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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 01:09

Everytime I come back to California and visit my guys....I have to deal with something that this person wants to just keep hurting me with...."my ex"...all I want is to walk away from here,leave my children with the sense that I will love them unconditionally...and they never have to worry about anything..We are always together, minds and souls will always be together...

I'm venting...this time I found out my medical was terminated....very scary to those of us that ride and with our children.....

how can anyone with a soul and a conscience do something like this ???

I am comforted that I can take care of myself and my children,but anything could of happened between the time I find out and today when I found out...

My concern goes out beyond my own now...if this person can do this to me and "they" the medical company did not inform me that my medical was not in place...what's to say they won't do it to any one else...I was fortunate...I can fix it..not everyone can do this and thank the Big Guy above nothng happened between the time I fought out and today.....

what's to say....
worst case scenario...you are ridng with your child....

and he knew he was not going to pay your health plan.....just because...

Lady's don't ever believe they will ever do what they are suppose to just because a piece of paper tells them to do it......many will but some will never....

I'm just blessed I have a life to follow and many to give a piece of my mind......sweet!!!!!!

I love my life!!!!!!!!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 13:18


secretsquirrel write:
Well people here's a update...

been back to Cali for over a week now and the Ex has only let me see the boys for 2 hr.s.....says there busy whenever I want to see them...
has blocked there computer so they can't get my IM's.. now today a process server served me with papers he filed...stating I'm a bad influence...the only good thing that has come out of this, is the server is a good friend of mine....we talked and I got the scoop...so I'm not as upset as I could of been...now I have to deal with him again...I guess if I'd of known this was what I had to look forward to...I would of made him think the divorce was his idea......I'm on Lawyer number 6 now...this is READ DI*CK get LESS....move on and get a life!!! I have....any way venting again and I feel better...Florida and Colorado are looking better and better!!

Look for The Beast!!!



GRRRRRRR Rocky...that bites. Ride it through honey and show you are bigger than the lowlife he seems to think you are. Bad influence?? Kiss me butt. Love ya girl...call on your strength. CC



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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 12:12


HarleyChic1 write:
Rocky he'll get his in the end. Remember what c.omes around goes around. "his turn is c.oming real soon"

They just try to make you as miserable as they can, cause he knows your getting your life together and you have lots of friends now. He's just jealous of you.

You'll see one day you'll have your kids back with you and you'll be laughing at him.

"Good Luck Rocky" - I know you'll kick his ass in the end.


If I'm not feeling to bad after my shot today maybe I'll give you a call. "can't promise though - I'll see how I feel"



Maria he doesn't have a life and he never wanted to get divorced ....should of thought of the consequences that co*mes with cheating on a squirrel.....

everybody knows rodents don't share well!! and been known to mistake nuts for nutts!!
did I say that?
hope your feeling better later would like to here from you...if anything I'll come visit ya ,,,tried to get ahold of ya....was riding your way a couple of weeks ago!! that GW bridge of yours suc*ks

  
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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 10:22


jerryw13 write:
Hey Squirrel, Hail, Hail, the gang's all here! We're ready for you and Char whenever. Limes are in the crisper and the Cabo is in the cabinet too. I think a Tx thing would be great. Have you checked out the BK Rally thread? No date yet, next spring/summer, looking like maybe Ark. Hope to make it a nationwide big deal. Keepin' our fingers crossed, but we could make use of 'The Beast' for runs to the airport for our 'lighter than air' compadres who can't make the ride. hehehehehe How do you feel about being an airport limosine? Seriously, keep us in mind, check out the capital letters in my profile, lookin' forward to hearin' from ya'll soon. P.S. I'd still like to know what you meant about keepin' an eye on me!!!!! lmao



Hail the Jer!!
looked at the big letters!! and check in at the events.....Branson will never be the same...or Ark. for that matter... Talked to Char and the kitty..spring looks like a go if everybody keeps it together over the winter...who know's maybe a hell of a lot more of us Lady's heading your way by then...I do love a party...semantics hmmmmm? advertising?

squirrel on the loose......

