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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 10:32

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I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!


that's a big ol' handful of boob Guy's got there! great pic of you two. hope all is going well for you guys.
i'd never wash my hand again! ah, what a lucky man he is. lol



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Posted on Fri, May 19, 2006 10:05

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hey DirtyBikers, I was NOT looking for a date. I appologise if I was unclear. I knew you were a couple, and was just looking for riding partners. I ride with the UBNC as well, but am always looking for more people to ride with.

the first round is on me if you want to hit Granzellas, for lunch some weekend

Hell ya!! We like that place... Also, we hang at a place called the 21 Club in Yuba City Ca.. Every Frid and Sat night if ya wanna meet some great peeps and sing some Kareoakee with a bunch of drunk but super cool bikers swing on in and we'll show ya a good time bro!!



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 23:36

hey DirtyBikers, I was NOT looking for a date. I appologise if I was unclear. I knew you were a couple, and was just looking for riding partners. I ride with the UBNC as well, but am always looking for more people to ride with.

the first round is on me if you want to hit Granzellas, for lunch some weekend



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 15:28

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No thanks. I'm on a strick diet of beer and Viagra.


and Tony the Tiger says It's GREAAAAAT. If hdbg doesn't want her spanking can I have it please? huh huh can I?



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 10:21

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I have to say the creative writing from SNO was really good, I think everyone has mis interpeted what I meant by that, maybe I should elaborate a little further. I was sitting on at a picnic table having a beer with a few friends when a woman walked over to sit with her beer, just to find out that it wasn't her beer, it was he ol' man's. As he took a sip he spit it in her face and then proceeded to dump it over her head because it had too much foam in it, when i grabbed some napkins to help her out, he barked at me to leave her alone, let her stay like that, maybe she'll learn. i can see it in her face how humiliated and hurt she was, and was trying her hardest to hold back the tears. He made her get up to get another beer, and I followed her to help clean her up anyway, I told her no one has to take that, and she responded by saying, r u crazy? That's my ol' man. I am not saying the term ol'lady is a bad term, or I wouldn't object to someone i really cared about calling me that, it just seems ( who knows maybe in my area )that all the women I have met over the years who use that term are battered and bruised and very un happy. I apoligize if I offeneded anyone.


That has nothing to do w/being someone's ol'lady. We teach people how to treat us...and she let him treat her that way. That was her choice. If she didn't want that then she did not have to tolerate it.
My husband would never have spit in my face b/c he knew I would not tolerate that. And besides he probably would have been the one bringing me a beer...lol
Being someone's ol'lady or ol'man does not mean they can be disrespectful or degrading or that it has to be tolerated.
I do not feel bad for her, she chooses that treatment. If she did not, she would not tolerate it.

If there is anything disrespectful and demeaning to women, its other women always playing the victim and blaming thier life's plight on others!! It makes women look like retards. Im with Char, there are no victims in a adult relationship. We women are smart resourceful and very manipulative, we rule our own worlds and whatever happens or does not happen is our own doing. Soo sick of women acting helpless and blaming everything on others... makes me wanna puke!!



I haven't responded on this thread,but have been reading it everyday.May I call you Becca,since we've never formally met?

Anyway Becca,I do agree with you in some ways. Some of us women are strong and won't allow ourselves to be abused. it happened to me ONCE. And he went to jail,and I followed it through as far as the legal system would allow. I never looked back afterwards.
But we have to remember,there are many women out there who don't have the courage,whether it be from living a life from childhood on up,that realize there are other options out there for them.
Lol,maybe some of us are too stubborn to let anyone abuse us and get away with it.

With that being said,HdBabyGirl,I find you a very naive,disrespectful girl. Try to look beyond your little world,and what you have experienced yourself. Believe it or not,there is a whole other world out there.I myself have never been called anyone's "ol lady". I truthfully cannot say how I would respond.But I would think it would depend on the intentions of the one calling me that.

  


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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 07:07

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I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!


that's a big ol' handful of boob Guy's got there! great pic of you two. hope all is going well for you guys.



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 05:14

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I have to say the creative writing from SNO was really good, I think everyone has mis interpeted what I meant by that, maybe I should elaborate a little further. I was sitting on at a picnic table having a beer with a few friends when a woman walked over to sit with her beer, just to find out that it wasn't her beer, it was he ol' man's. As he took a sip he spit it in her face and then proceeded to dump it over her head because it had too much foam in it, when i grabbed some napkins to help her out, he barked at me to leave her alone, let her stay like that, maybe she'll learn. i can see it in her face how humiliated and hurt she was, and was trying her hardest to hold back the tears. He made her get up to get another beer, and I followed her to help clean her up anyway, I told her no one has to take that, and she responded by saying, r u crazy? That's my ol' man. I am not saying the term ol'lady is a bad term, or I wouldn't object to someone i really cared about calling me that, it just seems ( who knows maybe in my area )that all the women I have met over the years who use that term are battered and bruised and very un happy. I apoligize if I offeneded anyone.

