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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 18:53

Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

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Posted on Sun, Sep 16, 2012 15:52

I'm still a bit new to this site....LOL.....but finding this to be quite true.....feeling confused....and wondering if maybe I should just forget this whole on-line dating site thing....LOL.....but I have to have faith that there are some great men out there...who won't "disappear".....and can still be real :)
Cheers to all my biker friends :)
Dust



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Posted on Wed, Apr 11, 2012 17:14

i dont think hes much a man if he was he would have been honest and forthrite with you and wouldnt have run like a wanna be

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Posted on Tue, Jan 17, 2012 07:20

Quoting coronetrt:

he may have been looking for something he didn't see in you. he
may not want to come out & say so . he may not want to hurt your feelings or may not even know why he didn't keep coming back.



A chickens way out if you ask me!



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Posted on Tue, Jan 17, 2012 07:18

Quoting hummingbird69:

people who don't wanna be in a relationship should'nt be in one. if gals or guys wanna act single! then you should've stayed single..... Am I Right?



You are right, this is a dating site not a chapel! But I do agree with you if you are looking for one night stands rent is cheap if you know what I mean. No sense screwing with someones feelings.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 15, 2011 06:51

he may have been looking for something he didn't see in you. he
may not want to come out & say so . he may not want to hurt your feelings or may not even know why he didn't keep coming back.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 05, 2006 13:42

It may sound like an easy question to answer, but I guess it's not. I can only speak for myself, but the reason I'm here is to find a woman to share my life with. I don't run, I don't complicate things with drama or games. Those who do sometimes have a good reason but don't communicate well, or at all. How was the communication in the beginning with this guy? I've been fortunate in my past long-term relationships that I had women who were very open and honest with their feelings. I have also had a few who were not. It's not just the guys. I think the important thing to remember here is, don't go down with the bat on your shoulder. He threw you a curve ball and you swung and missed. That doesn't mean that the next pitch isn't going to a be a strike that you'll hit over the fence! (thought a baseball analogy would work this time of year...lol). We can't love right every time...or even half the time. But when it works, it's so fantastic that we forget about all the misses. So stay in there ready to swing, just choose your pitches more carefully. It makes a lot of difference between striking out and hitting a homer. I do wish you all good luck with it.

John



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Posted on Wed, Jul 19, 2006 05:14

Notythot write:
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

You should have picked a better person. Mosst of the guys here are good guys. Try again.



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Posted on Tue, Jul 18, 2006 14:50

cruisergurl write:
There is no mr/ms. right out there. I think everybody has a idea of what they want or are looking for. sometimes we pass up a good one because we don't like his looks, weight, yada yada. I think that everybody needs to meet a lot of people. you just never know when 2 people might click. and if you don't, there is no reason that you can't be friends. I think it's great to have a lot of friends. you go to biker rally's and meet up with many people you met before. It could be one great time for all. So I say, start out as friends and expect nothing at all. we set expectations too high sometimes. just let it happen.

Amen to that !! You're a wise person !!!
It's easy but we humans like to complicate it !!!



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Posted on Sun, Jul 02, 2006 11:08

Nodey write:
I have been designated the new BK hall monitor. You all behave in here.

So, what R ya gonna make us do in detention Ms Monitor?

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 22, 2006 05:27

They say beauty is only skin deep. Maybe Glamour Shots was planning on skinning us !?



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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 09:14

DirtyBikers4Eva write:

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:
jennyd write:
creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

i'm not clear on who's foot is stuck where.
i only know where my own 3 feet are.

Hey Slim, that's not fair usin a good lookin picture of yourself, how are the rest of us sposed to get noticed?

Thanks Hippy, but I'm so ugly Glamour Shots had to give me a estimate...

Well, they turned me away, they said "Glamour", not "Miracle".

You two crack me up with your beauty talk!! You are both beautiful!!! Now quit diggin fer compliments!! j/k ha ha ha

See Slim, we're Be-yutiful, Glamour Shots just can't see the inner us'es

  


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Posted on Wed, Jun 21, 2006 06:40

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:
jennyd write:
creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

i'm not clear on who's foot is stuck where.
i only know where my own 3 feet are.

Hey Slim, that's not fair usin a good lookin picture of yourself, how are the rest of us sposed to get noticed?

Thanks Hippy, but I'm so ugly Glamour Shots had to give me a estimate...

Well, they turned me away, they said "Glamour", not "Miracle".

You two crack me up with your beauty talk!! You are both beautiful!!! Now quit diggin fer compliments!! j/k ha ha ha



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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 15:48

SeminoleSlim write:

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:
jennyd write:
creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

i'm not clear on who's foot is stuck where.
i only know where my own 3 feet are.

Hey Slim, that's not fair usin a good lookin picture of yourself, how are the rest of us sposed to get noticed?

Thanks Hippy, but I'm so ugly Glamour Shots had to give me a estimate...

Well, they turned me away, they said "Glamour", not "Miracle".

  


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Posted on Tue, Jun 20, 2006 07:19

WarHippy write:
SeminoleSlim write:
jennyd write:
creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

i'm not clear on who's foot is stuck where.
i only know where my own 3 feet are.

Hey Slim, that's not fair usin a good lookin picture of yourself, how are the rest of us sposed to get noticed?
Thanks Hippy, but I'm so ugly Glamour Shots had to give me a estimate...



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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 17:09

SeminoleSlim write:
jennyd write:
creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

i'm not clear on who's foot is stuck where.
i only know where my own 3 feet are.

Hey Slim, that's not fair usin a good lookin picture of yourself, how are the rest of us sposed to get noticed?

  


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Posted on Thu, Jun 08, 2006 05:23

notythots write:
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..

Could it have been you?



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Posted on Wed, Jun 07, 2006 02:31

If anyone has time to read all these comments they probably are very single :)



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Posted on Mon, May 22, 2006 18:08

jennyd write:
creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

i'm not clear on who's foot is stuck where.
i only know where my own 3 feet are.



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Posted on Sun, May 21, 2006 17:11

creature write:
well ladies. i am the right 1... but dont try to contact me just yet(my foot still stuck in you know who
s window)sshhhhhh!

maybe you should get your foot out of their window (did i say that)

  


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