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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 09:13

Okay, well my ex loves to bad mouth me. I dont care, but when it is front of my kiddos it hurts. The most recent focus was I am a bad guy cause I smoke, have some ink on me , earring and such that are not what "nice people do."

Even though I have moved out, I pay everything for both residences, but the kids always recite to me that I never give mom money. Well I consider the house payment, durango payment and insurances and about $700.00 a week more than what a court will ever order.

Okay that background aside, I come to realize a few months ago she was able to crack into my email. SO, I had a friend post me some emails about they dont know how I could be with three or four women in one sitting or such. This was false, but it came back to me. She must really think I am a Don Quixote. Sooo I know she was reading my emails because it came back to me through her.

Well, so now I know she reads it... so I invent a pregnancy:) Couple emails later, I have a friend send me one about our "twins."

That night, she forwards them to all my family members LOL. Mom dad, brother, gardener and plumber all sending me emails or calling about my twins!

Well, this joke has gone on for a few months now... and she still has no clue. SHe is asking me due dates, etc.

Should I come clean and tell her the joke is on her? Or should I let her rat faced lawyer bring it up in front of the judge?

I kinda thought it funny, (because I can be a little imp) but now, she is always asking about hom much is it costing for the twins... am I taking my things to help the twins... etc.

To tell her or not to tell her... hmmmm that is the clandestine, sociopathic and just plain damn funny question.



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Posted on Fri, May 05, 2006 19:09

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Sounds familiar. I crazy glued a toilet
to the hood of her car. Maybe it wasn't the right thing to do, but she doesn't bother me anymore. I feel alot better.

That is too funny!
Horribly onery but funny!!!



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Posted on Mon, May 01, 2006 18:43

Rescue1 write:
Sounds familiar. I crazy glued a toilet
to the hood of her car. Maybe it wasn't the right thing to do, but she doesn't bother me anymore. I feel alot better.

  


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Posted on Mon, May 01, 2006 13:53

Sounds familiar. I crazy glued a toilet
to the hood of her car. Maybe it wasn't the right thing to do, but she doesn't bother me anymore. I feel alot better.

  


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Posted on Sun, Apr 30, 2006 02:40

gefallen write:
Okay, well my ex loves to bad mouth me. I dont care, but when it is front of my kiddos it hurts. The most recent focus was I am a bad guy cause I smoke, have some ink on me , earring and such that are not what "nice people do."

Even though I have moved out, I pay everything for both residences, but the kids always recite to me that I never give mom money. Well I consider the house payment, durango payment and insurances and about $700.00 a week more than what a court will ever order.

Okay that background aside, I come to realize a few months ago she was able to crack into my email. SO, I had a friend post me some emails about they dont know how I could be with three or four women in one sitting or such. This was false, but it came back to me. She must really think I am a Don Quixote. Sooo I know she was reading my emails because it came back to me through her.

Well, so now I know she reads it... so I invent a pregnancy:) Couple emails later, I have a friend send me one about our "twins."

That night, she forwards them to all my family members LOL. Mom dad, brother, gardener and plumber all sending me emails or calling about my twins!

Well, this joke has gone on for a few months now... and she still has no clue. SHe is asking me due dates, etc.

Should I come clean and tell her the joke is on her? Or should I let her rat faced lawyer bring it up in front of the judge?

I kinda thought it funny, (because I can be a little imp) but now, she is always asking about hom much is it costing for the twins... am I taking my things to help the twins... etc.

To tell her or not to tell her... hmmmm that is the clandestine, sociopathic and just plain damn funny question.


Okay so this is old news. What happened? What did you end up doing? And how are those twins anyway? LOL
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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 20:48

I would come clean before court. Her invading your privacy is not cool at all hacking into your email, whatever you decide you still have to think of those kids put your feelings aside for them.. you know where she is coming from now.. I surely would move on.. the joke should be over by now... sad ex's always have to start stuff



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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 08:12

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
gefallen write:
SHite...

This is old news and an old old post!

How the hell does old stuff keep getting exhumed from the Forum Grav Yard?

AJ

Not sure how but it has got the forums jumping again and that is a good thing, right??


I am starting to wonder P

AJ



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Posted on Thu, Apr 27, 2006 00:13

gefallen write:
SHite...

This is old news and an old old post!

How the hell does old stuff keep getting exhumed from the Forum Grav Yard?

AJ

Not sure how but it has got the forums jumping again and that is a good thing, right??



