Folks, Honesty begins with your pictures on a dating site, If you are showing a six year old 35 pds ago picture. Your date is going to be very disappointed, If in the pic your yellow teeth dont show or you smell bad its not going to show in a text.Meeting someone for the first time does not mean they owe you anything.
I think there is some of the cream of the crop here to be found, but I dont think it is wise to expect that. In my book, expectations breed disappointments. By this I mean that whatever I come up with in my mind about a person after IM, text, chat, and phone calls may or may not come to be. So I don't let myself go there... I take every day as it comes, meet whoever where ever, and just see what happens. I know I'm a fun person to hang out with, and enjoy myself in whatever I do. I don't change who I am for anyone. I've met some great people here, people I will hang out with more, and continue to have fun with. But I'm not looking for my next ex, just fun. I am honest and upfront about my thoughts and feelings, and don't let other people's problems take up space in my head.
OH RELIEF IM NOT THE ONLY ONE..IM HERE FOR AN EAR I JUST WENT THROUGH THIS WITH SOMEONE HERE AND HE DECIDED TO BREAK IT TO ME IN A TXT MSG AFTER MY ENTIRE VACATION WAS PLANNED AROUND HIM!! I GOT TONS OF CALLS A DAY TXTS FLOWERS THEN COMES TO VISIT I GO SEE HIM AND BOOM ABOUT VACATION I MET SOMEONE IM SORRY..YEA HELP ME OUT HERE
YOU ARE ABSOLUTLY RIGHT ABOUT THE LIES ON BEING MARRIED AND NOT TELLIN YA..WHAT REALLY CHAPS MY ASS IS THE MARRIED ONES JUST WANTS TO JUMP IN THE SACK THEN GO BACK TO THE WIFE..THESE KIND JUST MAKE ME WANNA PUKE. THIS MAY BE A BAD THING TO SAY (PROBABLY WILL BE PUNISHED FOR SAYIN IT) BUT I REALLY HOPE THAT KIND GETS THE DEADLIEST DIEASES ANY MAN/WOMAN COULD EVER GET....AND WHAT WOULD THAT BE? "AIDS" THIS PIC I POSTED MEANS THAT KIND CAN SUCK MY ASS.....
Eh, just move on, motorcycles get plenty of miles to the gallon, so full throttle and flee ahead.. There are a lot of people on here to meet, to talk to, to share laughs with and to feel those butterflies with a real connection if thats what youre looking for..Try the blogs, theres a lot of fun and open minded people talking back n forth everyday.. The forums seem almost forgotten sometimes..
Ive shared winks, emails and "im"s with a few new people id like to be more familiar with as friends, but since im in a relationship most dont want to even speak to me.. But i dont give up, i take each encounter as a shiny new piece of chrome, in hopes ill see the sun shining off it around the next twisty turning corner i pass..
well all i want is to find one good man and be up front from day one, now i think thats a good deal .......dont y'all? i want to be his forever and him holding me as well as me holding him while riding down the hiway.
lonewolf661 write: I know the feeling well have met a few on here.Whats wrong with being honest we all have a past come on lets be real.One I dated for almost 4 mths found out the x lived across the street and was lied to from the beginning that things were over between them and for an added kicker all this came to my attention right before the holidays.
Oh, so that was your Hildiay present? OUCH!!! Merry freakin Xmas, happy freakin new year. OUCH!!!
A bite it the azz for the holidays, lovely thing to give to someone. Some people are just COLD hearted.
I would like to bring this back to the top. A very good thread.
Many men and women can be less then honest.
The one thing I have learned about life is if you can not honest with yourself, you can be honest with nobody!!
I guess we have all gone through something that has torn out our heart.
The things that bother me most, are those who say they are divorced, then you find out they are not.
Then you find someone's profile, they catch your eye, they have a real good story about themselves and what they are looking for in a match. You see that person and after time they are not at all who they say they are. Hell life is change, I know I have changed the words on my profile many times. And or hid my profile, or changed the status.
HONESTY? WHERE DID IT GO????????
