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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 05:58

tripper2006 write:
You girls have so much pizz in your vinegar, you could find something wrong with Mother T, based just on a rumor!


No, not really Tripper. We all know this guy pretty well. We know of what we speak.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 03:48

Sorry guys.....but I don't think that we are doing any judging, or forming any opinions here. It's plainly written in black and white. (Well not exactly plainly - you have to read between the sugar-coated bullshi*t to "get" it - but it's there....)

The confession of abuse is written in the garbled, pretentious words of the person who started this thread. Clear your minds and re-read it my friends. Or try to anyway Greenie lol....

You may be able to discern the words of guilt, and the asking of forgiveness for "past behaviors", no matter how clouded they seem to be.

I for one, am sickk and tired of the "abuser" getting the benefit of the doubt in every avenue of our society....especially from his peers.

Omg - next are ya gonna tell me, "She deserved it" ???.....

Plain and simple... He picked up his hand to a woman. He struck her. He needs to pay the price. And part of that price is being left by his woman and being chastised by his peers. Sorry - no sympathy from me. Nope. None...

It's wrong man.... just wrong.....

And don't you all let such deceptively sweet words fool you the same way the writer is using them to fool himself....

Isn't it time to stop protecting the abuser ???

  


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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 14:34

See alot of judgements made on here. Only thing i havent seen is where any of you were there to see what had even happened. It's easy for some to be judgemental when they only see or hear one side of anything. Just hope if i ever go to court again NONE of you are on the jury



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 11:42

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Maybe after all this time quoting prose from the 15th century, he can find a more current edition to quote his BS from, thus allowing any future victims the ability to understand the crap he distributes. I used to find "his" words extremely comical and entertaining, not ever thinking someone would actually think they're his........or truthful.



Hey, nice to see you again Heritage. It's been awhile.

Unfortunately, his tactis work on women that are at a low point in their lives. He takes advantage of weakness and vulnerability. I've been run over by someone like that too. It's not pretty, but it makes you learn really fast what to watch out for.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 09:22

Maybe after all this time quoting prose from the 15th century, he can find a more current edition to quote his BS from, thus allowing any future victims the ability to understand the crap he distributes. I used to find "his" words extremely comical and entertaining, not ever thinking someone would actually think they're his........or truthful.

  


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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 06:11

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The dude needs to go work making Hallmark cards for a living.Then he can give the proceeds to a battered womens shelter.Just one mans opinion.


And a damn good one if you ask me.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 29, 2005 05:25

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The dude needs to go work making Hallmark cards for a living.Then he can give the proceeds to a battered womens shelter.Just one mans opinion.


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 16:43

The dude needs to go work making Hallmark cards for a living.Then he can give the proceeds to a battered womens shelter.Just one mans opinion.

  


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Posted on Wed, Dec 28, 2005 06:18

Hot4Hogs write:
grnidwitch write:

Suzananana write:

Hot4Hogs write:
Suzananana write:
Oh my, the pain that I am hearing in these posts.... and the reality I am hearing as well.

It all comes down to this for me... Walk like you talk !!! If your actions in real life don't look a thing like the words you write, then you are a liar... plain and simple, and you have no business subjecting another human being to your cruelty and deceit. If you are dishonest with yourself, how can you possibly be honest with anyone else ???

Actions speak way louder than mere words....

H4H... your words are right on...and I salute you, once again, for the balls to post 'em. You have my deepest respect.....

Thanx Suz! Yes, I do have a set...and they're chrome!



Hahahahaha.... I'm gonna ask PBG is I can borrow the necklace Weenie bought her... Brass Balls....

Helllll... I'll buy you your own.... in chrome of course lol..

But all kidding aside, any man who can spew such words of compassion and understanding, and then turn around and act so totally opposite, and THEN come back and try to defend those acts with more insincere words, is just rationalizing those bad acts, and trying to make it ok within himself.

Your words can't fix you SS..... No words can. Perhaps its time to seek out the professionals who may be able to help you.....



Hell, I give you and H4H much credit for understanding what he says. I cannot get a grip on his words at all. Am I the only one that gets confused with his lengthy/wordy prose crap?

That's his whole purpose and magnetism, Grnid. And he is good at deceptive and seemingly romantic prose. But what it actually is...is, well sshit. He draws you in with the flowery words and hooks you with a few cognitive verses. Reminiscent of a Sociopath.


