Nodey you did the right thing. If I took a lady out and she told me that I wasnt the right one I would thank her. Its nice for someone to be up front and honest. We could leave as friends and appreciate the time we gave to each other.
nodey you are not looking at the world thru rose colored glasses
i've been in situations that i did apoligize for my part in what transpired--yet the male person involved was so wrapped up in being RIGHT that he couldn't see beyond his blinders
what we that admit to our mistakes without the other owning their behavior is
that although i believe basically no one is better than the other--he or she isn't really good enough for me---life is toooooo short for me to waste anymore of my time or energy on that person
if i hold on to the anger that he/she couldn't admit--it doesn't allow me to move on--damages my life not his/hers
you are a beautiful woman and deserve to be treated fairly--like we all do
Nodey ... If you were "woman enough" to try to explain and he didn't even try to understand ... then, he wasn't "man enough" to begin with ...
The LESS you think about it ... the faster the wounds will heal and, the more POSITIVE ENERGY you will have for yourself and the person who is worth it!
~Forgive but, don't Forget!~
Lol Speedy ..Now THAT sounds like my kind of fun!
MsWitchy and Char...thanks for the words of support...you gals rock!
You all don't worry about me.Just one of those things we all go through at one point or another.
Yes Char...you're right. I think the final straw was the fact that i tried to apologize for being upset that he blew me off,and he couldn't step up to the plate and talk about what had transpired.
It's not everyday that someone will admit they are wrong and try to make ammends.I guess I must look at the world through rose- colored glasses. If i'm big enough to admit my mistakes,you'd think the other party would be big enough to accept the most heart felt apology.
But if i've learned anything,it's that I know I have people here I can turn to to when I need an ear.
I do believe all things happen for a reason,and every experience,good or bad makes us the wiser and the better for having lived it.
My hope is that this has made him a better and wiser person also.
LOL Catchme! I got your email. Now I know why I consider you my little Hilton sister.You gave me something to laugh about as far as the last one.Seems everyone has the same opinion about that one. I'm taking everyone's advice and moving on.
Love ya sis!
last guy didnt think u were worth the effort? well last guy wasnt the brightest was he?/
ok missy this guy rents no more space in ya head - move it back to just being u and not who someone wants u to be and by the way this mr 2k seems mighty nice.. so u might wanna take the risk and go for it.. seems he thinks u are worth the effort him and a few other guys... so i sent u the email study it lol
grindwitch----thanks for your support, i'm still hanging in there........just cant beleive i was that stupid, but live and learn as they say...no major harm done, just a bump in my pride, but i have it back now...once again-thanks
Well sweethart, all you have to do is e-male me when you are ready, I will send you my numbers and I can set you up. Can even provide a safe place for you to stay if you would like to stay the weekend(don't think bad now:>).
My scooter is al done except waiting for my heads to get back from vegas from getting the fins diamond cut. Either way is fine with me sweetie, just want you to feel comfortable with it. You might could even plan a couple of days in Myrtle beach for bike week and I would be happy to be your driver.