How long is long enough? Romance

  • View author's info posted on Jan 03, 2006 10:11


    Suzananana write:

    speedyjerry write:
    I ain't give up yet. Some relationships are like Ole Harley's, ya never know if they are gonna run or not today, but it's hard to junk them cause the good moments are Oh SOOOO GOOOOOOOD!



    Omg....did I hear ya say somethin nice about a Harley????

    Oh Jer....that woman is softening you up but good......

    Yes dear, I suppose they are nice WHEN they run if you like all that Rumblin Crap!..........Hodaka's are nice too!
  • View author's info posted on Jan 03, 2006 06:53


    speedyjerry write:
    I ain't give up yet. Some relationships are like Ole Harley's, ya never know if they are gonna run or not today, but it's hard to junk them cause the good moments are Oh SOOOO GOOOOOOOD!


    Omg....did I hear ya say somethin nice about a Harley????

    Oh Jer....that woman is softening you up but good......
  • View author's info posted on Jan 03, 2006 06:05


    I ain't give up yet. Some relationships are like Ole Harley's, ya never know if they are gonna run or not today, but it's hard to junk them cause the good moments are Oh SOOOO GOOOOOOOD!
  • View author's info posted on Dec 23, 2005 18:51


    DakotaBlu write:
    Festus... anybody that could put up with YOU for 14 weeks deserves LOTS of Christmas presents... haha... Merry Christmas to you and your lady...

    Festus?!?

    Hmmm...SpeedyFestus...got a good ring to it..I like it!!
  • View author's info posted on Dec 23, 2005 17:25


    Festus... anybody that could put up with YOU for 14 weeks deserves LOTS of Christmas presents... haha... Merry Christmas to you and your lady...
  • View author's info posted on Dec 19, 2005 10:07


    angelrider800 write:
    bogeybob write:
    Msbikerkitty write:
    Doesnt have to be real long....width is good too!
    oh chit is that what you meant?

    Not sure kitty, but I'm proud of every two inches....we measure from the ground up here in Arkansas

    We do???? Since when Bob???

    Since modesty became an issue...lmao
  • View author's info posted on Dec 15, 2005 08:39


    bogeybob write:
    Msbikerkitty write:
    Doesnt have to be real long....width is good too!
    oh chit is that what you meant?

    Not sure kitty, but I'm proud of every two inches....we measure from the ground up here in Arkansas

    We do???? Since when Bob???
  • View author's info posted on Dec 14, 2005 12:18


    Msbikerkitty write:
    Doesnt have to be real long....width is good too!
    oh chit is that what you meant?

    Not sure kitty, but I'm proud of every two inches....we measure from the ground up here in Arkansas
  • View author's info posted on Nov 30, 2005 06:53


    speedyjerry write:

    DoubleDelight write:
    speedyjerry write:
    Comfy1 write:
    A Test?
    I never liked tests, but always tested well .......
    Unfair I say!
    Necessary some say...
    WTF?
    Everything comes out in the wash.
    I don't think Jer is ready to hand out expensive trinkets of adoration if he needs someone to "test" his darlin'...
    You don't really adore her...
    Too late to take it back now!
    I'm sure he'll figure out what to do eventually.
    Was that BS repellant for you SpeedyJ?

    Naw, not for me, never too late to take it back. It's better to recognize and attempt to work out minor problems before they become major ones after it's too late!. Like I said, we had differences the Ring was supposed to fix but, oh well, history now!.

    I noticed something: Jerry said:'Sobriety test.'
    And, good to work out minor differences.
    Unless I am being Stoopid (wouldn't be the first frikin' time. hahahaa)
    Jerry said sobriety.
    hmmm... If someone is in denial, you can't frickin' ask 'em! They HAVE to lie. That's where a 'test' comes in.
    Working out minor (and major) differences is paramount.
    My buddy V:
    Hon, Jerry lives for stirrin the pot. He is a pain in the AZZ but we love him anyways.
    Seems Dusty was trying to joke with you to cheer you up, and since it's in the printed word, his smiling voice cannot be heard.
    Can't wait to shop with you g/f!
    Will be a real treat.
    Huglets from lil bug


    Thank you DD, women smart enough to read between my lines are VERY VERY rare here. I can't imagine a "Perfect Relationship" without some differences to weigh and determine if it's worthwhile to pursue. Takes time to learn about each other, she's been single, successful, and quite independant for some time and I can understand the part of her being unsure of giving that up, same with me. This lady is not some homeless drifter looking for attention going from one man to another to see what HE can do for HER. She's REAL, I can feel it or I'd be gone!.


    i understand the being alcohol aware--i am very much aware of that being an ACOA and an ex to a man who drank not to feel--was he always drinking not--but if things got heavy yes then alot

    the thing is i watch--talk and discuss the differences--compromise and commuication is a part of a relationship--i don't test--because if i have to jump thru someone else's hoops i'm outa there

    yes there are close to perfect relationships--those that have trust, communication and compromise

    i have found when i look for someone to fail i will always find it
    when i look for someone to succeed they do
  • View author's info posted on Nov 30, 2005 06:31


    MIG_64 write:
    Hey Wind...THAT IS ONE GOOD LOOKING Dude...congratulations!! You go Girl!
    Speedy...i'm One Tall Drink of Water, like my Daddy used to say! He also used to call me Pond Scoggin, too!??? braaaaang it ON!!! Bubba!!!