YES ITS TRUE THERE IS NO HONESTY OUT HERE , THE MEN SEEM TO LIE ALOT , THEY SAY THEY ARE SINGLE , BUT HAVE A WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND SOME WHERE, AND THAT MAKES IT BAD FOR THE REST OF THE GOOD GUYS OUT HERE, HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO TRUST, WHEN Y'ALL LIE TO US, ..
SpringerSoul write: and I here I thought I was the only magician that could make ladies do the disappearing act now I learn there are women with the same gift to make men disappear. Fantastic..but where do they go? and the trouble I have is are they ok? I mean when you email and converse with someone for a good period of time and they suddenly grow silent when their last words were sweet affection I pray for a t least or a week or more that no harm befell them because it is so easy to stay in touch now days.
I have seen the 7 Knights riding and Honesty's horse is a handsome mare. I believe they are a t the watering hole having a hard time finding an inn with a stable so they are making camp on the outskirts of the modern maze where people are lost in their own haze.
(BK your little Hitler text editing machine is really annoying--long live A T)
Isn't the word HITLER the true name of TEXAS? lolololololol OH WAIT,,, BUSH/Hitler, is from Texas ooooooooooooops
Truthfulone write: If we all take to heart the way shallow people are we all would be walking around with a shot gun in our mouth,,,,, Guess some people don't want to hurt your feelings and just ignore the fact that they can't tell you the truth,,,, So they found somebody better, why can't they just say that and be an honest person, For me, I just start singing" Another One Bites The Dust". No matter how nice or good you are, there will always be someone who never learned how to treat people the right way....
I've recently had a talk with my daughter (who is almost 10) on this very topic. Complete honesty is in itself a lie. I don't think it is possible to be completely honest and still be able to communicate effectively with those around you. There is a difference between bending and breaking the truth and that is a difficult line to draw and we don't always agree on where it should be drawn.
I had a female roommate years ago (just a friend) that was a bit overweight and quite self concious about it. One afternoon I was talking to a couple of other female friends (my friends are not ALL female even though it my appear so in this post) when my roommate walked in wearing a very tight and short mini skirt with a floral print. She asked if it looked okay and both of my female friends said "yes". I, on the other hand, using all the tact and finesse or a 700 pound silverback gorilla, told her the truth. Why? In my opinion it would be a major injustice to allow a woman with a low self image to walk out of the house wearing something that made her look like a sac of potatoes wrapped in spandex. Was their choice to lie wrong? Probably not. Had I not cared about my roommate, I most likely would have opted not to be as honest.
I told my daughter that she needed to be honest and truthful, but there were times in which "white lies" were appropriate. If grandma has spent 30 minutes working on her hair and she's done the best she can, then tell her it looks good regardless of your true opinion.
On the contrary, if someone asks you out on Friday night and you don't want to go, tell them so. There are few things in life I dislike more than to make plans with someone only to have them back out at the last minute when they knew ALL ALONG they didn't want to go.
"I love you, the check is in the mail", and the third one with which we are all familiar are not acceptable... but what do I know? I can't maintain a relationship with the woman tied up in my basement.
Well I do know some on here have not been honest in there profiles or in person. Will not say any names. But they lead you on and then tear you down once they got you hooked. but will say is not all their fault its mine also.
jennyd write: i don't believe people are honest especiallly when it comes to the internet.Men and women will both lie! mostly its the men that will lie.They say they are single,but really they have a wife or a girlfriend.(am i right?) so how do you know who is lieing? i guess well never know!!!!
Such a trusting soul. I really wish you the best? lol Is that a lie?
I don't usually name names but this time I will because a certain person on this site that calls himself "the crazy canadian" proclaims to be an honest person but is anything but. He won't allow you to ask him a question or he gets very mad at you and looking at his profile he keeps changing so as to appear as he is currently telling his victims. So watch out ladies!!!!!!!!! He'll request and hound for naked pictures then tell you how he can't stand receiving them. I'm looking for someone to accept his birthday present of Kama Ssustra..any takers?
How can a lesson be learned if you don't have any idea what is wrong? It seems that many out there demand to be treated in a way that they will never consider treating someone in return and then they cry...YOU ARE TOO MUCH WORK!!!!!!!