeminoleSlim write:
I think I finally found a woman I can trust to remain faithfull when I am gone. When I leave I just let the air out of her.

~Slim

Does she have a sister??



yea but she aint cheap...
realdolldotcom
hahaha!!!!

I am suddenly feeling way out numbered!! You guys are starting to sound like the women!! If a blow up doll makes ya happy?? I say, all the power to ya!! ROFLMAO!!



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 08:40

WarHippy write:
I've seen so many poems and nice sayings about true Love in here that I wanted to share a little thing that's been on my fridge door for about forever. Here goes:
Every one longs to give himself completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be Loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God, to His children, says: "No, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled, and content with being Loved by Me, to have an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone, discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with Me, exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, stop wishing and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing-one that you cannot omagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow me to bring it to you. You just keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things, keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am. Keep listening and learning the things I tell you. You just wait, that's all. Don't be anxious. Don't look at the things you want.You just keep looking off and up to Me or you'll miss what I want to show you. And then when you are ready, I'll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than you could dream of. You see, until you are ready (I'm working even at this moment to have both of you ready at the same time) until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life that I have prepared for you, you will not be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me, and this perfect love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relation with Me, and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection, and love that I offer you with Myself. Know that I Love you utterly. I am the Almighty God. Believe it and be satisfied.
Anonymous

WHEW!! That took alot out of me, but ya know what, it might be true, if ya look too hard for something, you look right past it. Can I get an Amen from the congregation??

Amen WarHippy! Thank you!!

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 07:13

WarHippy write:

SeminoleSlim write:
I think I finally found a woman I can trust to remain faithfull when I am gone. When I leave I just let the air out of her.

~Slim

Does she have a sister??


yea but she aint cheap...
realdolldotcom
hahaha!!!!



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 06:09

SeminoleSlim write:
I think I finally found a woman I can trust to remain faithfull when I am gone. When I leave I just let the air out of her.

~Slim

Does she have a sister??

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 05:37

I think I finally found a woman I can trust to remain faithfull when I am gone. When I leave I just let the air out of her.

~Slim

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You sound like a special guy and when the right woman for you is ready in her life for you, she will find you. Stay cool, Terie

I've was always told I was special when I was in school. I even rode the short yellow bus with all the other special people. :D

~Slim



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 03:06

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:
Don't know if I believe in the Love Fairy or not.

Probably not.

I really thought there was such a thing at one time. I had all the dreams of growing old together and still being in love and holding hands as we walked down the street when we were 80, and watching my grandchidren grow up and come visit me for the holidays. When I see an old couple together today, I feel very sad - not for them - but for what I've always wanted but never seemed to be able to have.

But after completely letting go of the guards and walls around my heart a few times, only to be completely devestated by an unfaithful wife (on more than one occasion). I don't think anyone could ever break thru the walls again. They are taller, thicker, and stronger than ever before. I don't like heartache. I'd rather someone beat me to a bloody pulp than to have my heart broken again.

It would take a very special and very strong lady. One that was willing to be patient at taking the walls down, one brick at a time. She would need to be determined to keep working at it because she knew there was a very big, loving (and scared) heart on the inside.
I haven't found such a woman to exist (so far) because its far too easy to move on for a quicker catch.

The pain and depression I suffered for several years at the end of my marriage and after the divorce is something I don't ever care to repeat. I lost dignity, self esteem and respect for myself. That's been behind me now and has been for a few years. I am a pretty content and happy person in every other part of my life. Just not so in the Department of Love.

Yes, I'd love to find true life-long companion and be in love. But, like I said, I don't think there is a woman who is willing to invest that much effort. So, I drift around and try to find happiness when and where I can. It's my defense mechanism for guarding my heart and hiding my fears, I guess.

Right on Brother! We have common ground to stand on. As you were telling your story, you were telling mine, too. My 1st Marriage lasted 11 years, and at 10 years we were still holding hands when we walked, she was my Lover AND my best friend, and I couldn't even imagine living my life without her to come home to. I see her today and theres just a blank spot in my heart where she used to be. They say that finding Love and losing it is better than never finding Love at all, but I have to disagree. Knowing how Love felt and never finding that bond again is much worse. So I look at those old folks and I know how they're feeling, and it usually puts a smile on my face, remembering the days when all I needed was my ol' lady and my scooter, and I was good to go


I know I have a big mouth... so Ill apologize for butting in but...

One thing that I have learned is that when you see those elderly couples who are still holding hands after 50 years you need to remember that (my grandmother told me this, she was married 60 yrs to the same man)thier marriage was not always blissful nor smoothe and perfect, they may have had a ffairs, fights, betrayals etc. All of the same things we hide from.. The difference is, they forgave, chose to dwell on the good, and never gave up no matter how bad it got!! Anything worth having is worth fighting for and hurting for. No matter how many times you have been hurt and no matter how awful it was, What is more awful than dying all alone???

