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Posted on Sat, Sep 24, 2005 17:36

Its Saturday night......just sitting at home alone, feeling lonely. Found out that the "X" has moved on and is happy with someone else......DAM that hurts......but in the end its for the best.

OK - enough cryin' in my corn flakes here...hope everyone is doing well...

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 22, 2005 16:43

Hi fndrbny. I am new to this posting but I must say that by the looks of you there will be men lined up at the door. It takes a while to get over a really true love and we men don,t express ourselves as wll as you do. I have been a year now and it is getting better by the day. Keep you chin up and think happy thoughts. To bigbear you are one of the neatest guys that I have ever read.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 23:12

Big red nose,odd colored hair, wrinkled clothes and big floppy feet? HEY!!! I think I was married to you once!!!
Big red nose,odd colored hair, wrinkled clothes and big floppy feet? HEY!!! I think I was married to you once!!!



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 07:51

HarleyGurl35 write:

thunderunderme write:
Oh honey...I was lonely as chit Sat. night too. Musta been something in the air.

HGurl...OMGOSH thanks for sharing that. I was giggling. What a visual. Aunt Booty Cheek...lmal


Glad I made you laugh!

In another post somewhere on here...ol'Speedy Jerry called me 'Princess', and I politely corrected him, telling him it was HarleyGurl. I guess now it could be either HarleyGurl or BootyCheek.

Guess the truth hurts sometimes!

ROFLMAO.....BootyCheekBaby!!! you are a hoot!!

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 07:41

Durn. Minx. I'm sorry to hear that. About the only consolation was that he went back to his kids, not her. Not much, I know. But it's something.
Tell yuh what. In hopes of makin yuh smile, I'll trot out my clown act. You know the one, with the big red nose, odd colored hair, funny wrinkled clothes and big floppy feet. Hmm. I seem to be wearin it all now. : )
Did I ever mention my twin brother? Yeah. He has this big hamburger chain....
You take good care and know that Grandfather Sun will again smile in your life
Durn. Minx. I'm sorry to hear that. About the only consolation was that he went back to his kids, not her. Not much, I know. But it's something.
Tell yuh what. In hopes of makin yuh smile, I'll trot out my clown act. You know the one, with the big red nose, odd colored hair, funny wrinkled clothes and big floppy feet. Hmm. I seem to be wearin it all now. : )
Did I ever mention my twin brother? Yeah. He has this big hamburger chain....
You take good care and know that Grandfather Sun will again smile in your life



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Posted on Mon, Oct 31, 2005 20:51

I'm hurting too.First guy I fell for in about a decade-maybe two.The sparks flew for both of us the minute we met, but his ex just wouldn't let up and my job keeps me away.The (his) ex just kept chisling away-using the kids (not his, but he cares)so he's gone back to her. It would be fair to say I didn't land well when I fell from his embrace, but I'm healing. At least trying and am putting as much distance between he and I as I can. If you could see the picture of us taken less than 2 weeks ago-you'd see our eyes were dancing. Clearly we were happy. I don't understand. But at least he was honest with me about his feelings for her-didn't play me-gave me that much respect. (which really only makes it that much harder)
I'm hurting too.First guy I fell for in about a decade-maybe two.The sparks flew for both of us the minute we met, but his ex just wouldn't let up and my job keeps me away.The (his) ex just kept chisling away-using the kids (not his, but he cares)so he's gone back to her. It would be fair to say I didn't land well when I fell from his embrace, but I'm healing. At least trying and am putting as much distance between he and I as I can. If you could see the picture of us taken less than 2 weeks ago-you'd see our eyes were dancing. Clearly we were happy. I don't understand. But at least he was honest with me about his feelings for her-didn't play me-gave me that much respect. (which really only makes it that much harder)



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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 16:17

Don't forget to look on Cape Cod!!!



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Posted on Tue, Oct 04, 2005 11:21

fndrbny,

You stop feeling bad, right now !!Or I'll come down there and give you a spankin'.
motorhead

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 09:34

HarleyGurl said " ^5 HarleyChic...success is by far, the absoute BEST revenge! "


ABSOFRICKINLUTELY!

DD

  


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Posted on Sun, Oct 02, 2005 08:42

^5 HarleyChic...success is by far, the absoute BEST revenge!

'Been there' and gloated when I 'done that'!

