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Posted on Sat, Sep 10, 2005 20:29

When you meet someone...what little quirks would turn you off? Not necessarily make you not like the person as a friend or riding buddy, but turn you off as pursuing a relationship with them?

Sometimes I think maybe I'm too picky or let the stupidest things ruin it for me. Like, cursing. Don't get me wrong, I let the 'F' word fly, and I do my share of 'dam*n this and sh*it that' when with those I'm tight with, but not in everyday conversation or it's not every other word out of my mouth. I get a big knot in my throat when I am with someone and it's constantly "GD this and GD that"....it makes me grit my teeth!

Tell me it's not just me! I know some of you have those little odd things that make you cringe when others do them...fess up! I gotta hear. It'll make me feel better about mine!!

Of course, ya'll know there is no offense intended to anyone with my example. There are just some things you don't do right off the bat when first meeting someone.

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 20:54


DoubleDelight write:
Harleygurl 135 said"Make him do right...he may not understand now, but he'll thank you later. If he won't...his wife will."
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Hon,
So true! I raised my son to have good manners, good communication skills, open doors, be thoughtful, kind, flowers, cards, lotsa love and respect, etc...We do that in S. CA as well. I know he appreciates it.
He is one in a million. At 19, he is way ahead of the game in these areas: Emotional, social, intellectual, and business-wise.
As his mom, I have been taking a back seat for awhile, but I can be proud of the fact that he is well launched. Love to watch him fly.
However, YOU have that beautiful accent! Totally charming.

DD



Sounds like you've got a lot to be proud of! It's so nice to meet a man who has been raised well and knows how to treat a woman. All of us girls know who the thanks goes to...Mom! Well, most of the time anyway.

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 15:23


bykerdave write:
I gotta go with softtail on this... turn offs are... husbands, ex-husbands, boyfriends, ex-boyfriends, incarcerated lovers, lovers in rehab, lovers who may come back..... oopps. you get the drift.

LOL bykerdave... Especially The incarcerated ones in for murder.. lol.. Really put a damper on that relationship....

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 15:00

I gotta go with softtail on this... turn offs are... husbands, ex-husbands, boyfriends, ex-boyfriends, incarcerated lovers, lovers in rehab, lovers who may come back..... oopps. you get the drift.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 09:32

Things that turn me off.

Not being open and honest.
Taking and never giving.
Self centeredness. It is only about me.
Not being clean.
Couch potatoes who just wanna sit in front of a computer or a tv.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 08:48


Bear6664 write:
well I dont mind when the woman says harder
and I dont mind when she says faster
But it really pi$$e$ me off when she says deeper

ROFL.... you are soooooooo FUNNY Bear!!!!!

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 07:36

OK - just need some sunscreen for those..........ummmmm......aaaaaa....ahem........ok I'm blushing now!



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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 05:17


fndrbny write:
A bikini? Are you crazy? People will run off this forum so fast - there will be skid marks........LOL!!

Maybe next year when the tan comes back. Sorry Jerry.


..........Uhmm.........let me see now...
..........ahh......ugh........Hey ya Know................Uhmmmm..............
I got a great back yard where you can...
.........uhmm........Tan Year Round!....
......and not have to worry about.......
uhmm....those...you know................ Tan lines if you don't want them!

