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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 07:30


NORTY write:
Uh-oh! I thought this thread was about "lier's", not "liar's."

Amazing how it's naturally assumed that only men lie.


Oh now Norty, ya now they gotta let off steam, I treat it like a Alanon meeting!! We as MEN know there are just as many Women that are hidding the truth as there are Men. At least us MEN ain't so gosh darn picky about perfection. Be of Grace
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Posted on Sun, Sep 18, 2005 01:19

DD, I am very sorry that you have been hurt. Unfortunately at this stage of the game most of us have. I call it life's lessons. I believe in Karma. I believe that all that we give to others comes back to us two-fold. It isn't easy to forgive. To be the bigger person. Someone hurts us we want to rip them to shreds. That is human instinct, but not always the best thing to do. I wish you peace, a calming serene.... contentment, and most of all happiness. Life is short. Get out and live it to it's fullest. Ride safe and ride free.

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 21:01


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i just have to laugh when these morons spend there time on sites like these when they probably have a very loving wife waiting for them. . .


I have been contacted by married men lots of times. I tell them that if they got off the darn computer and helped their wives with the dishes, children, housework, they might actually get some of what they are looking for on line. I don't know about the other ladies here. . . but for me, a guy doing my dishes after I cook him dinner is a huge turn-on.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 20:50

Susanne, glad to read about your happy ending! And thanks for sharing your story. Unfortunately, every time we are lied to, it errodes our ability to trust--at least thats what it does to me. Without trust you have nothing to build on.

Liars. . . now where is that darn spellbook when I need it. . . wait think I know that one by heart. . .LOL. . .

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 17:37


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Wow Goddess....

I so totally agree with you and with what everyone else who shared their horror stories. Although I read the forum regularly, I rarely post anything. "I like to watch" lmao - oooh WHO said that ...

But this particular thread really got to me. I truly believe that a womans's gut, and our "women's intuition" tells us the truth - ALWAYS!!!

If I feel the ol red flag poppin up, intellectually I know to go with my gut and stay the fluck away from the moron. But..... my problem is is that I am a hopeless romantic, and I give the benefit of the doubt, (because I'm such a sweetheart lmao), to men who have no clue about honesty. BUT, their profiles ALWAYS says "honesty is the code I live by, and I have no baggage".

PLUS they always say that they're "old school" lol. What a crock. They must mean that they went to school in a little red school house on the prairie built in 1850 lol. They have no clue. Sad isn't it....

So.....this brings me to the reason for this very rare post from me, (gotta watch my gf's backs and hip them to "danger lurking" lol), and although I only speak to a few of the women on this site, I love and respect all of the you - because you are all such righteous, stand up women with character and integrity...and you are so wise - and y'all crack me up too lol - (which is the best part).

Ready? Ok here goes... I "dated" a guy from this site for a while a couple of months back, and he said everything I wanted to hear. We talked, and had so much in common. We met for a "first date" - (I usually HATE first dates - to me -- and Carrie from S.ex and the City hahaha,-- they're like job interviews with cocktails), but this one was nice - or so I thought. Then I caught him in his first lie. So I booked.... But he called and asked for my forgiveness and of course I caved. BIG mistake. So... he did it again. And again, I gave him another chance because he had such "potential" lol. Gf's -you KNOW what I mean by that lol.

So.... he's now history - thank GD!!!! But...he recently made his profile active again, and guess what. He came back 6 years younger lmao. He's STILL lying. So so sad....

Anyway, I would never front someone off
in public - just not my style - so I won't name names here - but I did warn one of my gf's on here who lives in his town about him, and luckily she hadn't heard from him.

So..... if you're corresponding with someone who lives in one of the 5 boroughs of NYC, and you wanna know the lowdown, please respond to me here, and I can email ya on BK and we can talk.

And becasue I truly believe that nothin happpens in Gd's world by mistake, I look at this whole experience as a blessing. Because....