Ol' lady, gotta love it. I'm HONORED to be called an ol'lady from my husband. I wouldn't want it any other way, he also calls me his "b1tch", "cunt" (got the shorts to prove it), "whore", ect...All in a loving manner. LMAO. Never, ever has he called me any sort of name during an dissagreement, petty squable or arguement. If being called "Ol' lady" bothers you, maybe this lifestyle isnt for you.
I do want to say something about you gettin involved in a fight between a man and his ol'lady at a bike party, Don't do it. It could get you in a lot of trouble. Just turn and walk away. Say what you want outta "ears" way. Some women chose to live like that. If you get caught in the middle, that ol'lady that you were trying to help, can turn on you in an instant.
Red

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Wait, go ahead, interfere....See what happens...........evil laugh!

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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 01:00

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i just think babygirl just needs a good spanking.

~Slim

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Can I be the one to do it?


i got dibs on being first. lol. seconds maybe?


SUCKA!!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Here's a tissue fer the spittle (drool for those of us born after 1975 lol) running down the corners of your mouth... Poor baby!

I think Slim is a bit light headed lol... smelling salts Slim??

No thanks. I'm on a strick diet of beer and Viagra.

Breakfast of Champions!!



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Posted on Thu, May 18, 2006 00:57

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I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride


Hey heretic, just to clarify I am not a single woman. However if you ever want to ride with us that would be great. Also we ride with a group called United Bikers of Northern Calif. A wonderful crowd its on ahoo groups. take a look sign the guest book and come out and play with us.. Its not a Patched club just mostly a political group. We do a whole lot of ridin and charity events. You would love it!!

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Posted on Wed, May 17, 2006 18:52

I missed the cutoff for the drool, DirtyBikers. I was born in '71....I do ride to Sac. pretty often though, I would enjoy the company if you are up for a ride



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Posted on Wed, May 17, 2006 09:18

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
SeminoleSlim write:

Rescue1 write:
SeminoleSlim write:
i just think babygirl just needs a good spanking.

~Slim

Rescue1 writes:
Can I be the one to do it?


i got dibs on being first. lol. seconds maybe?


SUCKA!!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Here's a tissue fer the spittle (drool for those of us born after 1975 lol) running down the corners of your mouth... Poor baby!

I think Slim is a bit light headed lol... smelling salts Slim??

No thanks. I'm on a strick diet of beer and Viagra.



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Posted on Wed, May 17, 2006 03:25

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I have to say the creative writing from SNO was really good, I think everyone has mis interpeted what I meant by that, maybe I should elaborate a little further. I was sitting on at a picnic table having a beer with a few friends when a woman walked over to sit with her beer, just to find out that it wasn't her beer, it was he ol' man's. As he took a sip he spit it in her face and then proceeded to dump it over her head because it had too much foam in it, when i grabbed some napkins to help her out, he barked at me to leave her alone, let her stay like that, maybe she'll learn. i can see it in her face how humiliated and hurt she was, and was trying her hardest to hold back the tears. He made her get up to get another beer, and I followed her to help clean her up anyway, I told her no one has to take that, and she responded by saying, r u crazy? That's my ol' man. I am not saying the term ol'lady is a bad term, or I wouldn't object to someone i really cared about calling me that, it just seems ( who knows maybe in my area )that all the women I have met over the years who use that term are battered and bruised and very un happy. I apoligize if I offeneded anyone.

Ol' lady, gotta love it. I'm HONORED to be called an ol'lady from my husband. I wouldn't want it any other way, he also calls me his "b1tch", "cunt" (got the shorts to prove it), "whore", ect...All in a loving manner. LMAO. Never, ever has he called me any sort of name during an dissagreement, petty squable or arguement. If being called "Ol' lady" bothers you, maybe this lifestyle isnt for you.
I do want to say something about you gettin involved in a fight between a man and his ol'lady at a bike party, Don't do it. It could get you in a lot of trouble. Just turn and walk away. Say what you want outta "ears" way. Some women chose to live like that. If you get caught in the middle, that ol'lady that you were trying to help, can turn on you in an instant.
Red

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Posted on Wed, May 17, 2006 03:21

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Im with Char on this one!! When Guy calls me ol'Lady its with pride and respect. Its not a disrespectful term. Now honestly, do I seem the type of woman that would put up with any type of disrespect?? You know better than that don't you?? Anyone who has ever met me knows better than that.