I kinda figured that out. Used car salesman tactics. Keep talking and they won't notice the crappy suit and rusted out piece of crap he's trying to sell.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 14:10

Suzananana write:

Hot4Hogs write:
Suzananana write:
Oh my, the pain that I am hearing in these posts.... and the reality I am hearing as well.

It all comes down to this for me... Walk like you talk !!! If your actions in real life don't look a thing like the words you write, then you are a liar... plain and simple, and you have no business subjecting another human being to your cruelty and deceit. If you are dishonest with yourself, how can you possibly be honest with anyone else ???

Actions speak way louder than mere words....

H4H... your words are right on...and I salute you, once again, for the balls to post 'em. You have my deepest respect.....

Thanx Suz! Yes, I do have a set...and they're chrome!



Hahahahaha.... I'm gonna ask PBG is I can borrow the necklace Weenie bought her... Brass Balls....

Helllll... I'll buy you your own.... in chrome of course lol..

But all kidding aside, any man who can spew such words of compassion and understanding, and then turn around and act so totally opposite, and THEN come back and try to defend those acts with more insincere words, is just rationalizing those bad acts, and trying to make it ok within himself.

Your words can't fix you SS..... No words can. Perhaps its time to seek out the professionals who may be able to help you.....


Hell, I give you and H4H much credit for understanding what he says. I cannot get a grip on his words at all. Am I the only one that gets confused with his lengthy/wordy prose crap?



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 14:07

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Promise or History....

A promise made and broken to whom?

History has been known to repeat itself...but can it be changed and learned productively? Or do we always find comfort in it because of it's familiarity?

Why do we run when we see ourselves afraid of what's before us and why not face it and learn from the actions?

Why hold back the truth from people you say you love and tell lies to please them knowing that one lie can only add up to more to cover the first?

Leaving at the end of the month...
When it was found out about the communication...I moved out...was apologized to and asked to return...and I did...

He tells me of being over her...

But what is he telling her?

Is he telling her of the times we laugh together? Cry together?

Is he telling her of the times we hold one another like we did last evening...caressing each other's arms, face, and just embracing the moment?

Did he tell her of us laughing about the lights on the tree and singing carols that didn't make sense?

Does he tell her the things he tells me?

Does he tell me the things he tells her?

These are just a few questions that will probably never be answered.....for me....for her....or for him.


You are stronger than you think sistergirl. Hold on and things will get better, you'll see.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 06:16

But all kidding aside, any man who can spew such words of compassion and understanding, and then turn around and act so totally opposite, and THEN come back and try to defend those acts with more insincere words, is just rationalizing those bad acts, and trying to make it ok within himself.

Your words can't fix you SS..... No words can. Perhaps its time to seek out the professionals who may be able to help you.....

I agree with you 110 % Suzzzz.. but I don't think that there is a profession that can help such a deceiving liar.. as they say.. what comes around , goes around .. and I know it will come back ten fold.. and I'll laugh my AZZ off when it does.. the word Hypocrite comes to mind.. I'm just happy that someone else has been able to see through the pile of crap being spewed.. I applaud you both !! and can't wait to see you in NY.. gonna be a blassssst...

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 27, 2005 01:35

Hot4Hogs write:
Suzananana write:
Oh my, the pain that I am hearing in these posts.... and the reality I am hearing as well.

It all comes down to this for me... Walk like you talk !!! If your actions in real life don't look a thing like the words you write, then you are a liar... plain and simple, and you have no business subjecting another human being to your cruelty and deceit. If you are dishonest with yourself, how can you possibly be honest with anyone else ???

Actions speak way louder than mere words....

H4H... your words are right on...and I salute you, once again, for the balls to post 'em. You have my deepest respect.....

Thanx Suz! Yes, I do have a set...and they're chrome!


Hahahahaha.... I'm gonna ask PBG is I can borrow the necklace Weenie bought her... Brass Balls....

Helllll... I'll buy you your own.... in chrome of course lol..

But all kidding aside, any man who can spew such words of compassion and understanding, and then turn around and act so totally opposite, and THEN come back and try to defend those acts with more insincere words, is just rationalizing those bad acts, and trying to make it ok within himself.

Your words can't fix you SS..... No words can. Perhaps its time to seek out the professionals who may be able to help you.....