I truly believe that Gd doesn't close one door without opening another. And after kissin so many frogs that Compound W doesn't even work on my warts anymore - ewwwww lmao - , I have finally found my prince....and he has found me. And just guess where we found each other too lol... Seems as if love is in the air on BK. Wow. And he's the most incredibly honest man I have ever met, that I trust him with my life. No red flags, no doubts in my gut - just trust, love, laughter, and...and...and... We're takin it a day at a time,and it just keeps gettin better & better every day. And we know that it's the real thing - we're both like little kids experiencing all those "butterflies in the stomach" feelings. What a trip... And believe me guys - if it happened to me, it can happen to you.

Whew....I sure made up for bein quiet all these months . Thanks for listening.

Oh - can't wait to meet all the Noo Yawk women in the city on the 23rd.

~~~Susanne

Susanne, what a story.... with such a happy ending. I totally agree with your philosophies and I couldn't have said it any better.
Gut instincts tell us very early if something is amiss..... unfortunately, like you, I dated one and I ignored the red flags too. I also forgave the lies and even made excuses for them. Well, eventually we wise up, which I did. I also consider this to be a blessing and a hard learned lesson in the world of hard knocks. I am happy that you found the special person who makes your world complete. I wish you lots of love and happiness for years to come. With so many happy endings to these stories, it just reinforces what I already know. There is someone out there for everyone... when you least expect them you will meet. Thanks so much for sharing your story.

  


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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 16:00


Suzananana write:
Wow Goddess....

I so totally agree with you and with what everyone else who shared their horror stories. Although I read the forum regularly, I rarely post anything. "I like to watch" lmao - oooh WHO said that ...

But this particular thread really got to me. I truly believe that a womans's gut, and our "women's intuition" tells us the truth - ALWAYS!!!

If I feel the ol red flag poppin up, intellectually I know to go with my gut and stay the fluck away from the moron. But..... my problem is is that I am a hopeless romantic, and I give the benefit of the doubt, (because I'm such a sweetheart lmao), to men who have no clue about honesty. BUT, their profiles ALWAYS says "honesty is the code I live by, and I have no baggage".

PLUS they always say that they're "old school" lol. What a crock. They must mean that they went to school in a little red school house on the prairie built in 1850 lol. They have no clue. Sad isn't it....

So.....this brings me to the reason for this very rare post from me, (gotta watch my gf's backs and hip them to "danger lurking" lol), and although I only speak to a few of the women on this site, I love and respect all of the you - because you are all such righteous, stand up women with character and integrity...and you are so wise - and y'all crack me up too lol - (which is the best part).

Ready? Ok here goes... I "dated" a guy from this site for a while a couple of months back, and he said everything I wanted to hear. We talked, and had so much in common. We met for a "first date" - (I usually HATE first dates - to me -- and Carrie from S.ex and the City hahaha,-- they're like job interviews with cocktails), but this one was nice - or so I thought. Then I caught him in his first lie. So I booked.... But he called and asked for my forgiveness and of course I caved. BIG mistake. So... he did it again. And again, I gave him another chance because he had such "potential" lol. Gf's -you KNOW what I mean by that lol.

So.... he's now history - thank GD!!!! But...he recently made his profile active again, and guess what. He came back 6 years younger lmao. He's STILL lying. So so sad....

Anyway, I would never front someone off
in public - just not my style - so I won't name names here - but I did warn one of my gf's on here who lives in his town about him, and luckily she hadn't heard from him.

So..... if you're corresponding with someone who lives in one of the 5 boroughs of NYC, and you wanna know the lowdown, please respond to me here, and I can email ya on BK and we can talk.

And becasue I truly believe that nothin happpens in Gd's world by mistake, I look at this whole experience as a blessing. Because....

I truly believe that Gd doesn't close one door without opening another. And after kissin so many frogs that Compound W doesn't even work on my warts anymore - ewwwww lmao - , I have finally found my prince....and he has found me. And just guess where we found each other too lol... Seems as if love is in the air on BK. Wow. And he's the most incredibly honest man I have ever met, that I trust him with my life. No red flags, no doubts in my gut - just trust, love, laughter, and...and...and... We're takin it a day at a time,and it just keeps gettin better & better every day. And we know that it's the real thing - we're both like little kids experiencing all those "butterflies in the stomach" feelings. What a trip... And believe me guys - if it happened to me, it can happen to you.

Whew....I sure made up for bein quiet all these months . Thanks for listening.

Oh - can't wait to meet all the Noo Yawk women in the city on the 23rd.

