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Posted on Wed, Oct 05, 2005 09:19

as of this morning, I am divorced, if anyone cares to know, or just cares.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 19:38

HI Divorced and hope things are going better for you. Remember no fault divorce here you are. It takes time for you but the other person has already moved on and so should you. Relationship is good for 6 years and then move onagain. Just date and live life to the fullest?
I do know and it is a little lonely but or than that it is perfect.

Take care



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 13:58

havfun write:
my thanks to everyone of you that posted, as i said in some other threads, jus back from a 1500 mile mountain trip, it helped a lot..i have vented a lot on this site, a lot has been ignored, and probably rightly so, cause i am something of a baby, even if just turned 53!. Got my computer last winter, found this site, and you guys will never know how much your threads have meant to me. this winter it is I who gets rebuilt, not the bike, but I have so much to learn, sigh, again, thanks so much, everyone, especially big bear, roxie, double delight, and all the others,who answered, and whose threads i have read in the past. I love you all.
my thanks to everyone of you that posted, as i said in some other threads, jus back from a 1500 mile mountain trip, it helped a lot..i have vented a lot on this site, a lot has been ignored, and probably rightly so, cause i am something of a baby, even if just turned 53!. Got my computer last winter, found this site, and you guys will never know how much your threads have meant to me. this winter it is I who gets rebuilt, not the bike, but I have so much to learn, sigh, again, thanks so much, everyone, especially big bear, roxie, double delight, and all the others,who answered, and whose threads i have read in the past. I love you all.

You're welcome, Havfun...Hugs...

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 30, 2005 19:55

thanks harley girl, and all you others, as well. I just cant describe the hell this filipina put me through, just to get to america..the lies, broken promises, the outrageous charges. Plus I learned how hypocritical and hateful my relatives are, while hiding behind smiling faces, and my mom passed. all I had left. I know you all have stories much worse, one thing i have learned, be tolerant of those you perceive as jerks, it may be their private hell keeps them from considering how they affect other people..a lot of jerks just need sympathy and understanding...hopefully,,,a former jerk.
thanks harley girl, and all you others, as well. I just cant describe the hell this filipina put me through, just to get to america..the lies, broken promises, the outrageous charges. Plus I learned how hypocritical and hateful my relatives are, while hiding behind smiling faces, and my mom passed. all I had left. I know you all have stories much worse, one thing i have learned, be tolerant of those you perceive as jerks, it may be their private hell keeps them from considering how they affect other people..a lot of jerks just need sympathy and understanding...hopefully,,,a former jerk.



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Posted on Sun, Oct 30, 2005 08:42

Nope, divorce isn't fun. BUT...for those that go through it, it's just a new route on the journey of life.

Only you can make that journey a good one. You can make it bumpy and miserable, or you can let it be the smoothest detour you've made.

Looking back, my ride started a little on the bumpy side, maybe because I subconsciously wanted to be miserable. Then I let go, and amazing how smooth the road got.

Sometimes I have to pinch myself...I never thought a single life could be so good!

This time around...it's all about me!
Nope, divorce isn't fun. BUT...for those that go through it, it's just a new route on the journey of life.

Only you can make that journey a good one. You can make it bumpy and miserable, or you can let it be the smoothest detour you've made.

Looking back, my ride started a little on the bumpy side, maybe because I subconsciously wanted to be miserable. Then I let go, and amazing how smooth the road got.

Sometimes I have to pinch myself...I never thought a single life could be so good!

This time around...it's all about me!

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 30, 2005 05:08

Bless your heart havfun....I know that mountain trip had to blow some blues away. Esp. this time of year the foliage had to be magnificant.

Thanks bro...I hope we will always be here for you and others. This site was my sanity after my ole man died. It partially filled the void he left. Now it is part of my life.

Make plans to get to Thunderstock II in Sept. Will meet ya then if not before.
Bless your heart havfun....I know that mountain trip had to blow some blues away. Esp. this time of year the foliage had to be magnificant.

Thanks bro...I hope we will always be here for you and others. This site was my sanity after my ole man died. It partially filled the void he left. Now it is part of my life.

Make plans to get to Thunderstock II in Sept. Will meet ya then if not before.



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Posted on Sat, Oct 29, 2005 15:45

my thanks to everyone of you that posted, as i said in some other threads, jus back from a 1500 mile mountain trip, it helped a lot..i have vented a lot on this site, a lot has been ignored, and probably rightly so, cause i am something of a baby, even if just turned 53!. Got my computer last winter, found this site, and you guys will never know how much your threads have meant to me. this winter it is I who gets rebuilt, not the bike, but I have so much to learn, sigh, again, thanks so much, everyone, especially big bear, roxie, double delight, and all the others,who answered, and whose threads i have read in the past. I love you all.
my thanks to everyone of you that posted, as i said in some other threads, jus back from a 1500 mile mountain trip, it helped a lot..i have vented a lot on this site, a lot has been ignored, and probably rightly so, cause i am something of a baby, even if just turned 53!. Got my computer last winter, found this site, and you guys will never know how much your threads have meant to me. this winter it is I who gets rebuilt, not the bike, but I have so much to learn, sigh, again, thanks so much, everyone, especially big bear, roxie, double delight, and all the others,who answered, and whose threads i have read in the past. I love you all.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 19:16

Bigbear2000 write:
To quote my favorite poet:
"Old friends lost and new friends found...
The Pages of Life, doth turn
and no one knows, just where they are bound....
The Pages of Life, doth turn.