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 12:00

gefallen write:
Okay, well my ex loves to bad mouth me. I dont care, but when it is front of my kiddos it hurts. The most recent focus was I am a bad guy cause I smoke, have some ink on me , earring and such that are not what "nice people do."

Even though I have moved out, I pay everything for both residences, but the kids always recite to me that I never give mom money. Well I consider the house payment, durango payment and insurances and about $700.00 a week more than what a court will ever order.

Okay that background aside, I come to realize a few months ago she was able to crack into my email. SO, I had a friend post me some emails about they dont know how I could be with three or four women in one sitting or such. This was false, but it came back to me. She must really think I am a Don Quixote. Sooo I know she was reading my emails because it came back to me through her.

Well, so now I know she reads it... so I invent a pregnancy:) Couple emails later, I have a friend send me one about our "twins."

That night, she forwards them to all my family members LOL. Mom dad, brother, gardener and plumber all sending me emails or calling about my twins!

Well, this joke has gone on for a few months now... and she still has no clue. SHe is asking me due dates, etc.

Should I come clean and tell her the joke is on her? Or should I let her rat faced lawyer bring it up in front of the judge?

I kinda thought it funny, (because I can be a little imp) but now, she is always asking about hom much is it costing for the twins... am I taking my things to help the twins... etc.

To tell her or not to tell her... hmmmm that is the clandestine, sociopathic and just plain damn funny question.

Way to go. She is invading your privacy by reading your emails. You seem to be the right thing with the bills and $$$, etc. Forget her.
Have a guy write you an email and say he loves you and how great the sex was. LOL



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 11:47

SHite...

This is old news and an old old post!

How the hell does old stuff keep getting exhumed from the Forum Grav Yard?

AJ



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 05:25

gefallen write:
Okay, well my ex loves to bad mouth me. I dont care, but when it is front of my kiddos it hurts. The most recent focus was I am a bad guy cause I smoke, have some ink on me , earring and such that are not what "nice people do."

Even though I have moved out, I pay everything for both residences, but the kids always recite to me that I never give mom money. Well I consider the house payment, durango payment and insurances and about $700.00 a week more than what a court will ever order.

Okay that background aside, I come to realize a few months ago she was able to crack into my email. SO, I had a friend post me some emails about they dont know how I could be with three or four women in one sitting or such. This was false, but it came back to me. She must really think I am a Don Quixote. Sooo I know she was reading my emails because it came back to me through her.

Well, so now I know she reads it... so I invent a pregnancy:) Couple emails later, I have a friend send me one about our "twins."

That night, she forwards them to all my family members LOL. Mom dad, brother, gardener and plumber all sending me emails or calling about my twins!

Well, this joke has gone on for a few months now... and she still has no clue. SHe is asking me due dates, etc.

Should I come clean and tell her the joke is on her? Or should I let her rat faced lawyer bring it up in front of the judge?

I kinda thought it funny, (because I can be a little imp) but now, she is always asking about hom much is it costing for the twins... am I taking my things to help the twins... etc.

To tell her or not to tell her... hmmmm that is the clandestine, sociopathic and just plain damn funny question.

I would tell her b4 court but I would tell her how funny I thought it was and that you did it because she is snooping in your mail! As for the kids not knowing that you support them?? Give them the check every month to give to her....

Your kids don't think they are getting siblings do they?



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 05:21

alltomlee write:
HI Gefallen and you have done nothing wrong at all. If I were you I would not send her any money at all to start with and then take her to court for Volation of the divorce decree and spell out to her what she is doing wrong and how it affects the children. There are satictisc for what she is doing and it is call PAS and it comes from the parent with physcal custondy always which is normal the women in most cases. You have done nothing wrong but your x is still doing every thing wrong. I took it to court and all they say is you can not prove it and you can not have the children in court period. I did what 33% of divorced parents do and that is send the children to there moms and never talk to the ex again for as long as you live. Believe me the x-wife will bury her self with the children and they will never forget. Remember people never forget no matter what. That ways she has all the responsiblable for the chrildren until there 18. Look up Parent allien sysdromy Just read it and believe it. Yes the biggest thing that affects your life is stress and anxiety and how it affect you or how it affects the other person and they will blame the closest person them and you are it. I have not seen my children for two years now and do not know how they are. This is what happens in divorce its the children that suffer most not the parents they will just go some where else just like I did. You have to know women trust women about men more than women trust men no matter what. Well in this case she is 1000% wrong period.

Wow!!! Having a bad life or what??