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 02:59

Harleygurl 135 said"Make him do right...he may not understand now, but he'll thank you later. If he won't...his wife will."
~~~~~~
Hon,
So true! I raised my son to have good manners, good communication skills, open doors, be thoughtful, kind, flowers, cards, lotsa love and respect, etc...We do that in S. CA as well. I know he appreciates it.
He is one in a million. At 19, he is way ahead of the game in these areas: Emotional, social, intellectual, and business-wise.
As his mom, I have been taking a back seat for awhile, but I can be proud of the fact that he is well launched. Love to watch him fly.
However, YOU have that beautiful accent! Totally charming.

DD

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 21:30


gefallen write:
Turn offs?

Dont have any really. If ya really like someone ya can put up with their quirks.

However, personality traits... that is another story:

NO Gold diggers. Not that it matters, being a riches to rags story myself, they don a want me no more.

NO Church ladies. I already know I am going to hell. I dont need to be preached to.

NO Busy bodies. So what if ya found panties and a hotel key in my saddlebags! (True story), There COULD be a very good explanation.

NO Snoops. Stay out of my pockets, well unless yer... welll nevermind. Stay out of my personal efects.

NO cops. Nothing against ya. I jsut dont want to lose my bad boy priviledges and I dont want her to lose her job.

NO whiners about the past. I do not want to spend 5 hours discussing all the guys that dissed you. I may care, but I can think of better ways to pass the time.

Reckon that is about it...

AJ

Turn ons! Okay got one.... all it takes is four little letters of the alphabet. "O K A J!"

ummmm ...oh i cant...



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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 18:27

A bikini? Are you crazy? People will run off this forum so fast - there will be skid marks........LOL!!

Maybe next year when the tan comes back. Sorry Jerry.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 16:09

Turn offs?

Dont have any really. If ya really like someone ya can put up with their quirks.

However, personality traits... that is another story:

NO Gold diggers. Not that it matters, being a riches to rags story myself, they don a want me no more.

NO Church ladies. I already know I am going to hell. I dont need to be preached to.

NO Busy bodies. So what if ya found panties and a hotel key in my saddlebags! (True story), There COULD be a very good explanation.

NO Snoops. Stay out of my pockets, well unless yer... welll nevermind. Stay out of my personal efects.

NO cops. Nothing against ya. I jsut dont want to lose my bad boy priviledges and I dont want her to lose her job.

NO whiners about the past. I do not want to spend 5 hours discussing all the guys that dissed you. I may care, but I can think of better ways to pass the time.

Reckon that is about it...

AJ

Turn ons! Okay got one.... all it takes is four little letters of the alphabet. "O K A J!"



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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 15:23


fndrbny write:
That was a good one Bear....LOL!!


Turns me off when I look at a pretty woman's profile like you and only got three pics and none of them in a bikini.

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 07:38


Bear6664 write:
well I dont mind when the woman says harder
and I dont mind when she says faster
But it really pi$$e$ me off when she says deeper



HA! that almost made me spit my drink out!

i hate it when people are rude to waiters/waitresses. they are servers not servants. on one really bad date, the woman i was with was completely rude and degrading to the waitress that was helping us. she continued to be rude even after i had said something to her about it. i finally got up, payed the bill, gave the waitress $20 for her troubles, and informed my date that she was being left. my date was silent, the waitress giggled and that was that.



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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 01:22

I think the number one turn-off for me is GOSSIP. The kind that has absolutely no bearing on either of us.

I mean, I want to hear about how your day went and all, and if a conversation you had with someone was about some other people, then fine, I want to know how you felt about that conversation...but...

I don't want to hear what so-and-so did to someone else if there is no moral to the story, or lesson to be learned. Especially if it has absolutely nothing to do with either of us.

What do I need to know that for?

  


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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 19:33


HarleyGurl35 write:

jadeeyes write:
Any form of lying!
Definately a Turn OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



You hear that Bear?!?

Don't disappoint Jade with some ridiculous half-truth of any sort. Just hang your head and say it:

"Yes, honey, it was me who cleaned the house."

"OK, I confess, I washed your car."

"I'm sorry, but I was the one who sent you those flowers for no reason at all."

She's a sweet girl...she won't be too hard on you! Will you Jade??

We love you guys!


Thank you HarleyGurl You were making me laugh tonight!!! Bear is the sweet one from all that honey he eats LOL! He's a good boy! Im very easy going and I won't be hard on him at all he will have no worries !



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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 17:19

I would say that lying is definately the biggest turn off for me. I am a psychic/medium (hence the name pawitchywoman) and I will always know or find out. A gift and a curse all at the same time I tell ya.

The spitting thing is definately disgusting but not a deal breaker here in "Pennsyltucky"--just don't get it on me M*F*. LOL

I like to have fun with guys who talk endlessly about themselves by throwing wierd stuff into the conversation and see how fast they turn it around to them. (Ok, I am easily amused.)

For me (and this may seem too picky to some) but if a guy has a whiney voice I just can't take it. Makes me want to scream. So I guess I always prefer to speak to a man about a date, that way I can hear his voice.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 12:38


Bear6664 write:
well I dont mind when the woman says harder
and I dont mind when she says faster
But it really pi$$e$ me off when she says deeper

omg...There are things for that!



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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 12:07

Bad table manners are a huge turn off.......when someone is chewing with their mouth open when food is still in their mouth is just nasty! It makes me ill. Also, holding the fork like a cave man and burping at the table is gross!! Have a little class guys.



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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 12:01

That was a good one Bear....LOL!!



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