  


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Posted on Mon, Dec 26, 2005 10:57

Oh my, the pain that I am hearing in these posts.... and the reality I am hearing as well.

It all comes down to this for me... Walk like you talk !!! If your actions in real life don't look a thing like the words you write, then you are a liar... plain and simple, and you have no business subjecting another human being to your cruelty and deceit. If you are dishonest with yourself, how can you possibly be honest with anyone else ???

Actions speak way louder than mere words....

H4H... your words are right on...and I salute you, once again, for the balls to post 'em. You have my deepest respect.....

  


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Posted on Fri, Dec 23, 2005 20:06

Promise or History....

A promise made and broken to whom?

History has been known to repeat itself...but can it be changed and learned productively? Or do we always find comfort in it because of it's familiarity?

Why do we run when we see ourselves afraid of what's before us and why not face it and learn from the actions?

Why hold back the truth from people you say you love and tell lies to please them knowing that one lie can only add up to more to cover the first?

Leaving at the end of the month...
When it was found out about the communication...I moved out...was apologized to and asked to return...and I did...

He tells me of being over her...

But what is he telling her?

Is he telling her of the times we laugh together? Cry together?

Is he telling her of the times we hold one another like we did last evening...caressing each other's arms, face, and just embracing the moment?

Did he tell her of us laughing about the lights on the tree and singing carols that didn't make sense?

Does he tell her the things he tells me?

Does he tell me the things he tells her?

These are just a few questions that will probably never be answered.....for me....for her....or for him.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 23, 2005 05:08

HDRIDER629 write:
I think that your past is what shapes who you are, and the main thing to remember is to learn from your past mistakes, for if you do not learn from them you are doomed to repeat them. Every good thing in our lives, and every bad thing that happens to us is a learning experience. Take what knowledge you can from each and move forward. If you do not you are doomed to stagnation and will not grow.

Cool HD...I like to leave the door of my past open about 6 inches...just to take a peek once in awhile...that way I don't have to repeat anything unless I want to... at my age...I need visuals. Cause my past sure "shaped" me...at least it shaped my nose ... ha...ha.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 23, 2005 01:03

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Springer,actually when ONE speaks for HIMSELF, he should speak in first person. There is no 'One' who can 'face their...' Try, 'I face MY...' and let others decide for themselves.

Interesting, the part of my post you chose to rebut. Guilt is an easy offense to avoid.

Guess I am guilty of poor English. Given the porn and slang on this site, I didn't think it was at academic levels.
I will strive to double check grammar and spelling better. Hope you can forgive the error.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 23, 2005 00:19

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The PAST has SHAPED my soul to love my "LETS" no one would ever understand what I'm talking about!!

As the river bed is shaped to hold the River, but the river can change its shape and carve its way through rock to find its deep ocean of promise.

Peace be with you Creek, you hold LETS in your canyons of deep devotion and I pray if he is still among the mortal that he feels the current you are sending him.



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Posted on Thu, Dec 22, 2005 21:19

The PAST has SHAPED my soul to love my "LETS" no one would ever understand what I'm talking about!!



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Posted on Thu, Dec 22, 2005 21:09


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Personal history often creates in us addictive patterns of behavior and perception.
Personal attraction and mate selection is often unwillingly part of the patterns and images of history that thwart the promise one seeks.
One need hardly speak when it is realized that history hasn't been as golden as myth would have it and many have a battered past whose affects continue to last because be they for ill or well our bodies have adapted their sensory messengers to the familiarity of the pattern en countering thee and we find more attention given to familiarity than a strange uncertainty and often times though promise sits upon our very nose; we can not see it because we do not know it!
What is this crazy fool trying to say for all his battering words?
Only this --that though you seek the "promise" your guide is your "history" that doesn't know what your promise even looks or feels like. If you have not met your promise how can you know it?
Give yourself time to rest in the unfamiliar and explore the unusual relationship even if you must keep it at length just to brave its discovery for it may hold the key to the promise and not your history.
History has a powerful resonate affect that bathes one in familiarity but unless you truly have searched the depths of self and know what comforts thee and why...do not be so certain it is good for thee. Refined sugar is a sweet that gives the pancreas an early grief.

A young fool
I've searched the depths of self and know what comforts thee and why... "LETS" would know if he was here! Love you Baber! (Even though you'll never see this!) Thanks! Springersoul It's Beautiful!



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