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Posted on Mon, Apr 24, 2006 10:08

gefallen write:
Okay, well my ex loves to bad mouth me. I dont care, but when it is front of my kiddos it hurts. The most recent focus was I am a bad guy cause I smoke, have some ink on me , earring and such that are not what "nice people do."

Even though I have moved out, I pay everything for both residences, but the kids always recite to me that I never give mom money. Well I consider the house payment, durango payment and insurances and about $700.00 a week more than what a court will ever order.

Okay that background aside, I come to realize a few months ago she was able to crack into my email. SO, I had a friend post me some emails about they dont know how I could be with three or four women in one sitting or such. This was false, but it came back to me. She must really think I am a Don Quixote. Sooo I know she was reading my emails because it came back to me through her.

Well, so now I know she reads it... so I invent a pregnancy:) Couple emails later, I have a friend send me one about our "twins."

That night, she forwards them to all my family members LOL. Mom dad, brother, gardener and plumber all sending me emails or calling about my twins!

Well, this joke has gone on for a few months now... and she still has no clue. SHe is asking me due dates, etc.

Should I come clean and tell her the joke is on her? Or should I let her rat faced lawyer bring it up in front of the judge?

I kinda thought it funny, (because I can be a little imp) but now, she is always asking about hom much is it costing for the twins... am I taking my things to help the twins... etc.

To tell her or not to tell her... hmmmm that is the clandestine, sociopathic and just plain damn funny question.

WHEW!! Is that all thats upsettin ya Bro, I thought ya passed gas durin church and didn't claim it. Wanna take this joke one step further, tell the ex how the new twins are gonna affect child support, now that you'll have two more kids to divide the money between. Keep the phone away from her, just in case she has a heart attack, HA! HA! HA!
WarHippy1%



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Posted on Fri, Mar 24, 2006 01:30

altogether so sad..I'm sorry that this has happened to you or anyone and why can't people just realize what's really important???? It's just a shame when $ is more important than children or the self respect some women or men should have. I am sorry AJ that is soo unfortunate.



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Posted on Sun, Mar 19, 2006 20:55

alltomlee write:
HI this is for dove you are full of BS and every one knows it. She is wrong 100% no matter what. You need to say nothing to the children at all she is just burring her self. DOVE you need to grow up and get real big time. Dove you need to read the satictics about PAS for sure and you are a Idiot for sure.

In response to you saying I need to "grow up", name calling is a bit childish don't ya think?



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Posted on Fri, Mar 10, 2006 16:48

Personally if it were me I would come clean mainly because if you have to go to court a judge won't think it is too funny. It would not go good for you. Otherwise I would not say a word and just let her stew but because you said something about court I would come clean to protect my own assets.



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Posted on Fri, Mar 03, 2006 04:45

Dove:Glad to hear you're doing ok. Contact me and we can catch-up ok?

DD

  


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Posted on Thu, Mar 02, 2006 10:50

IrishRoseCA write:
alltomlee write:
HI this is for dove you are full of BS and every one knows it. She is wrong 100% no matter what. You need to say nothing to the children at all she is just burring her self. DOVE you need to grow up and get real big time. Dove you need to read the satictics about PAS for sure and you are a Idiot for sure.

Maybe Dove mis-read part of gefallen's post. Honest, and well-meant mistake maybe?

Heh Dove, How ya doin?

And AJ, How are you doing? Have hardly heard a peep since you've been back. Miss your posts.

DD

Hey DD, I'm fine. Thanks for asking, how are you?



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Posted on Wed, Mar 01, 2006 20:48

alltomlee write:
HI this is for dove you are full of BS and every one knows it. She is wrong 100% no matter what. You need to say nothing to the children at all she is just burring her self. DOVE you need to grow up and get real big time. Dove you need to read the satictics about PAS for sure and you are a Idiot for sure.

Maybe Dove mis-read part of gefallen's post. Honest, and well-meant mistake maybe?

Heh Dove, How ya doin?

And AJ, How are you doing? Have hardly heard a peep since you've been back. Miss your posts.

DD



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Posted on Tue, Feb 28, 2006 06:37

sometimes you get tired of taking things off people. sounds like you've done right by your kids and more than most would for your x. my opinion, she crossed the line at reading your emails, i'm not much on spiteful people. (live and let live ya know.) "nice people" stay out of other peoples business. i don't believe in revenge, but i think you did right, probably something like i would have done in that situation. in the long run though, people like your x (and there seems to be a lot of em out there) are the ones who hurt the kids the most.

  


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