~~~Susanne

Thanks so much for sharing susane.I need to hear from other women it helps alot.



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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 14:08

Susanna...It's great to see you hit the forums....see you next weekend....Mo

  


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Wow Goddess....

I so totally agree with you and with what everyone else who shared their horror stories. Although I read the forum regularly, I rarely post anything. "I like to watch" lmao - oooh WHO said that ...

But this particular thread really got to me. I truly believe that a womans's gut, and our "women's intuition" tells us the truth - ALWAYS!!!

If I feel the ol red flag poppin up, intellectually I know to go with my gut and stay the fluck away from the moron. But..... my problem is is that I am a hopeless romantic, and I give the benefit of the doubt, (because I'm such a sweetheart lmao), to men who have no clue about honesty. BUT, their profiles ALWAYS says "honesty is the code I live by, and I have no baggage".

PLUS they always say that they're "old school" lol. What a crock. They must mean that they went to school in a little red school house on the prairie built in 1850 lol. They have no clue. Sad isn't it....

So.....this brings me to the reason for this very rare post from me, (gotta watch my gf's backs and hip them to "danger lurking" lol), and although I only speak to a few of the women on this site, I love and respect all of the you - because you are all such righteous, stand up women with character and integrity...and you are so wise - and y'all crack me up too lol - (which is the best part).

Ready? Ok here goes... I "dated" a guy from this site for a while a couple of months back, and he said everything I wanted to hear. We talked, and had so much in common. We met for a "first date" - (I usually HATE first dates - to me -- and Carrie from S.ex and the City hahaha,-- they're like job interviews with cocktails), but this one was nice - or so I thought. Then I caught him in his first lie. So I booked.... But he called and asked for my forgiveness and of course I caved. BIG mistake. So... he did it again. And again, I gave him another chance because he had such "potential" lol. Gf's -you KNOW what I mean by that lol.

So.... he's now history - thank GD!!!! But...he recently made his profile active again, and guess what. He came back 6 years younger lmao. He's STILL lying. So so sad....

Anyway, I would never front someone off
in public - just not my style - so I won't name names here - but I did warn one of my gf's on here who lives in his town about him, and luckily she hadn't heard from him.

So..... if you're corresponding with someone who lives in one of the 5 boroughs of NYC, and you wanna know the lowdown, please respond to me here, and I can email ya on BK and we can talk.

And becasue I truly believe that nothin happpens in Gd's world by mistake, I look at this whole experience as a blessing. Because....

I truly believe that Gd doesn't close one door without opening another. And after kissin so many frogs that Compound W doesn't even work on my warts anymore - ewwwww lmao - , I have finally found my prince....and he has found me. And just guess where we found each other too lol... Seems as if love is in the air on BK. Wow. And he's the most incredibly honest man I have ever met, that I trust him with my life. No red flags, no doubts in my gut - just trust, love, laughter, and...and...and... We're takin it a day at a time,and it just keeps gettin better & better every day. And we know that it's the real thing - we're both like little kids experiencing all those "butterflies in the stomach" feelings. What a trip... And believe me guys - if it happened to me, it can happen to you.

Whew....I sure made up for bein quiet all these months . Thanks for listening.

