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Posted on Fri, May 13, 2005 09:40

You should try looking in Columbus, Oh.......never know what you might find there, hee hee hee....


Where's that freakin' calendar????



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Posted on Wed, May 11, 2005 04:17


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Rdking2ride write:
I ran into my x wife this past weekend.


At least ya didn't miss her!!! Glad you corrected that ai ming problem that was holding ya up, there 2k....lol




Awwww, Falcon!!! Tsk-tsk!!!


No problem Falcon-have plenty of experience when it comes to x wives. That one was the 3rd and last one.

  


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Posted on Wed, May 11, 2005 03:39


falcon335 write:

Rdking2ride write:
I ran into my x wife this past weekend.


At least ya didn't miss her!!! Glad you corrected that ai ming problem that was holding ya up, there 2k....lol


Hey one of my helmut stickers sez "I miss my ex but my a i m is improving!!"

And it's true!!!

hee hee hee

  


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Posted on Wed, May 11, 2005 03:37


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You know you did the right thing when you get to the point that the bad memories waaaaaaaayyyyy overshadow the good memories. Now, where's that woodchipper?


Ha my ex tried the woodchipper thang!! I don't fit!!

Sometimes it's good to be big, unless I try to get in a toyota, then it's fun for everyone but me!!!

OK I'm more punchy then usual today, no sleep, lots of coffee!!!

Oh they're not gonna like me at work!!!

  


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Posted on Tue, May 10, 2005 14:49


Rdking2ride write:
I ran into my x wife this past weekend.


At least ya didn't miss her!!! Glad you corrected that ai ming problem that was holding ya up, there 2k....lol



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Posted on Tue, May 10, 2005 12:17

I hear ya Sister!!



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Posted on Tue, May 10, 2005 06:43


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I ran into my x wife this past weekend. Now I know why I'm divorced. Its a blessing, she did me a favor.LOL



i think when we remember the good times it doesn't look that great--buttttttttttt then when we see or hear from them and we remember the BS that happened it is thank God for small favors!!!!!

  


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Posted on Tue, May 10, 2005 04:42

I ran into my x wife this past weekend. Now I know why I'm divorced. Its a blessing, she did me a favor.LOL

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 23:46


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Squirrel!!!!!

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 22:46


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bikeman542a write:

secretsquirrel write:

bikeman542a write:
DIVORCE IS IT WORTH IT?

Lesse my first one in 1995 I lost every dam material thing I had except my bike, car, computer and clothes. But I got to keep the little tiny bit of sanity I had left, the second one in 2003 I dam near lost my mind, self esteem, and most of my material possesions again. And ya know what??

THEY WERE BOTH ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY WORTH IT!!!!!

FREE AT LAST FREE AT LAST THANK GOD ALMIGHTY FREE AT LAST!!!!

I just started gettin my twisted sense of humor back a few months ago, and dam it feels good to be me again!!

I don't know if anyone will ever get me enough to live with me or not, but if not then fuggit!!! I ain't never changing again!!!



Your got your sense of humor back.....

at least yours didn't start out a tight end and end up a wide receiver......

My looking for Leggy's chipper!!!

Are ya tellin me he went from eatin pie to eatin stroodle??

I bet he whistles when he walks!!!!

YUCK!!!!!!




What can I say ....His Mother said I turned him...

YA MEAN HE'S NOT A QUITTER, HE TAKES IT IN THE S H I T T E R!!!!

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 22:45


bikeman542a write:

secretsquirrel write:

bikeman542a write:
DIVORCE IS IT WORTH IT?

Lesse my first one in 1995 I lost every dam material thing I had except my bike, car, computer and clothes. But I got to keep the little tiny bit of sanity I had left, the second one in 2003 I dam near lost my mind, self esteem, and most of my material possesions again. And ya know what??

THEY WERE BOTH ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY WORTH IT!!!!!

FREE AT LAST FREE AT LAST THANK GOD ALMIGHTY FREE AT LAST!!!!

I just started gettin my twisted sense of humor back a few months ago, and dam it feels good to be me again!!

I don't know if anyone will ever get me enough to live with me or not, but if not then fuggit!!! I ain't never changing again!!!



Your got your sense of humor back.....

at least yours didn't start out a tight end and end up a wide receiver......

My looking for Leggy's chipper!!!

Are ya tellin me he went from eatin pie to eatin stroodle??

I bet he whistles when he walks!!!!

YUCK!!!!!!




What can I say ....His Mother said I turned him...



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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 22:42


secretsquirrel write:

bikeman542a write:
DIVORCE IS IT WORTH IT?