  


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Posted on Mon, Oct 03, 2005 04:43

Hey Squirrel, Hail, Hail, the gang's all here! We're ready for you and Char whenever. Limes are in the crisper and the Cabo is in the cabinet too. I think a Tx thing would be great. Have you checked out the BK Rally thread? No date yet, next spring/summer, looking like maybe Ark. Hope to make it a nationwide big deal. Keepin' our fingers crossed, but we could make use of 'The Beast' for runs to the airport for our 'lighter than air' compadres who can't make the ride. hehehehehe How do you feel about being an airport limosine? Seriously, keep us in mind, check out the capital letters in my profile, lookin' forward to hearin' from ya'll soon. P.S. I'd still like to know what you meant about keepin' an eye on me!!!!! lmao

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 22:14

Well people here's a update...

been back to Cali for over a week now and the Ex has only let me see the boys for 2 hr.s.....says there busy whenever I want to see them...
has blocked there computer so they can't get my IM's.. now today a process server served me with papers he filed...stating I'm a bad influence...the only good thing that has come out of this, is the server is a good friend of mine....we talked and I got the scoop...so I'm not as upset as I could of been...now I have to deal with him again...I guess if I'd of known this was what I had to look forward to...I would of made him think the divorce was his idea......I'm on Lawyer number 6 now...this is READ DI*CK get LESS....move on and get a life!!! I have....any way venting again and I feel better...Florida and Colorado are looking better and better!!

Look for The Beast!!!

  
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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 21:55


jerryw13 write:
Wow, Seeme, congrats on the daughter. That's something to be proud of. My ex took the kids 2500 mi away when she left me. I packed up and moved to Mt to be close enough for weekends, but not close to cause probs. Worked for me, both kids are tight with me and successful. She won't talk to me, but I don't really mind that. lol

Rocky, nomad ain't a bad way to be. Enjoy it while you can. There's prolly a responsibility out there somewhere that will tie you down when you least expect it. You've got friends all over the country and that could add up to a wonderful wandering. Oh, by the way, in your wanderings, I've always got Corona in my fridge, it's my drug of choice.



Thanks Jer....got a lime to go with that? add a shot of Cabo Wabo and I'm game!!!

look for us lady's this Spring ..Char Thunder wants to "do" Texas in a big way....we are going to invade your fine state..beware bringing the big guns!!! and we are all "DD".s

=,)~ Rocky!

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 21:50


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sorry your going thru this Rocky!!!!!

i think the anger displayed is by the party that really didn't want the divorce allows them to feel the injured party(victim) and rationalizes to them the right to hurt the other

my ex is bad--my daughter 24 yes a young adult but still in school full time--he gives her no financial help for school, living expenses,didn't talk to her for 2.5 yrs--the only reason she is on his health insurance is because of the divorce degree--JENN IS A BRILLIANT YOUNG WOMAN--SHE IS ON THE DEANS LIST AND HAS A 3.87 GPA AT RUTGERS AND GRADUATED FROM THE COMMUNITY COLLEGE WITH A 3.85--I WOULD THINK ANY DAD WOULD BE PROUD????????

i know it is his lose for not really keeping in touch with her--they are in the process of mending



Seems Peg your Daughter sound like a wonderful person with alot going for her....your blessed...
you see it,,,someday hopefully he will....



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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 21:45


speedyjerry write:
ANGER, HATRED, such a waste of energy and time. I still love my X's as I promised God when I married them, it's just a "Different Level of Love" now. Still best of friends with them and do what ever I can for them within reason.



Speedo your one of the Lucky one's can't say my ex and I will ever mend any fences...



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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 13:50

So sorry to hear YOUR X is one of those _____men, but they all aren't like that.
My X was a good one to my daughter...always there for her. ANd me at times, teeheee...at least her that made it fine for me.
Just remember the saying> "what goes around ______ around" (BK would not let me way the word? weird,??? it isnt bad) so let a dash, LOL
It happens!!! I know that from the X boyfriend of 4 1/2 yrs....> He got his!!! so it happens. I Just got on with my life and I am happy once again... his kids suffered,but ....

