Expectations vsAcceptance #1_ 2B a healthy Survivor Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Dec 07, 2005 18:20


    Sort of like trying to put toothpaste back in the tube!!
  • View author's info posted on Dec 07, 2005 17:17


    DD
    My expectations of others were always wrong, in most cases people always prove me wrong, always out shining what I might of thought them to be. Now I just lay back with ecceptance and end up liking what they are to be.
    I am looking forward to meeting you all in NY.


    But as for to night, I am out of here. LMFAO........ This happenz to me sometimes, it will pass, that every thing I write comes out sounding like a F@*#in rap song.....

    Sorry folks, later....LOL!
    Chkn
  • View author's info posted on Dec 07, 2005 16:59


    Nice Topic.
    of All I've been and done, seems strange now, me speaking of a God. Not beleaving, but now knowing there is one. Bea there are also Daughters, not just prodical Sons.

    Chkn
  • View author's info posted on Dec 07, 2005 08:09


    seeme1st write:

    beatitudes_5 write:
    DD...THAT IS NICE WHAT YOU WROTE AND IT'S VERY TRUE....I DO TRY TO LET GO AND LET GOD....I CATCH MYSELF SAYING THAT ALOT AS THE DAY GOES BY, BUT YOU ARE RIGHT-IT IS HARD---ME AND GOD I AM AFRAID WILL BE-FIGHTING TOOTH AND NAIL UNTIL MY DYING BREATH , BUT THAT IS OUR RELATIONSHIP WHICH I KNOW HE UNDERSTANDS.....BUT IN SPITE OF IT ALL, I DO KEEP AHOLD OF SOME KIND OF HOPE, SO THATS A GOOD THING FOR ME...I FOUND OUT IN LIFE THAT "ONE IS NOT GIVEN WHAT ONE NEEDS UNTIL THE SECOOND THAT IT IS NEEDED", THAT I CAN WRITE IN BLOOD...IT'S BEEN TOLD TO ME THAT WE WOULD WASTE WHAT WE WERE GIVEN AND THEN NOT HAVE IT WHEN WE NEEDED IT THE MOST.....I JUST HAVE A HARD TIME WITH HIS VIEW ON LIFE...I ENVY HIM, RELIGIOUS PEOPLE WHO BELEIVE WITHOUT A DOUBT, ALWAYS ADMIRED THEM, BUT LIKE I SAID FOR ME IT IS A DAILY BATTLE.....BUT I DO HANG IN THERE----NICE TOPIC



    Bea i call that the yoyo effect---i turn it over and than take it back

    and DD yes it is something i've learned the hard way--just like the defination of insanity---doing the same thing over and over expecting differnt results

    hmmm these are all words that I have heard somewhere else....when one door closes another one opens...it just doesn't open fast enough for me.
    I like what Bea wrote..probably because I can identify with it...I admire people that just know...for me the first (and most important) thing I had to learn about God was that I'm not Him...that's the starting point.
    and that hope means that the light at the end of the tunnel is not a train...
    I agree...nice topic
  • View author's info posted on Dec 07, 2005 05:11


    beatitudes_5 write:
    DD...THAT IS NICE WHAT YOU WROTE AND IT'S VERY TRUE....I DO TRY TO LET GO AND LET GOD....I CATCH MYSELF SAYING THAT ALOT AS THE DAY GOES BY, BUT YOU ARE RIGHT-IT IS HARD---ME AND GOD I AM AFRAID WILL BE-FIGHTING TOOTH AND NAIL UNTIL MY DYING BREATH , BUT THAT IS OUR RELATIONSHIP WHICH I KNOW HE UNDERSTANDS.....BUT IN SPITE OF IT ALL, I DO KEEP AHOLD OF SOME KIND OF HOPE, SO THATS A GOOD THING FOR ME...I FOUND OUT IN LIFE THAT "ONE IS NOT GIVEN WHAT ONE NEEDS UNTIL THE SECOOND THAT IT IS NEEDED", THAT I CAN WRITE IN BLOOD...IT'S BEEN TOLD TO ME THAT WE WOULD WASTE WHAT WE WERE GIVEN AND THEN NOT HAVE IT WHEN WE NEEDED IT THE MOST.....I JUST HAVE A HARD TIME WITH HIS VIEW ON LIFE...I ENVY HIM, RELIGIOUS PEOPLE WHO BELEIVE WITHOUT A DOUBT, ALWAYS ADMIRED THEM, BUT LIKE I SAID FOR ME IT IS A DAILY BATTLE.....BUT I DO HANG IN THERE----NICE TOPIC


    Bea i call that the yoyo effect---i turn it over and than take it back

    and DD yes it is something i've learned the hard way--just like the defination of insanity---doing the same thing over and over expecting differnt results
  • View author's info posted on Dec 07, 2005 04:27


    DD...THAT IS NICE WHAT YOU WROTE AND IT'S VERY TRUE....I DO TRY TO LET GO AND LET GOD....I CATCH MYSELF SAYING THAT ALOT AS THE DAY GOES BY, BUT YOU ARE RIGHT-IT IS HARD---ME AND GOD I AM AFRAID WILL BE-FIGHTING TOOTH AND NAIL UNTIL MY DYING BREATH , BUT THAT IS OUR RELATIONSHIP WHICH I KNOW HE UNDERSTANDS.....BUT IN SPITE OF IT ALL, I DO KEEP AHOLD OF SOME KIND OF HOPE, SO THATS A GOOD THING FOR ME...I FOUND OUT IN LIFE THAT "ONE IS NOT GIVEN WHAT ONE NEEDS UNTIL THE SECOOND THAT IT IS NEEDED", THAT I CAN WRITE IN BLOOD...IT'S BEEN TOLD TO ME THAT WE WOULD WASTE WHAT WE WERE GIVEN AND THEN NOT HAVE IT WHEN WE NEEDED IT THE MOST.....I JUST HAVE A HARD TIME WITH HIS VIEW ON LIFE...I ENVY HIM, RELIGIOUS PEOPLE WHO BELEIVE WITHOUT A DOUBT, ALWAYS ADMIRED THEM, BUT LIKE I SAID FOR ME IT IS A DAILY BATTLE.....BUT I DO HANG IN THERE----NICE TOPIC
  • View author's info posted on Dec 06, 2005 18:01


    Well said DD...Don't lend your strength to that which you wish to be free from.
    Our worth comes from within and how God sees us, not man.
  • View author's info posted on Dec 06, 2005 12:16


    LadyTxnRider write:
    Took me alot of years to learn this lesson, probably still learning this and hopefully more. No expectations, no disappointments... Holding onto the anger does no one any goods, just let it go. Choose your battles carefully and fight them with all you have but don't let the small stuff become a battle. Let Go and Let God!

    very well said LTR, I couldn't agree more
  • View author's info posted on Dec 06, 2005 10:58


    Wise words, ladies. But then, I'd expect nothing else from you two. : )
  • View author's info posted on Dec 06, 2005 10:55


    Took me alot of years to learn this lesson, probably still learning this and hopefully more. No expectations, no disappointments... Holding onto the anger does no one any goods, just let it go. Choose your battles carefully and fight them with all you have but don't let the small stuff become a battle. Let Go and Let God!
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