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I want to thank the family here at BK
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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 15:26

I just came back from burying my daughter and I cannot tell you how I feel right now. It is so heartbreaking to have to bury a child. I am so sad but can't believe the emails and responses I Have received from you wonderful people. I was talking to Doc on the pho ne and I have been with 1% clubs since I was 16 and married to one in the 70's. There is nothing like the closeness of the biker community. We are always ready to reach out to each other or to any cause that we support for that I am grateful for over 30 years to be part of this community.

My daughter died from drugs and alcohol, she could never dig herself out of the he ll hole she was in. I want everyone to know when you pick up you made your choice and each time you pick up you don't have the choice the alcohol and drugs take that choice away. I don't want to preach, I'm just so sad and angry that this disease is do deadly and I know each of us have had many deaths from this disease.

A lot of you asked for help and if I need $$. My daughter loved kids and worked with them. If you like we set up donations under her name for The little Wanderers here in Boston. Its a home for children who have no one. Please email me if you like and I will give you the address and my daughters name.

Again, thank you all for your support and condolences. I felt everyone of your prayers. I love you all, the biker community is the best.

jj



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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 18:58

Hi JJ ..
I hope you are doing better , lord knows it's been tough for you llately and I hope and pray it all gets better real soon. When a large group of people come together and stand strong and show their support for anyone that needs it for any reason there is an understood thank you already cemented in place. Everyone knows you apreciate the thoughts and prayers and offers of help given to you and we all do these things without asking anything in return , the only thing anyone asks in return is that you find a way to put the smile back on your face when you are ready to do so. I've made some really good friends on here and I've learned alot , I know I have a larger base of friends I can call upon if there is ever a time I am in need , and they also know I ma there for them no matter the request. Try and cheer up , and try and get better , anything needed to help you do so would be happily done. Happy New Year to you and your family..
Beep Beep

  


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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 11:01

jj,
Hi Darlin, Know Your In My Heart And Thoughts,And Send Me The Addy With Your Daughter's Name I Will Donaate, And Again If You Need Anything Know I Am Here Lots Of Love Coming To You From Worcester, Mass
BaddAzzWitch

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 18:09

to everything/turn,turn,turn,a time to be born, a time to die, a time to sow,a time to reap...
your daughter is with Christ, where all tears are wiped away, where all addictions and hurts and infirmities are wiped away. Would that those still locked in this struggle of life could know that peace! My prayers are for you tonite jj, may u find His strength in your time of need. amen



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 16:25

JJ, I am so sorry for your loss. I just can't imagine your pain and what you are feeling right now. Know that you have lots of bk family who love and care about you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 10:15

JJ....MY MEMBERSHIP IS EXPIRED TILL JAN....PLEASE ADDY ME WITH THE INFOR FOR YOU DAUGHTER AND THE FOUNDATION.....ONCE AGAIN I AM SO VERY SORRY....YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT DRUGS AND ETOH BEING SUCH A HORRIBLE DISEASE....MY SON HAD YEARS OF PROBLEMS, ALMOST LOST HIM SEVERAL TIMES, SO I UNDERSTAND YOUR FEARS OF THE DISEASE, BUT CAN'T EVEN FATHOM YOUR PAIN......BUT IF IT HELPS AT ALL, PLEASE REMEMBER YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS, AND AS EVERYONE HAS SAID, JUST CALL..........

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 08:51

JJ,

I am here for you too. In any way. I will continue to send warmest wishes regularly for you in the coming months.

From one mom to another:
DD

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 08:24

JJ,
Your in my thoughts and prayers..

Praying you find the strength and peace in your time of loss..

Softail

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 06:30

JJ

My hear goes out to you. Honey, if you need anything, just give a holler. We are all here for you no matter what.

Spyder, you are such a sweetheart.



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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 06:22

Oh JJ...reading what you wrote just breaks my heart...Again, I can't even imagine what you are going through or feeling. I know how much I love my one & only 21 year old daughter & how she means the world to me. Very warm hugs coming your way & continued prayers...

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 04:56

JJ~
I am at a loss for words.
My heart go's out to you, yet I admire your courage.
Please send me the addy.
Your in my thoughts and prayers.

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 19:32

JJ

There is nothing that i can say that can ease your pain---butttttttttt if you need anything let me know

P



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 19:21

JJ,
Let me know when you are back in the cites, I will take you out to dinner if you would like. My thoughts are and have been with you. I talked to Tiny sunday night right after you called.
Spyder



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 19:11

My deepest deepest sympathy's to you sis!
I lost my dad to heroin and know the devastation that drugs and or alcohol can do to lives.
I have got some big shoulders if you need them.Peace to you



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 19:08

I have chills.. reading this and I am so sorry. My son is in a drug rehab now. Soon to be home, and reading this scares me so. Though I cannot fathom the feelings of your loss you are in my thoughts and prayers.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 18:29

jj...My heart is breaking as I'm thinking about your daughter...I'm so sorry

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 17:11

Like it's been said many times before, there is nothing we can say to help the hurt. Just know if there was anything that could be done to steal some of that hurt, for even just a little while, we'd all take our turn.

Many prayers are being said for you and your family. Be strong and let us know if there is anything we can do.

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 16:55

JJ.. anything we can do to help , we will do . I'm sorry for your loss and hope you feel better soon.

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 16:41

JJ........you are in my heart and in my prayers. I buried my own daughter many years ago, and I lost part of myself when I did it. You have everyone here praying for you and wanting to help you. Please do not hesitate to ask. Goodwitchesride at lycos dot com will bring you directly to me sister.......for whatever it is that you need.
Love to you and my wish for peace in your heart. HarleyBlueEyes (Bonnie)



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 15:50

So sorry for your loss JJ. I cant even imagine what you are going thru. My thoughts and prayers are with you. If I can do anything for you , let me know. JJ



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