Lesse my first one in 1995 I lost every dam material thing I had except my bike, car, computer and clothes. But I got to keep the little tiny bit of sanity I had left, the second one in 2003 I dam near lost my mind, self esteem, and most of my material possesions again. And ya know what??

THEY WERE BOTH ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY WORTH IT!!!!!

FREE AT LAST FREE AT LAST THANK GOD ALMIGHTY FREE AT LAST!!!!

I just started gettin my twisted sense of humor back a few months ago, and dam it feels good to be me again!!

I don't know if anyone will ever get me enough to live with me or not, but if not then fuggit!!! I ain't never changing again!!!



Your got your sense of humor back.....

at least yours didn't start out a tight end and end up a wide receiver......

My looking for Leggy's chipper!!!

Are ya tellin me he went from eatin pie to eatin stroodle??

I bet he whistles when he walks!!!!

YUCK!!!!!!

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 22:41


bikeman542a write:
DIVORCE IS IT WORTH IT?

Lesse my first one in 1995 I lost every dam material thing I had except my bike, car, computer and clothes. But I got to keep the little tiny bit of sanity I had left, the second one in 2003 I dam near lost my mind, self esteem, and most of my material possesions again. And ya know what??

THEY WERE BOTH ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY WORTH IT!!!!!

FREE AT LAST FREE AT LAST THANK GOD ALMIGHTY FREE AT LAST!!!!

I just started gettin my twisted sense of humor back a few months ago, and dam it feels good to be me again!!

I don't know if anyone will ever get me enough to live with me or not, but if not then fuggit!!! I ain't never changing again!!!



Your got your sense of humor back.....

at least yours didn't start out a tight end and end up a wide receiver......

My looking for Leggy's chipper!!!

  


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Posted on Sat, Apr 30, 2005 21:47

DIVORCE IS IT WORTH IT?

Lesse my first one in 1995 I lost every dam material thing I had except my bike, car, computer and clothes. But I got to keep the little tiny bit of sanity I had left, the second one in 2003 I dam near lost my mind, self esteem, and most of my material possesions again. And ya know what??

THEY WERE BOTH ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY WORTH IT!!!!!

FREE AT LAST FREE AT LAST THANK GOD ALMIGHTY FREE AT LAST!!!!

I just started gettin my twisted sense of humor back a few months ago, and dam it feels good to be me again!!

I don't know if anyone will ever get me enough to live with me or not, but if not then fuggit!!! I ain't never changing again!!!

  


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Posted on Fri, Apr 29, 2005 16:24

I do think divorce is the best thing to do if you are truly unhappy. My first marriage lasted for 15 years only 13 of them were together. My ex husband started having affairs and I stayed with him, we no longer slept together or did anything together when this started happening. I did my own thing with my children and he did his own thing. At the time I was a stay at home mom and he paid me enough money to keep food on the table and the bills paid. Needless to say I was unhappy. Divorce at that time was something I didn't think I could do. When I got to the point where I could no longer take it we separated. It took me along time to get to the point of filing for the big D. I felt it was the ultimate sin, not that I am super religious or a goody goody but I have enough black marks against me and felt that would be a big one. Finally a man of god told me sometimes we commit more sin in a bad marriage than the one sin of divorce, talk about a 100 lbs taken off my shoulders, as soon as I filed he disappeared and I got the divorce almost 2 years later with out him. I did get married again and divorced again, my track record is not the best... Good luck to all, hopefully we will all have better luck in our next relationships.

  


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Posted on Thu, Apr 28, 2005 13:11


VTXtreme write:
Sometimes it is better to be alone and happy than married and miserable. Been there done that.


That is the definite truth! If you are not happy with yourself, don't go looking for someone to make you happy. It just won't happen. Now someone to make your life complete is a different story. I don't think we are meant to be alone. Partners who treat each other 50-50, and can handle good and bad together is what makes a special bond. All of us in this thread have been divorced, and hopefully will find what we all yearn for and need in our lives, but only if we are okay with ourselves first.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 18:40


BabyGirl4You831 write:
Ive had 2 marriages and 2 divorces,,, both men cheated and lied. One of the men is on here i wont give out his name.. but he has found "the love" of his life for now... i was his 5th marriage and his exwife tried to tell me about him and his drinking problem but i didnt want to hear it .. finally realized it though.. but i WAS so much in love with him. but anyway ... I AM ALL GOOD..


Wow, 5th marraige, thought I was the "Professional Husband" of the site with four under my belt, two of mine died, what's his excuse,

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 12:40

Divorce hmmmmmm everyone is entitled to one mistake. Keep it honest and open.



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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 10:04


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but anyway ... I AM ALL GOOD..



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Posted on Wed, Apr 27, 2005 10:03

hmmmmm........do we dare touch that one BG?

  


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