Hang in there and know we all at BK are here for you to vent.
NYBikercowgirl

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 07:06

Wow, Seeme, congrats on the daughter. That's something to be proud of. My ex took the kids 2500 mi away when she left me. I packed up and moved to Mt to be close enough for weekends, but not close to cause probs. Worked for me, both kids are tight with me and successful. She won't talk to me, but I don't really mind that. lol

Rocky, nomad ain't a bad way to be. Enjoy it while you can. There's prolly a responsibility out there somewhere that will tie you down when you least expect it. You've got friends all over the country and that could add up to a wonderful wandering. Oh, by the way, in your wanderings, I've always got Corona in my fridge, it's my drug of choice.

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 05:45

sorry your going thru this Rocky!!!!!

i think the anger displayed is by the party that really didn't want the divorce allows them to feel the injured party(victim) and rationalizes to them the right to hurt the other

my ex is bad--my daughter 24 yes a young adult but still in school full time--he gives her no financial help for school, living expenses,didn't talk to her for 2.5 yrs--the only reason she is on his health insurance is because of the divorce degree--JENN IS A BRILLIANT YOUNG WOMAN--SHE IS ON THE DEANS LIST AND HAS A 3.87 GPA AT RUTGERS AND GRADUATED FROM THE COMMUNITY COLLEGE WITH A 3.85--I WOULD THINK ANY DAD WOULD BE PROUD????????

i know it is his lose for not really keeping in touch with her--they are in the process of mending



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Posted on Fri, Sep 30, 2005 05:08

ANGER, HATRED, such a waste of energy and time. I still love my X's as I promised God when I married them, it's just a "Different Level of Love" now. Still best of friends with them and do what ever I can for them within reason.

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 20:49


BabyGirl4You831 write:
Here is a lil sumpin I got today.. lmao

Dear Husband:

I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you for good. I've
been a good woman to you for seven years and I have nothing to show for it.
These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell me that you
had quit your job today and that was the last straw. Last week, you came
home and didn't notice that I had gotten my hair and nails done, cooked your
favorite meal and even wore a brand new negligee. You came home and ate in
two minutes, and went straight to sleep after watching the game. You don't
tell me you love me anymore, you don't touch me or anything. Either you're
cheating or you don't love me anymore, what ever the case is, I'm gone.


P.S. If you're trying to find me, don't. Your BROTHER and I are moving
away to West Virginia together! Have
a great life!

Your EX-Wife


Dear Ex-Wife

Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It's true that you
and I have been married for seven years, although a good woman is a far cry
from what you've been. I watch sports so much to try to drown out your
constant nagging. Too bad that doesn't work. I did notice when you cut off
all of your hair last week, the first thing that came to mind was "You look
just like a man!" My mother raised me to not say anything if you can't say
anything nice. When you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me
confused with MY BROTHER, because I stopped eating pork seven years ago. I
went to sleep on you when you had on that new negligee because the price tag
was still on it. I prayed that it was a coincidence that my brother had
just borrowed fifty dollars from me that morning and your negligee was
$49.99. After all of this, I still loved you and felt that we could work it
out. So when I discovered that I had hit the lotto for ten million dollars,
I quit my job and bought us two tickets to Jamaica. But when I got home you
were gone. Everything happens for a reason I guess. I hope you have the
filling life you always wanted. My lawyer said with your letter that you
wrote, you won't get a dime from me. So take care.

P.S. I don't know if I ever told you this but Carl, my brother was born
Carla. I hope that's not a problem.

Signed Rich As Hell and Free!



Good one Baby!!!



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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 20:48


smile2005 write:
Rocky, I'm glad to hear that you're doing ok & it's all right to vent! You are a very strong woman. Hang in there girl & know that you have your friends here in your corner & God is in your corner too :) It's always been said that God only gives us what He feels we can handle. But my gosh, sometimes you just wish He didn't have so much confidence in us! But all these ups & downs just makes us stronger.
Now...would I want the worst for my ex? No...he's the father of my beautiful daughter & he's not a bad person. I wish him much love, peace & happiness in his life & I hope that one day he finds it all.
So hugs to you, Rocky...