Oh - can't wait to meet all the Noo Yawk women in the city on the 23rd.

~~~Susanne



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Posted on Fri, Sep 16, 2005 08:22

DD....I could not have said it better, just exactly the same words, since he gave me all the same BS. I'm just glad that the woman's intuition kicked in at the right time and I was smart enough not to stick around with him. It is so sad and scarry that there are guys (and I'm sure women too) out there who portray themselves as the wonderful, kind, compassionate people they think we want them to be, only to turn out to be the ones who prey on innocent victims. Like you said, I'm sure with the boys, he paints a whole different picture - about himself and us. Hang in there and stay strong. I'm in your corner.



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LadySundial: Liars: What a great thread idea!
I learned the ropes pretty quickly here on Bk. This guy lied about a lot of things. Said he would fly me to meet him and take me to a great concert and big bike meet. Then said he didn't have the money. Said he would pay me back for 1/2 of the air-fare after I got together with him. I could stay with a female friend of his, so I could feel 'safe'. Then, a few days later, said that we would have to stay in the same bed at her house. Then, a few days later, said it became inconvenient to have her pick me up at the airport, so I could take the bus and meet him--and stay at his 'house', in his bed. Then he said he would be a gentleman, then he changed that to: well, we'll see what happens. Something was smelling not very funny.
Do you hear a changing tune here? Ever heard this particular melody?
So, I said "No thanks!"
He probably would have paid me back for 1/2 of the flight cost and taken me to the concert and the meet. We would probably have laughed and had a good time on the bike and with other biker friends. Got to give him that.
I emailed him afterwards asking for him to be a man and at least acknowledge that he really tried to 'work me' so he could get me in his BED. He didn't bother to answer me on that topic, but became so rude on a bike topic that I blocked him from my alo IM.
I sent one more email asking nicely for the same acknowledgement....and he didn't bother to answer that one at all.
Then he made a joke on a reply to a very, very, vulnerable post of mine, offering no compassion.
Oh, he also said early on in one of our first chats that he could relocate to where I live and wondered if he could live in my house. I am NOT the only woman he has worked in the same way.
Another woman I know personally was asked if he could live in her house, and invited to meet him for the first time and stay in his 'house' for the visit. She met him and decided not to stay. He tore her a new one on the fone. There is a lot more to these stories I could say-but won't. To protect the innocent and to maintain anonymity.
He is probably a straight-up good guy for his friends, and honest in other ways. He sure gave me a quick education! Now, I know what ~lines~ to beware of. I am grateful to him for opening my eyes to the games men can play.
One person's friend is another woman's sad tale. PredatorsRnot4me.


DD

  


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Posted on Wed, Sep 14, 2005 16:21


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A cheat LIAR and a CHEAT will ALWAYS be a liar and a cheat. I found my boyfriend of 6 years recently on this site while still seeing me. He signed up last November and I never had a clue. Now, he says he is just playing games. Yea, with me and every other woman on this site. Watch out for Mikes in NJ


I'm really sorry that happened to you but I think that is one of their favorite sayings. They need to get real with themselves before they can get real with anyone else!...Hang in there!......Mo

  


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angelrider800 write:

beatitudes_5 write:

angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

Oh Baby Girl..you have NO idea!!!! NONE!!!

we hearing 6..............

Dayum skippy! 6 and headed down fast...I'm leaving on a jet plane, don't know if I'll be back again, leaving on a jet plane...la lal la



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angelrider800 write:

beatitudes_5 write:

angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

Oh Baby Girl..you have NO idea!!!! NONE!!!

we hearing 6..............

  


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beatitudes_5 write:

angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

Oh Baby Girl..you have NO idea!!!! NONE!!!

  


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angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

  


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"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

  


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WINDSPIRIT50 write:

Weenie write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:

bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!


He's just a big ole bear that you want to
sqeeeezzzzzeeee!!!!

And I will next Friday! Hey Doc..you bringing the purple people eater to Logan to fetch my azz??? Please say yes...would love to zip through Beantown on the back of that bad boy!

COUNTDOWN-------------7



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WINDSPIRIT50 write:

Weenie write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:

bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!


He's just a big ole bear that you want to
sqeeeezzzzzeeee!!!!

And I will next Friday! Hey Doc..you bringing the purple people eater to Logan to fetch my azz??? Please say yes...would love to zip through Beantown on the back of that bad boy!

  


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Weenie write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:

bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!


He's just a big ole bear that you want to
sqeeeezzzzzeeee!!!!

  


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i just have to laugh when these morons spend there time on sites like these when they probably have a very loving wife waiting for them ..if your that freakin desperate quit playing mind games with these wonderful woman on here and go get yourself a 20 dollar lady .lol my god man get a life.wow i had to rewrite this 7 times because they said my language was bad i've seen a heck of alot worse.lol

Hmmmmmmmmm Biker hon you mean like atttt or like ma*l, Biotch, or something like sick fukkkk lmao.. ya just have to know how to get around the words.. I know ask DOC he will show you.. lol

  


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