    Thanks Mig...Ya, Eclipsecoach is that and a lot more... ALL 6'4" of him....A Great guy! Couldn't ask for anyone better!.....with a lot of time and patience New York and Ohio finally can be together!...THANKS!.....Mo
  • View author's info posted on Nov 30, 2005 05:23


    Yup, just kidding V
    Will do my own laundry and dishes-lol
    Have fun shopping and find DD something warm for the Northeast, not in Cali anymore.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 29, 2005 19:50


    MIG_64 write:
    Jerry...next time give her a YOYO or a boomerang!!!!! So's it'll come back!
    As to Us being i 2 i, with you're BIG EYED smiley...hmmm, I'm 5'11" in boots. Sooo, Papa Grinch...it'll be another case of "death by suffocation"!


    But he'll die happy.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 29, 2005 17:36


    speedyjerry write:
    Comfy1 write:
    A Test?
    I never liked tests, but always tested well .......
    Unfair I say!
    Necessary some say...
    WTF?
    Everything comes out in the wash.
    I don't think Jer is ready to hand out expensive trinkets of adoration if he needs someone to "test" his darlin'...
    You don't really adore her...
    Too late to take it back now!
    I'm sure he'll figure out what to do eventually.
    Was that BS repellant for you SpeedyJ?

    Naw, not for me, never too late to take it back. It's better to recognize and attempt to work out minor problems before they become major ones after it's too late!. Like I said, we had differences the Ring was supposed to fix but, oh well, history now!.

    I noticed something: Jerry said:'Sobriety test.'
    And, good to work out minor differences.
    Unless I am being Stoopid (wouldn't be the first frikin' time. hahahaa)
    Jerry said sobriety.
    hmmm... If someone is in denial, you can't frickin' ask 'em! They HAVE to lie. That's where a 'test' comes in.
    Working out minor (and major) differences is paramount.
    My buddy V:
    Hon, Jerry lives for stirrin the pot. He is a pain in the AZZ but we love him anyways.
    Seems Dusty was trying to joke with you to cheer you up, and since it's in the printed word, his smiling voice cannot be heard.
    Can't wait to shop with you g/f!
    Will be a real treat.
    Huglets from lil bug
  • View author's info posted on Nov 29, 2005 14:46


    Do the tests Jerry- all of them-lol
    Just stirring the pot a bit-
    Don't be PO'd Comfy- you just passed the pie making test, more will follow-Laundry or dish washing maybe.
    Ok, that should do the trick- Over and out
    Dusty
  • View author's info posted on Nov 29, 2005 07:32


    Comfy1 write:
    Drama suks...Don't you know that by now?

    Unfortunately, Comfy, some folks aren't happy unless they either have drama or they're creating drama! If a person does not enhance my life, I rid my life of that person..simple concept...no drama! Peace all!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 29, 2005 06:35


    Speedy

    differences are what makes us unique--and her uniqueness is what drew you to her---now you want her to change that uniqueness then what???????????

    WHY DON'T YOU CHANGE--BECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONLY THING YOU CAN CHANGE!!!!!

    change your responses and maybe she will change hers

    trust and communication are the 2 most important things in a relationship--if you started testing me--i would believe we have neither of those and would put on my running shoes ASAP and be out of there

    good luck you need it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 21:59


    A 'RING' can not fix any differences...And seems to me that you are asking her to change something about herself..and now you are 'testing' her...NAHHHH Jerry, this is not good.

    I don't know about her but the first time a man 'tests' me he will be told to f'off.....Take me or leave me but don't test me. Love is not a pass/fail situation.

    Yes differences can be worked out..but to ask someone to 'change' theirself and then 'test' them on that change is just wrong.

    Good luck Jerry...you may lose this one if you put her through too many 'tests'.
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 11:22


    Jerr send your darlin' in here w/us...we'll see if she can take the heat...
  • View author's info posted on Nov 28, 2005 04:59


    MIG_64 write:
    Jeeerrrrrrryyy!? whazzup? You know I secretly love You...but I have to confess 1 lil, itty, bitty thang. Upon further observation...why did U post a pic of Vincent Price hawking BS repellant?? Bwaaahaaaahaaa! Alright, SweetySpeedy, don't get mad...we can mosh in the kiddie pool pudding pit! I'm just working You up for the wrasslin' M

    Vincent Price? I thought it was Vern!

    And this marriage thing...RUN CARYL RUN!

    Just kidding Jerry...congrats and for God's sake, don't make the poor girl miserable!
  • View author's info posted on Nov 25, 2005 10:36


    just wanna share this with you folks.

    Dont go for looks;they can deceive.
    Dont go for wealth;even that fades away.
    Go for someone who makes you smile,
    because it only takes a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
    Find the one that makes your heart smile.
    Dream what you want to dream;
    Go where you want to go;
    Be what you want to be
    Because you only have one life
    And one chance to do all the things you want to do.
    May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,
    Enough trials to make you strong,
    Enough sorrows to make you human
    And enough hope to make you happy.
    The happiest of people dont necessarily
    Have the best of everything,
    They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
    The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;
    You cant go forward in life until
    you let go off your past failures and heartaches.
    When you were born,you were crying
    and everyone around you was smiling.
    Live your life so at the end,
    you're the one whos smiling and everyone around you is crying.
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