Smiles I want the next time I vent to be because I'm all gushy in Luv!!!
HA!HA!

I'm taking care of things,its all co*m*ing together...the BK censays make us all illiterate...

I have never wished any ill will on my Ex...he does enough for both of us...and I like my karma just the way it is...It will be my time some day..

I just have to get through this move and everything will settle down....

Time for a Corona!!!!

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 20:41


verdaineg write:
I am finally, after 7 years of having the divorce finalized, (It was a long hard nasty time.) able to carry on conversations with my ex. She is actually helping one of my friends here on BK in a job search. Imagine that. I still don't like what she did to me but.. I have put it in the past and moved forward. My children appreciate that. When I go visit my children and grandchildren I see her and her hubby too. He is a funny guy. When asked where they went on their honeymoon is reply is always... Viagra Falls Life does go on and we do grow. Hugs to ya Rocky..



Thanks Dane ....trying to turn the other cheek....but the Bee Ach slapping is got to stop!

I'm taking care of me..and the boys are doing fine with there Dad....that's what is important right now...

I'm a Nomad right now,see where it leads me....

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 18:50

Here is a lil sumpin I got today.. lmao

Dear Husband:

I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you for good. I've
been a good woman to you for seven years and I have nothing to show for it.
These last two weeks have been hell. Your boss called to tell me that you
had quit your job today and that was the last straw. Last week, you came
home and didn't notice that I had gotten my hair and nails done, cooked your
favorite meal and even wore a brand new negligee. You came home and ate in
two minutes, and went straight to sleep after watching the game. You don't
tell me you love me anymore, you don't touch me or anything. Either you're
cheating or you don't love me anymore, what ever the case is, I'm gone.


P.S. If you're trying to find me, don't. Your BROTHER and I are moving
away to West Virginia together! Have
a great life!

Your EX-Wife


Dear Ex-Wife

Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It's true that you
and I have been married for seven years, although a good woman is a far cry
from what you've been. I watch sports so much to try to drown out your
constant nagging. Too bad that doesn't work. I did notice when you cut off
all of your hair last week, the first thing that came to mind was "You look
just like a man!" My mother raised me to not say anything if you can't say
anything nice. When you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me
confused with MY BROTHER, because I stopped eating pork seven years ago. I
went to sleep on you when you had on that new negligee because the price tag
was still on it. I prayed that it was a coincidence that my brother had
just borrowed fifty dollars from me that morning and your negligee was
$49.99. After all of this, I still loved you and felt that we could work it
out. So when I discovered that I had hit the lotto for ten million dollars,
I quit my job and bought us two tickets to Jamaica. But when I got home you
were gone. Everything happens for a reason I guess. I hope you have the
filling life you always wanted. My lawyer said with your letter that you
wrote, you won't get a dime from me. So take care.

P.S. I don't know if I ever told you this but Carl, my brother was born
Carla. I hope that's not a problem.

Signed Rich As Hell and Free!

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 16:18

Rocky, I'm glad to hear that you're doing ok & it's all right to vent! You are a very strong woman. Hang in there girl & know that you have your friends here in your corner & God is in your corner too :) It's always been said that God only gives us what He feels we can handle. But my gosh, sometimes you just wish He didn't have so much confidence in us! But all these ups & downs just makes us stronger.
Now...would I want the worst for my ex? No...he's the father of my beautiful daughter & he's not a bad person. I wish him much love, peace & happiness in his life & I hope that one day he finds it all.
So hugs to you, Rocky...

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 13:45

I am finally, after 7 years of having the divorce finalized, (It was a long hard nasty time.) able to carry on conversations with my ex. She is actually helping one of my friends here on BK in a job search. Imagine that. I still don't like what she did to me but.. I have put it in the past and moved forward. My children appreciate that. When I go visit my children and grandchildren I see her and her hubby too. He is a funny guy. When asked where they went on their honeymoon is reply is always... Viagra Falls Life does go on and we do grow. Hugs to ya Rocky..

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 29, 2005 13:15

I've really enjoyed being 'held up' in a corner before if ya get my drift...*wink,wink*



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