DevaDevine1 write: well here i am ladies and gentlemen.. aint i just the cutest thing you ever saw... lol excuse the way i look i just got done fixin my hair and makeup.. so i sure do hope to get alot of winks.. hopefully you like the way i look 2k and all the rest of the men out there
Are you flirting with 2k? Why don't you throw some sweet talking on him Deva..he loves a smooth talking woman.
nodey-just tuned in,,see how they are? live and learn woman, same sh*t different day, its like that song, "its nothen new"....its the gul-able-ology that f*cks me up every time,,,,when will we learn? F*CK THAT -- WHEN WILL THEY? ! ? ! ?
yes a nodey fan club!!! or as i like to call it a group of freinds who care about Nodey!
one thing i learned is expectations- just because u were able to admit u were wrong - the fault lies in expecting another to behave in the manner in which u think they should,, because u did the right thing dont always mean the other party will also...so when u apoligize u apologize without conditions-- like the person should think like u do..
and Nodey it was noooooo big lost- and count me in anytime u need support for your Nodey fan club
and u should feel special because u are special.. and i know this =
Nodey you did the right thing. If I took a lady out and she told me that I wasnt the right one I would thank her. Its nice for someone to be up front and honest. We could leave as friends and appreciate the time we gave to each other.
nodey you are not looking at the world thru rose colored glasses
i've been in situations that i did apoligize for my part in what transpired--yet the male person involved was so wrapped up in being RIGHT that he couldn't see beyond his blinders
what we that admit to our mistakes without the other owning their behavior is
that although i believe basically no one is better than the other--he or she isn't really good enough for me---life is toooooo short for me to waste anymore of my time or energy on that person
if i hold on to the anger that he/she couldn't admit--it doesn't allow me to move on--damages my life not his/hers
you are a beautiful woman and deserve to be treated fairly--like we all do
Nodey ... If you were "woman enough" to try to explain and he didn't even try to understand ... then, he wasn't "man enough" to begin with ...
The LESS you think about it ... the faster the wounds will heal and, the more POSITIVE ENERGY you will have for yourself and the person who is worth it!
~Forgive but, don't Forget!~
Lol Speedy ..Now THAT sounds like my kind of fun!
MsWitchy and Char...thanks for the words of support...you gals rock!
You all don't worry about me.Just one of those things we all go through at one point or another.
Yes Char...you're right. I think the final straw was the fact that i tried to apologize for being upset that he blew me off,and he couldn't step up to the plate and talk about what had transpired.
It's not everyday that someone will admit they are wrong and try to make ammends.I guess I must look at the world through rose- colored glasses. If i'm big enough to admit my mistakes,you'd think the other party would be big enough to accept the most heart felt apology.
But if i've learned anything,it's that I know I have people here I can turn to to when I need an ear.
I do believe all things happen for a reason,and every experience,good or bad makes us the wiser and the better for having lived it.
My hope is that this has made him a better and wiser person also.