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Posted on Thu, Dec 01, 2005 17:44

Speedy! Shame on You!!? Keep repeating Caryl * Caryl *!
Reminds me of a situation I had with a Wannabe. This Wannabe's son dies, he has a memorial, yeah, that's sad, right? Well, my cousin was this Wannabe's fren. She asked me to cook for the memorial. I'd been walking back/forth from the dining area to kitchen...setting up food. This Wannabe gets up to address HIS fam/frens with HIS fiancee Marsha beside him. He "welcomes & thanks everyone for supporting him thru this tough time". Then he says...I'd Especially want to Thank MY fiancee..."Michele"...(everyone looks puzzled, Marsha looks up at him, my cousin starts giggling & looks at me....then EVERYBODY looks at me standing in the doorway!! Then he says..."ummm, *clears his throat* I mean m, m, M, Marsha".
Bwaaaa, haaaaa, haaaa! Speedy, don't You go doing that SAME thing...Caryl * Caryl * Caryl now, keep saying it! Caryl * Caryl



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Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 19:36

This place is always good for something...I don't know what...lol, just joking!!! I forgot what the thread was, oh yeah, Speedy & his Sweetie. Well, I'm NOT doing the AA mantra, no need to...we all know Our limits, weaknesses, goals, etc. But, To Thine Own Self Be True! Papa Grinch...You're the Original SweetTart. I do hope it works out for You, You need some Lovin' to Sweeten You up!! Bye!!!



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Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 06:53

speedyjerry write:

DoubleDelight write:
speedyjerry write:
Comfy1 write:
A Test?
I never liked tests, but always tested well .......
Unfair I say!
Necessary some say...
WTF?
Everything comes out in the wash.
I don't think Jer is ready to hand out expensive trinkets of adoration if he needs someone to "test" his darlin'...
You don't really adore her...
Too late to take it back now!
I'm sure he'll figure out what to do eventually.
Was that BS repellant for you SpeedyJ?

Naw, not for me, never too late to take it back. It's better to recognize and attempt to work out minor problems before they become major ones after it's too late!. Like I said, we had differences the Ring was supposed to fix but, oh well, history now!.

I noticed something: Jerry said:'Sobriety test.'
And, good to work out minor differences.
Unless I am being Stoopid (wouldn't be the first frikin' time. hahahaa)
Jerry said sobriety.
hmmm... If someone is in denial, you can't frickin' ask 'em! They HAVE to lie. That's where a 'test' comes in.
Working out minor (and major) differences is paramount.
My buddy V:
Hon, Jerry lives for stirrin the pot. He is a pain in the AZZ but we love him anyways.
Seems Dusty was trying to joke with you to cheer you up, and since it's in the printed word, his smiling voice cannot be heard.
Can't wait to shop with you g/f!
Will be a real treat.
Huglets from lil bug


Thank you DD, women smart enough to read between my lines are VERY VERY rare here. I can't imagine a "Perfect Relationship" without some differences to weigh and determine if it's worthwhile to pursue. Takes time to learn about each other, she's been single, successful, and quite independant for some time and I can understand the part of her being unsure of giving that up, same with me. This lady is not some homeless drifter looking for attention going from one man to another to see what HE can do for HER. She's REAL, I can feel it or I'd be gone!.


i understand the being alcohol aware--i am very much aware of that being an ACOA and an ex to a man who drank not to feel--was he always drinking not--but if things got heavy yes then alot

the thing is i watch--talk and discuss the differences--compromise and commuication is a part of a relationship--i don't test--because if i have to jump thru someone else's hoops i'm outa there

yes there are close to perfect relationships--those that have trust, communication and compromise

i have found when i look for someone to fail i will always find it
when i look for someone to succeed they do



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Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 06:31

MIG_64 write:
Hey Wind...THAT IS ONE GOOD LOOKING Dude...congratulations!! You go Girl!
Speedy...i'm One Tall Drink of Water, like my Daddy used to say! He also used to call me Pond Scoggin, too!??? braaaaang it ON!!! Bubba!!!

Thanks Mig...Ya, Eclipsecoach is that and a lot more... ALL 6'4" of him....A Great guy! Couldn't ask for anyone better!.....with a lot of time and patience New York and Ohio finally can be together!...THANKS!.....Mo

  


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Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 05:23

Yup, just kidding V
Will do my own laundry and dishes-lol
Have fun shopping and find DD something warm for the Northeast, not in Cali anymore.

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 19:50

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Jerry...next time give her a YOYO or a boomerang!!!!! So's it'll come back!
As to Us being i 2 i, with you're BIG EYED smiley...hmmm, I'm 5'11" in boots. Sooo, Papa Grinch...it'll be another case of "death by suffocation"!


But he'll die happy.

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 18:45

I know he wuz kiddin'...
I heard the smile.......

I wuz kiddin' too Dusty....

See ya tomorrow DD!

I'll leave Jer alone now.....