The love, we swore that never would end....
The Pages of Life, doth turn.
Don't dispair, it'll happen again...
The Pages of Life, doth turn.

The Truths we hide and the lies, we show....The Pages of Life, doth turn
and here we'll stay...til it's time to go....
The Pages of Life doth turn.

Bigbear, Glad you found your way back... I can always use a little help here.. Keepin these ladies on track.... LOL

Nice to see you again...

softail.

  


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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 16:39

Hi Bigbear.....How ya been?
Hi Bigbear.....How ya been?

  


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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 11:32

DoubleDelight write:
I just saw this,
Hope this new process of discover begins a journey for you filled with things you love to do, people you enjoy and that you feel appreciated...

And Bear: Where O where have you been?

DD


My dear friend; I've been hiding out in my bear cave in hibernation. ; / But once again Grandfather Sun smiles brightly upon my spirit, thus I am returned. : )



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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 11:10

I just saw this,
Hope this new process of discover begins a journey for you filled with things you love to do, people you enjoy and that you feel appreciated...

And Bear: Where O where have you been?

DD
I just saw this,
Hope this new process of discover begins a journey for you filled with things you love to do, people you enjoy and that you feel appreciated...

And Bear: Where O where have you been?

DD

  


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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 10:58

To quote my favorite poet:
"Old friends lost and new friends found...
The Pages of Life, doth turn
and no one knows, just where they are bound....
The Pages of Life, doth turn.

The love, we swore that never would end....
The Pages of Life, doth turn.
Don't dispair, it'll happen again...
The Pages of Life, doth turn.

The Truths we hide and the lies, we show....The Pages of Life, doth turn
and here we'll stay...til it's time to go....
The Pages of Life doth turn.
To quote my favorite poet:
"Old friends lost and new friends found...
The Pages of Life, doth turn
and no one knows, just where they are bound....
The Pages of Life, doth turn.

The love, we swore that never would end....
The Pages of Life, doth turn.
Don't dispair, it'll happen again...
The Pages of Life, doth turn.

The Truths we hide and the lies, we show....The Pages of Life, doth turn
and here we'll stay...til it's time to go....
The Pages of Life doth turn.



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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 07:59

softail1999 write:

NORTY write:
softail1999 write:
hmmm.. bk??? u removed part of my post!!!

dont see why.. Not like they compete with you?

divorcecare . com......
hmmm.. bk??? u removed part of my post!!!

dont see why.. Not like they compete with you?

divorcecare . com......

No one can figure out what goes on in the "scared little minds" of the mods here. They must be from the illiterate school of the 3rd Reich. Or, they could be KKK...(same thing, I guess.)


Norty,

I think they understand now.... Thanks BK..


i know that they have small minds here having to do with somethings--butttt we are a family and when we see soemone hurting or know of something that may help a few ppl--we should be able to let them know



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Posted on Thu, Oct 27, 2005 07:36

NORTY write:
softail1999 write:
hmmm.. bk??? u removed part of my post!!!

dont see why.. Not like they compete with you?

divorcecare . com......
hmmm.. bk??? u removed part of my post!!!

dont see why.. Not like they compete with you?

divorcecare . com......

No one can figure out what goes on in the "scared little minds" of the mods here. They must be from the illiterate school of the 3rd Reich. Or, they could be KKK...(same thing, I guess.)

Norty,

I think they understand now.... Thanks BK..

  


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Posted on Fri, Oct 21, 2005 13:44

hmmm.. bk??? u removed part of my post!!!

dont see why.. Not like they compete with you?

divorcecare . com......
hmmm.. bk??? u removed part of my post!!!

dont see why.. Not like they compete with you?

divorcecare . com......

  


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Posted on Thu, Oct 20, 2005 21:20

Good Luck and God Bless!.....I hope for you it is the beginning of a new and incredible journey of a lifetime!....Mo
Good Luck and God Bless!.....I hope for you it is the beginning of a new and incredible journey of a lifetime!....Mo

  


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Posted on Thu, Oct 20, 2005 18:26

Well Havfun..
Then it is the first day of your new life. Enjoy it. Do not look back on "what might have been". Look forward to "What will be". Treat all parties with respect whether warranted or otherwise.

Take care , stay safe and have an awesome life.
Well Havfun..
Then it is the first day of your new life. Enjoy it. Do not look back on "what might have been". Look forward to "What will be". Treat all parties with respect whether warranted or otherwise.

Take care , stay safe and have an awesome life.

  


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Posted on Wed, Oct 19, 2005 23:38

havfun write:
as of this morning, I am divorced, if anyone cares to know, or just cares.


Have happy new beginnings..and wishing u the best..!!

  


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Posted on Tue, Oct 18, 2005 18:23


Roxie0215 write:
softail...good info
My church offers the divorcecare class. It lasts about 12 weeks. It was good for me also, repeated a couple of classes, such as forgiveness (ouch!)

Roxie.. Dont Worry about repeating!!!... ummmm.. I may have repeated the whole class!....
Needed it tooo.... Good Information too and meet new friends..

  


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Posted on Tue, Oct 18, 2005 17:33

softail...good info
My church offers the divorcecare class. It lasts about 12 weeks. It was good for me also, repeated a couple of classes, such as forgiveness (ouch!)