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IS DATING AND SMOKIN A PROBLEM?
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Posted on Tue, Apr 11, 2006 12:25

HarleyGurl35 write:

Happykitty47 write:
I wrote in this thread previously that I'd date a smoker.

I revise that. After recently seeing someone who is probably THE MOST chronic chain smoker I've ever been around (although a considerate smoker, I will say) I will no longer date a smoker. Sorry, but really being anywhere near the smoke gives me headaches and I just don't like the smell that lingers on their clothes and skin.



I'm with you on that one. I've never smoked and no one in the family does. I've tried to date those who do, but kissing just isn't that fresh and if that's not good, I just don't care to go f*arther. (Yes, f*arther was banned by the BK idiots.)

And another thing. I watched my ex's grandfather (who was one of the most incredible men I've ever known) die of lung cancer. He never smoked. Even WITH the cancer, he was healthy as hell. I watched Grandmother sit at his bedside through his last hours. Now she is alone at 85 and doing her best to move forward after a 60+ year marriage.

Beings we know smoking is a huge cause of lung cancer, I don't care to spend my later years in life sitting at a bedside. Don't care to lose my husband because he consistantly did something in his younger years that he knew had a big chance of killing him. It seems selfish to place your loved one in that position just for a bad habit you wouldn't cut.


Great points ladies.

I've been a smoker for 30 years now, in great shape considering the milage and abuse I've put this soul-shell through, but it's going to catch up with me for sure one day.
The smokeing has cost me tons of money, lot's of breath, and most importantly.. I'm sure I've had more then a few good ladies who didn't consider me because of the smokeing.
So I've cut down from about 3 packs a day (hows that for chronic smoking?) to less then a pack a day and hope to go cold turkey soon.
You'll know I did it if you meet me on the road..
I'll be the rider with his fingernails chewed down to his wrists.



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Posted on Tue, Feb 21, 2006 11:36

gefallen write:
Well I smoke... so I reckon it does not bother me if I date someone who does.

Hell.. some dates I have had... I dont much care if they burn.

AJ


(( OUCH!!!!!! ))Must have been some awful and I mean AWFUL bad dates if you didn
t care if they burned! lol (( OUCH! ))



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Posted on Mon, Feb 20, 2006 09:49

Hi all. I'm back to looking at Biker kiss after a year away.
I would LOVE to find a non-smoking male my age to date that is cute, SINGLE, and lives in southeast MI (macomb county MI). The nice bikers I talk to in Royal Oak in the summer often are great...but I see them pull out cigarettes or cigars. (sad smiley :-( )

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Posted on Sat, Feb 18, 2006 01:44

I think it may depend on what you're smoking!

  


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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 09:00

If my date aint SmmOOOkin, then he's not my date!! Ha ha ha

  


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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 06:55

gefallen write:
Well I smoke... so I reckon it does not bother me if I date someone who does.

Hell.. some dates I have had... I dont much care if they burn.

AJ

AJ youd be smoking either way!!!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 01:55

Well I smoke... so I reckon it does not bother me if I date someone who does.

Hell.. some dates I have had... I dont much care if they burn.

AJ



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Posted on Mon, Feb 13, 2006 18:15

Well thats's hard to say.
If she's smoking in bed, she will either set my house on fire or leave a smile on my face.



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Posted on Wed, Feb 01, 2006 15:39

saxon write:
dreamer8 write:
I'd expect my date to be 'smokin'........cos he's HOT !


Would that be through friction or cigarettes ??

Aint it usually friction first,followed by cigs????

  


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Posted on Fri, Jan 27, 2006 07:57

dreamer8 write:
I'd expect my date to be 'smokin'........cos he's HOT !


YUP!!! SSSSSMMMMMMMMOOOOKIN!!!



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Posted on Fri, Jan 27, 2006 06:17

I'd expect my date to be 'smokin'........cos he's HOT !

  


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Posted on Thu, Jan 26, 2006 15:22

bogeybob write:
Well as I see it, our great President from here in Arkansas didn't have a problem with his cigars and Monica, might have been a little HARD to light.... ;)

did you mean if Monica started smoking he should slow down ?



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Posted on Wed, Jan 25, 2006 04:57

Well as I see it, our great President from here in Arkansas didn't have a problem with his cigars and Monica, might have been a little HARD to light.... ;)



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Posted on Tue, Jan 24, 2006 17:51

Guess that just depends on WHAT yr smoking..lol...maybe it wont be a problem?



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Posted on Sat, Jan 21, 2006 01:32

Wish I hadn't started reading this one Now I want a cig.

  


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Posted on Wed, Jan 11, 2006 16:05

I was married to a smoker,was not the reason for the split but I won't be in a relationship with one again,which makes it tough here in the middle of tobacco country



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Posted on Thu, Jan 05, 2006 16:37

Personally, it matters to me...I can't stand the smell or the taste when u kiss. I can't date someone that smokes. I just couldn't deal with it.



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Posted on Tue, Dec 20, 2005 19:52

DoubleDelight write:
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If I like someone...It won't matter if they got dog crap on their face.. Alcohol is different. Social drinkers no problem, but a alcoholic? No way!! Drug addict No way!!

Ditto,
except, hope they take a shower first!

Or a shower ever...lmao.



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Posted on Fri, Dec 16, 2005 08:35

sweetpeasoup write:
If I like someone...It won't matter if they got dog crap on their face.. Alcohol is different. Social drinkers no problem, but a alcoholic? No way!! Drug addict No way!!

Ditto,
except, hope they take a shower first!

  


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Posted on Tue, Dec 13, 2005 11:34

If I like someone...It won't matter if they got dog crap on their face.. Alcohol is different. Social drinkers no problem, but a alcoholic? No way!! Drug addict No way!!



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