People are weak, they make mistakes, they get off track..all of us do it! I look back at my failed relationships and where I used to feel soo wronged I now look at what my part of the failure was. There are no victims, I really think we either choose to forgive it and learn from it or we choose to torture ourselves with pity, which in the end only disables us as future partners!

  


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SeminoleSlim write:
Don't know if I believe in the Love Fairy or not.

Probably not.

I really thought there was such a thing at one time. I had all the dreams of growing old together and still being in love and holding hands as we walked down the street when we were 80, and watching my grandchidren grow up and come visit me for the holidays. When I see an old couple together today, I feel very sad - not for them - but for what I've always wanted but never seemed to be able to have.

But after completely letting go of the guards and walls around my heart a few times, only to be completely devestated by an unfaithful wife (on more than one occasion). I don't think anyone could ever break thru the walls again. They are taller, thicker, and stronger than ever before. I don't like heartache. I'd rather someone beat me to a bloody pulp than to have my heart broken again.

It would take a very special and very strong lady. One that was willing to be patient at taking the walls down, one brick at a time. She would need to be determined to keep working at it because she knew there was a very big, loving (and scared) heart on the inside.
I haven't found such a woman to exist (so far) because its far too easy to move on for a quicker catch.

The pain and depression I suffered for several years at the end of my marriage and after the divorce is something I don't ever care to repeat. I lost dignity, self esteem and respect for myself. That's been behind me now and has been for a few years. I am a pretty content and happy person in every other part of my life. Just not so in the Department of Love.

Yes, I'd love to find true life-long companion and be in love. But, like I said, I don't think there is a woman who is willing to invest that much effort. So, I drift around and try to find happiness when and where I can. It's my defense mechanism for guarding my heart and hiding my fears, I guess.

Right on Brother! We have common ground to stand on. As you were telling your story, you were telling mine, too. My 1st Marriage lasted 11 years, and at 10 years we were still holding hands when we walked, she was my Lover AND my best friend, and I couldn't even imagine living my life without her to come home to. I see her today and theres just a blank spot in my heart where she used to be. They say that finding Love and losing it is better than never finding Love at all, but I have to disagree. Knowing how Love felt and never finding that bond again is much worse. So I look at those old folks and I know how they're feeling, and it usually puts a smile on my face, remembering the days when all I needed was my ol' lady and my scooter, and I was good to go



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SeminoleSlim write:
Blondeambition write: Hey Slim, I have a question for ya, about how long on the average would you like walls should start coming down? I'm sure its different for each individual, but I went with this guy for a year and fell deeply in love with him, but he just seemed numb like he just didn't see it. I felt like I was constantly being tested and to see how much I would put up with. Well if he didn't see my genuine loyal love after a year, I had had enough, I felt I deserved better. He let a good woman slip through his hands. It felt the relationship was one sided. He claimed he loved me, but I think he used the words loosly and not following through with actions etc. Life is about risks and everytime we get involved with someone, we need to give them the benefit of a doubt, because no one deserves paying the price for past pain. Sincerely, Terie
Terie, you're right as far as it being different for each individual. And right again on the fact that no one should have to pay for someone else's past dirty deeds. That's not fair to the new person. So, I guess it would take time and understanding. I think if a woman knew about what I have been thru they would have a better understanding as to why I might be the way I am. Then, if they truly felt for me they might be willing to work a little more at making me feel my heart was safe with them. And at times when a ghost from the past appeared, be understanding as to why and understand it is not them. I know that's probably a pretty hard thing to do.

I consider myself a pretty open person. I sometimes reveal more feelings that I probably should. But I am a straight up guy and very direct - both when I like something and when I don't. I'm also an ex-cop/detective so I tend to have my atennas up all the time. So, I don't have a problem of letting someone know how I feel. I guess it comes down to me feeling "safe". I have to feel safe that I can allow myself to feel vulnerable with someone. That means trusting ... which is hard for me to do.

I guess I am a difficult case, huh? I need therapy or serious drugs. Anyone have any morphine? Oh my goodness Slim, your so funny. But on a serious note, what you expressed makes sense and is only fair. If someone cared enough for you and was understanding of you after you expressed yourself and opened up, then hey, their a keeper for sure. Your feelings are honest feelings and nothing wrong with that. You sound like a special guy and when the right woman for you is ready in her life for you, she will find you. Stay cool, Terie

  


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Posted on Tue, Apr 25, 2006 05:59

LET THEM WALK

who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.

Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ... LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth ... LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ... LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude ... LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better ... LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him ... LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship ... LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves ... LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed ... LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to ... LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2006!!! LET IT GO!!! Get Right or Get Left ... think about it, and then LET IT GO!!!



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