so true, i met a guy on this site everything was great then calls and texts got less and less, im busy and so on, guess what? he decided we live to far apart. funny thing though, all his friends are female, mmmm what could that mean?
moonliteraven write: Lying well that is punishiable by witchcraft but remember-Wiccan Rede, you shall hame none! What comes around goes around and you will bring bad unto yourself three fold! I'm Wiccan and have had thought of it myself at times but it's not worth it course the thought is there!;)
Moonliteraven, I have never studied Wicca, I just "AM". Anyway, I am told that the Universal Laws of Karma allow for a type of "Return Karma Spell" which allows the one receiving negative energy to send it back to the purveyor of such energy--right away--with no consequences--when it might be instrumental in teaching a lesson. The lessons can be three, six or nine-fold--whatever your religious beliefs ascribe to.
Wicca is a religion that?s been around since before Christianity.
Actually it is one of the 3 main Norse faiths, and is more female and earth based than Christianity.
Contrary to what those who choose to persecute or lie about us wish to believe, Wicca is a very peaceful, harmonious and balanced way of thinking and life which promotes oneness with the divine and all which exists.
To be a Witch is to be a healer, a teacher, a seeker, a giver, and a protector of all things. For the past several hundred years, the image of the Witch has been mistakenly associated with evil, heathenism, and unrighteousness.
the medieval church of the 15th through 18th centuries created these myths to convert the followers of the old nature based religions to the churches way of thinking
Witchcraft is a spiritual system that fosters the free thought and will of the individual, encourages learning and an understanding of the earth and nature thereby affirming the divinity in all living things. Most importantly however, it teaches responsibility. We accept responsibility for our actions and deeds as clearly a result of the choices we make. We do not blame an exterior entity or being for our shortcomings, weaknesses or mistakes. If we mess up or do something that brings harm to another, we have no one but ourselves to blame and we must face the consequences resulting from those actions. No ifs, ands or buts and no whining...
We acknowledge the cycles of nature, the lunar phases and the seasons to celebrate our spirituality and to worship the divine. It is a belief system that allows the Witch to work with, not in supplication to deities with the intent of living in harmony and achieving balance with all things.
The spells that we do involve healing, love, harmony, wisdom and creativity. The potions that we stir might be a headache remedy, a cold tonic, or an herbal flea bath for our pets. We strive to gain knowledge of and use the natural remedies placed on this earth by the divine for our benefit instead of using synthetic drugs unless absolutely necessary.
Wiccan believe that the spirit of the One, Goddess and God exist in all things. In the trees, rain, flowers, the sea, in each other and all of natures creatures. This means that we must treat "all things" of the Earth as aspects of the divine. We attempt to honor and respect life in all its many manifestations both seen and unseen.
Wiccan learn from and revere the gift of nature from divine creation by celebrating the cycles of the sun, moon and seasons. We search within ourselves for the cycles that correspond to those of the natural world and try to live in harmony with the movement of this universal energy. Our teachers are the trees, rivers, lakes, meadows, mountains and animals as well as others who have walked this path before us. This belief creates a reverence and respect for the environment, and all life upon the Earth.
We also revere the spirits of the elements of Earth, Air, Fire and Water which combine to manifest all creation. From these four elements we obtain insight to the rhythms of nature and understand they are also the rhythms of our own lives.
MoonNStarz3X3 write: Well I think I'm gonna jump right in here, Spyder - you want to know what women see in men? I can tell you this much, what I've seen alot of is selfishness, in many different ways. It's a big reason why I removed myself from the whole dating thing for a long time, I'd much rather be on my own than dealing with a selfish man. I know all men are not like that, but I seem to attract em, It's like I have "selfish men apply here" tattoed on my damn forehead or something!
here hoping you find a selfish man! one who wants you all for himself that is!
Ladykat610 write: Personally I am a little disappointed by the guys who lead you to believe they are available, woo you hot and heavy, and then you find out there is a woman in their life or they go back to the last one cause they weren't really over them. I know women do this too but how about being emotionally and physically independent of a mate before contacting and wooing others. Dang what does it take to find a good man! lol
whats it take? umm, long blonde hair, nice b**bbes, sexy black outfit.. oh, wait, you got all that! u should have no trouble at all!
chopangel66 write: well pPeaches I must say i agree with pawitchywoman, men are usually more comfortable with thier significant other and tend to show their true selves,alot of them(not all) think they have to be "cool" in front of their friends, usually a sign of insicurity since thier friends are usually doing the same"cool" thing. Lying well that is punishiable by witchcraft but remember-Wiccan Rede, you shall hame none! What comes around goes around and you will bring bad unto yourself three fold! I'm Wiccan and have had thought of it myself at times but it's not worth it course the thought is there!;)
well pPeaches I must say i agree with pawitchywoman, men are usually more comfortable with thier significant other and tend to show their true selves,alot of them(not all) think they have to be "cool" in front of their friends, usually a sign of insicurity since thier friends are usually doing the same"cool" thing. Lying well that is punishiable by witchcraft but remember-Wiccan Rede, you shall hame none! What comes around goes around and you will bring bad unto yourself three fold! I'm Wiccan and have had thought of it myself at times but it's not worth it course the thought is there!;)
MoonNStarz3X3 write: I hear ya seeme, It's all about choices & how much I'm willing to accept. I know there are good men out there, which is why I'm diving back into the dating pool again.....been out of it for awhile but it's definitely time to get out there again
I hate to say this but if the truth be told that is why I think I struggle in relationships is being so selfish, at least part of it. I'm finding that I too do much better when I'm not involed with someone. I was talking to my brother last night and I told him that I do not want to end up like Mom and Dad and to be alone the rest of my life. In my defense, the tattoo I have is the sick need only apply.
My opinion... Its a two way street, relationships take work, time and forgiveness, acceptance and understanding. We all present ourselves in the best light in order to impress the opposite sex. It takes time to trust and get to know who the other really is. You can't make a decision about a person by one aspect of thier personality... you have to put all of who they are together and then decide. We all have our quirks, shortcomings and faults. Only judge another by what u see in the mirror and if u can see even one thing similar in yourself then u must cut some slack on another.
Lying Men....hmmm, I like them lying in fresh grass, on a slumber bag, in a tent! Or lying, on a slumber bag, in a tipi with a cozy fire! Or lying in a huge bed w/satin sheets, feather comforter. Or lying in the hot springs!!! (head above the water, of course) ooooh, that's the kind of lying Men, I like!! Laying or lying...sheeeesh!! I know, I'm being retawded!!! lol