lady's were losin the duece ...he has an opinion and being cencored big time here... lets have a say and save the deuce...he can be crude at times but think about it let us make are own choses ....not ready for big brother

kd---i think you are right about that

It is a Fifty Fifty shot on any guy LOL.in there defense I am sure they say the same thing about us

Hi LadyVulcan,
I don't think it was bigbrother. The first post of this thread has a full name in it and it is still there. I can only assume that the person in question didn't care for the story being posted and complained. Wish he would have just typed a responce on the board or to me. As I said I was taking it down myself anyway, time to let it go.

Hi Upstate
After I have the dates and the nice kisses and the ph*ne conversations, taking that test drive is the next logical step to me. I'd rather find out sooner rather than later about compatability. How many dates before the test drive really depends on chemistry.
And the word "ph*one" is apparently a no no because it is usually followed by numbers. Go figure?

Kat, I fully agree with ya on that. I talked to a guy 3 times online & he proposed to me??? I DONT GET IT!!! Dont the guys know "friends make better lovers???" Reminds me of my newest line "Only a F**K, never a G/F...

Vulcan, I have tried to be creative & never heard back, I'm sure it made me look a bit on the stupid side. I have even tried to respond to some through the (View comments from others/Invite friends to post testimonials on me)< with no responce. I will say it is hard to make contact if neither are members & neither can email. One reason I am not impressed with this site.

I'm seeking friends & NO NOT F**K friends. I've never been married & have no plans ever gettin married but, I would like to be able to meet new friends but with the rules in here & I cant afford to join, makes it very hard........

BK does not allow you to post user names or email addresses (unless you are creative that is.) They probably did not know it wasn't the full user name or thought it was enough so others would recognize them. BK Big Brother was watching over you!!!!!

I'm scratching my head here. I posted on this thread recently. I was having a hurt moment and vented about an experience with a man from BK. I came in to remove the post but it's already gone. I decided it was bad form, I did not use his name or whole ID name. I just got done leaving him a nice comment on his profile cause I felt bad. Not saying goodbye isn't the crime of the century after all.
I figured it would right a wrong even if he didn't know about my bad form.
Would BK remove a post because I used part of an ID name? Any other ideas why it would be gone?
My inquiring mind wants to know.

Guess I should explain "work for it"... Just because a guy asks me to dance & buys me a drink, doesn't give him the right to expect anymore. A fone number maybe. Get to know me, let's do something together, dinner, go riding, rent a movie & I'll cook... then maybe if it clicks. I had a guy after one dance the other night tell me he thought we were soulmates. Made me run quickly! By working for it, I meant taking things a bit slow. I'm not against animal lust, but if it happens too soon, it isn't as special and most guys probably wonder if the girl does that with everyone. Then you never hear from them again. Does that make any sense?

"why are you getting so defensive???? "

Just to see what your next reply will be silly, lol. It was my turn to type, now it's yours again.

speed--re-read the 1st post

i thanked the men that have graduated--i'm not attacking men and i'm not accusing anyone of any behavior
and i also said we need to clean up our trash before moving on

does everyone no--that is why they are in the same type of relationship--still trying to fix the past problems with a new person

this forum is about men not women--"what is with men"--and yes there are plenty of women today that have the same negative qualities that we both spoke of--notches on the belt

i'm not trying to judge anyone--yet if it makes a person look at their behavior(not yours!!!!!) that is a good thing

why are you getting so defensive????

i'm talking about the notches on the belt--and the lies that SOME will tell to get those notches--thinking that is what makes them MEN


Yes Dear, and I have had women tell me they were not married so they can add another notch to their belt too. Unfortunately some women get stung a time ot two and think all men are that way, not true. I think it's pretty even.

Walls,hoops,you shouldn't have to run a gauntlet or an obstacle course,or work for "it".If I have to navigate a rubiks cube,or translate the federal tax rules regulations into a simple to understand pamplet,I would probably pass .If your last relationship had issues ,don't assume the next one will.Judge each person based on their values,actions,not everyone is a jerk.If you keep picking the wrong type of person ,then maybe you need to look in a mirror.But hoops ?,work for it? deserve it?I'll pass.If you don't trust me then okay ,good luck.C-YA!

speed--i'm not talking about faithful or unfaithful

i'm talking about the notches on the belt--and the lies that SOME will tell to get those notches--thinking that is what makes them MEN

to me what shows me a guys masculinity is how he treats me in public and in private--not how many conquests he has had!!!!!!

"some are still thinking with the male 2nd brain--"

Excuse me, Let's Not Forget Women got a 2nd brain too and there's just as many unfaithful wive's as there are husbands.

Very wise words, Lady, for all of us. Thank you. :)

There's a difference between being smart and cautious, and walls. If a guy is sincere he will take the time to get to know you and vise-versa and in time you gain a feeling of trust and friendship. If the guy doesn't have the time to invest to see where it will lead, he had no intention of a committed relationship in the first place. You can not take your baggage along with you in a relationship. You have to have an open heart in order to receive love. It takes awhile to get over the hurts of the past, but when the right one comes along you will hopefully recognize it and toss caution to the wind.

Ride safe and ride free!

Kat, watch the "old age" thing, I'm right there with you in alot of ways.

I've learned that the ones that will scale those big walls that I've put up are the keepers. They are few and far between, but they are worth the wait.

Hang in there sweety.

my 2 cents

if we don't put the past hurts out at the curb in the trash can, we bring that trash into anything that follows

if we don't heal the past the next hurt is that much larger and it all snowballs each time until we mend and craddle our souls

like the old saying making a mountain out of a molehill

we all have baggage we need to get rid of as much of it as possible--we will never get rid of it all--but we can miniumize it

and when i was younger--most of the guys i knew only wanted to get into as many female pants they could--i've actually met the boys from yesterday--some are still thinking with the male 2nd brain--and some have realized that brain shouldn't be in control--and thnx to all of you male persons that have graduated

love to you all--be safe

My 2 cents - Kat

Wow, she ain't kiddin, (as Poor Ole Speedy sit's here jumping out of his skin contemplating buying her a new Sportster for her birthday and coming up for a week to fix up the ole house.)
"Make them Work For It", lol.

Yak,

We are not that far apart in age. Back in the day, we were coming out of the "free love" era. Guys could walk over and under girls that partied & maybe got high. We were an easy mark to get laid. Unfortunately, I took it another way & thought it meant they wanted to be with me. DOH! Have I learned a lot in these eras!

Guys still want the same thing, but I've learned you gotta make them work for the goodies & trust me, it's worth it, for my old age. Lots want it, but few get it.

Been hurt all my life, and still think he's out there & hoping that I can maybe grow old with someone that can steal my heart & make me smile.

My 2 cents - Kat