  


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Posted on Sat, Oct 01, 2005 10:47


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((((FNDRBNY)))))

OH No You Don't! Your not going to get down because you are sitting home on a Saturday Night and eating CornFlakes!
BTW what kind of cornflakes? I love cornflakes!!!! Ya know this site is the best therapy and makes you forget all your troubles. You weren't sitting home alone on Saturday night because we were right here with you!!!!
And so your past- (is the key word here- so stop dwelling in it!!!) guy is with someone eles- Good for him Wish him well and move on (Which Im sure you have) Just think that door closed and another is opening! Let faith come to you- and it will to!!!
So no more with the blahzzzzz!!! Remember you were the best thing he will ever come across.
Chin up - Girlfriend!!!
Jade


Hey what's wrong with dancin with ugly men dammit???

I resemble that remark!!



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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 08:25

Big, bro, you give me grins that keep me goin', the visual of your descriptive dancin' reminds me of a Bugs Bunny cartoon. Kudos, man!

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Posted on Wed, Sep 28, 2005 08:19

Hey!!! Life is NOT too short to dance with ugly men! Sheesh! With sayings like that, it's no wonder I shake my booty alone. : ) Actually I don't dance much anymore, as by the time I get it all going one way, it's past time for it to be going the other. LOL



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 21:40

I did a check on Smithtown and your 407.34 miles and 7hrs 6min from Elkton. Hang on let me look at your pic again. lol

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 21:11

Thanks Jerry - you're absolutely right! I heard a saying before that goes...."the best revenge is knowing that someone else is putting up with their crap" and your words definitely nailed it!

thanks

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 20:22

Jess & Nodey - you know what? You're absolutely right! Sometimes it takes words like that to have a wake up call and snap out of it...thank you! You are just one the nicest and kindest people on this site and I thank you for all of your kind words. They say it takes the sincere words of a good friend to help when you're hurting......you my dear said it all........THANK YOU!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 12:48


fndrbny write:
Its Saturday night......just sitting at home alone, feeling lonely. Found out that the "X" has moved on and is happy with someone else......DAM that hurts......but in the end its for the best.

OK - enough cryin' in my corn flakes here...hope everyone is doing well...



Awww fender',

Ya just need to hook up with a quick back seat and ride those blues away honey!

I'm bettin' a little wind in the face will dry those tears to leave your corn flakes nice and crispy...

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:54

Lol...I agree wiht Jerry. You are a beautiful woman Fndr. And remember that thread you started about the apples.

Once you've tasted love,it is a hard thing to let go. It's only natural for you to hurt. Hun, all you have to do is walk out that door to feel wanted. I'm sure there is a long line of men just dying to get to know you.

Go out and have some fun!!!



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:52


jerryw13 write:
Fndr, sorry you had a tough weekend, perhaps you were looking at things from a perspective that set yourself up for the blues. You seem to have been thinking of the good things about your ex and feeling envious of the other woman. What parts of your ex did you focus on while you were together, the good or the bad? Remember the new girl has to deal with all the things that created all the reasons you two aren't together. There is better out there for all of us, acceptance and a good dose of honest introspection will help us get where we want to be.


MAJOR words of wisdom there, Jerry...thanks.

I find myself at times, "thinking" I am missing my ex, wondering what he's doing, all that crap.

THEN, I remember how he was gone all the time. If not with work, then to the deer lease or off fishing. I remember how I could dress to the hilt, and STILL have to ask "Well, how do I look?", just to get "You look good Babe" and that's without him even looking my way.

Then I think about that long distance ph*one bill I opened to find a month's worth of calls to another woman. Then I think about that trashy woman (and I'm not being ugly...she is pure trash) he's sleeping with while he's telling me he still loves me.

More and more I am finding myself wondering what the hell it was that attracted me to that loser in the first place.

We all get to that point at different times...but we all get there sooner or later.

Thanks again Jerry...you're so right!

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:03

BC (HG) That's too funny. Good on you for rolling with the punches. If it was anybody but Mom, you'd owe them, but with Moms it just happens naturally, eh?

Fndr, sorry you had a tough weekend, perhaps you were looking at things from a perspective that set yourself up for the blues. You seem to have been thinking of the good things about your ex and feeling envious of the other woman. What parts of your ex did you focus on while you were together, the good or the bad? Remember the new girl has to deal with all the things that created all the reasons you two aren't together. There is better out there for all of us, acceptance and a good dose of honest introspection will help us get where we want to be.

  


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