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 17:36

speedyjerry write:
Comfy1 write:
A Test?
I never liked tests, but always tested well .......
Unfair I say!
Necessary some say...
WTF?
Everything comes out in the wash.
I don't think Jer is ready to hand out expensive trinkets of adoration if he needs someone to "test" his darlin'...
You don't really adore her...
Too late to take it back now!
I'm sure he'll figure out what to do eventually.
Was that BS repellant for you SpeedyJ?

Naw, not for me, never too late to take it back. It's better to recognize and attempt to work out minor problems before they become major ones after it's too late!. Like I said, we had differences the Ring was supposed to fix but, oh well, history now!.

I noticed something: Jerry said:'Sobriety test.'
And, good to work out minor differences.
Unless I am being Stoopid (wouldn't be the first frikin' time. hahahaa)
Jerry said sobriety.
hmmm... If someone is in denial, you can't frickin' ask 'em! They HAVE to lie. That's where a 'test' comes in.
Working out minor (and major) differences is paramount.
My buddy V:
Hon, Jerry lives for stirrin the pot. He is a pain in the AZZ but we love him anyways.
Seems Dusty was trying to joke with you to cheer you up, and since it's in the printed word, his smiling voice cannot be heard.
Can't wait to shop with you g/f!
Will be a real treat.
Huglets from lil bug

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 17:07

Jerry...next time give her a YOYO or a boomerang!!!!! So's it'll come back!
As to Us being i 2 i, with you're BIG EYED smiley...hmmm, I'm 5'11" in boots. Sooo, Papa Grinch...it'll be another case of "death by suffocation"!



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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 15:25

oh really?!

Buy a dishwasher!!!
I did!!!

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 14:46

Do the tests Jerry- all of them-lol
Just stirring the pot a bit-
Don't be PO'd Comfy- you just passed the pie making test, more will follow-Laundry or dish washing maybe.
Ok, that should do the trick- Over and out
Dusty

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 07:32

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Drama suks...Don't you know that by now?

Unfortunately, Comfy, some folks aren't happy unless they either have drama or they're creating drama! If a person does not enhance my life, I rid my life of that person..simple concept...no drama! Peace all!

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 06:44

Drama suks...Don't you know that by now?

  


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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 06:35

Speedy

differences are what makes us unique--and her uniqueness is what drew you to her---now you want her to change that uniqueness then what???????????

WHY DON'T YOU CHANGE--BECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONLY THING YOU CAN CHANGE!!!!!

change your responses and maybe she will change hers

trust and communication are the 2 most important things in a relationship--if you started testing me--i would believe we have neither of those and would put on my running shoes ASAP and be out of there

good luck you need it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 04:11

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A 'RING' can not fix any differences...And seems to me that you are asking her to change something about herself..and now you are 'testing' her...NAHHHH Jerry, this is not good.

I don't know about her but the first time a man 'tests' me he will be told to f'off.....Take me or leave me but don't test me. Love is not a pass/fail situation.

Yes differences can be worked out..but to ask someone to 'change' theirself and then 'test' them on that change is just wrong.

Good luck Jerry...you may lose this one if you put her through too many 'tests'.

You can say that again Thunder!



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Posted on Mon, Nov 28, 2005 21:59

A 'RING' can not fix any differences...And seems to me that you are asking her to change something about herself..and now you are 'testing' her...NAHHHH Jerry, this is not good.

I don't know about her but the first time a man 'tests' me he will be told to f'off.....Take me or leave me but don't test me. Love is not a pass/fail situation.

Yes differences can be worked out..but to ask someone to 'change' theirself and then 'test' them on that change is just wrong.

Good luck Jerry...you may lose this one if you put her through too many 'tests'.



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Posted on Mon, Nov 28, 2005 19:29

I dont know what dance youre talkin about.
I do know that when decisions are made in haste or to the tune of I'll give you this if you do that it just don't sound right to me..
Hey, maybe I'm dense, but it seems to me that what is meant to be will be no matter if the "test" is passed or never given at all.
I seen it!
If you don't beleive what you are doing is right it isn't...Right for you anyway...
I done it...
I hope I never knowingly initiate the pain dance ..
Pain is there so we can feel joy...
We'll all have it sooner or later...
I'll concentrate on the joy dance....It's much more fun..Especially when you have someone to dance with :)



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Posted on Mon, Nov 28, 2005 16:25

A ring can't fix a problem....

You can train a dog with a biskit..

You can't bribe someone to love you or to be someone they are not.



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Posted on Mon, Nov 28, 2005 12:01

A Test?
I never liked tests, but always tested well .......
Unfair I say!
Necessary some say...
WTF?
Everything comes out in the wash.
I don't think Jer is ready to hand out expensive trinkets of adoration if he needs someone to "test" his darlin'...
You don't really adore her...
Too late to take it back now!
I'm sure he'll figure out what to do eventually.
Was that BS repellant for you SpeedyJ?



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Posted on Mon, Nov 28, 2005 11:22

Jerr send your darlin' in here w/us...we'll see if she can take the heat...

  


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