No, you don't put up with disrespect. I saw you go after that biotch who dared to touch your jacket in Daytona!! Hahahaha

Seriously tho--there are azzhole abusers in every walk of life--not just bikers. You are right--a woman has a choice whether to put up with disrespect or not; and if she decides to allow a man to treat her that way, she shouldn't be whining if he continues to be abusive. The first time my friend cried to me about it I had sympathy and offered words of encouragement on how to be a strong woman and take charge of her life. She chose to stay with him instead; so now all I can say is "Well, you choose your own bed--lie in it with him or burn the motha fucka." (Remember that movie? LOL)

I have one comment on being called an ol' lady or "property of". The way I see it is, by the time you are cherished enough to be called an ol' lady you have already given him your heart and your soul anyway; so if it makes him feel good to say he owns yer azz, who cares. It's all semantics anyway because the underlying energy is love and giving all you have to another person--and that's what it is all about!

A Ha ha.. shit Im lucky I didn't go to jail that night!! About the chick and the jacket? Now you know damn well she did not just touch it.. she tried to take it, twice. Dont make me sound like no brute Christina..LOL I told her twice!! How many times you gotta tell someone to put your property down?

You rock with all that you said... you always have great wisdom Christina!!



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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 20:59

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Rescue1 write:
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i just think babygirl just needs a good spanking.

~Slim

Rescue1 writes:
Can I be the one to do it?


i got dibs on being first. lol. seconds maybe?


SUCKA!!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Here's a tissue fer the spittle (drool for those of us born after 1975 lol) running down the corners of your mouth... Poor baby!

I think Slim is a bit light headed lol... smelling salts Slim??



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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 20:54

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Oh Dear...look what I started..and no I do not read hells angels 101 2006..lol, the subscription is way too high.



LMAO.. Oh dear!

  


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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 12:38

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
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I have to say the creative writing from SNO was really good, I think everyone has mis interpeted what I meant by that, maybe I should elaborate a little further. I was sitting on at a picnic table having a beer with a few friends when a woman walked over to sit with her beer, just to find out that it wasn't her beer, it was he ol' man's. As he took a sip he spit it in her face and then proceeded to dump it over her head because it had too much foam in it, when i grabbed some napkins to help her out, he barked at me to leave her alone, let her stay like that, maybe she'll learn. i can see it in her face how humiliated and hurt she was, and was trying her hardest to hold back the tears. He made her get up to get another beer, and I followed her to help clean her up anyway, I told her no one has to take that, and she responded by saying, r u crazy? That's my ol' man. I am not saying the term ol'lady is a bad term, or I wouldn't object to someone i really cared about calling me that, it just seems ( who knows maybe in my area )that all the women I have met over the years who use that term are battered and bruised and very un happy. I apoligize if I offeneded anyone.


That has nothing to do w/being someone's ol'lady. We teach people how to treat us...and she let him treat her that way. That was her choice. If she didn't want that then she did not have to tolerate it.
My husband would never have spit in my face b/c he knew I would not tolerate that. And besides he probably would have been the one bringing me a beer...lol
Being someone's ol'lady or ol'man does not mean they can be disrespectful or degrading or that it has to be tolerated.
I do not feel bad for her, she chooses that treatment. If she did not, she would not tolerate it.

If there is anything disrespectful and demeaning to women, its other women always playing the victim and blaming thier life's plight on others!! It makes women look like retards. Im with Char, there are no victims in a adult relationship. We women are smart resourceful and very manipulative, we rule our own worlds and whatever happens or does not happen is our own doing. Soo sick of women acting helpless and blaming everything on others... makes me wanna puke!!

"AMEN" sista......we make our own path by our choices.



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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 12:01

DirtyBikers4Eva write:
Im with Char on this one!! When Guy calls me ol'Lady its with pride and respect. Its not a disrespectful term. Now honestly, do I seem the type of woman that would put up with any type of disrespect?? You know better than that don't you?? Anyone who has ever met me knows better than that.


No, you don't put up with disrespect. I saw you go after that biotch who dared to touch your jacket in Daytona!! Hahahaha

Seriously tho--there are azzhole abusers in every walk of life--not just bikers. You are right--a woman has a choice whether to put up with disrespect or not; and if she decides to allow a man to treat her that way, she shouldn't be whining if he continues to be abusive. The first time my friend cried to me about it I had sympathy and offered words of encouragement on how to be a strong woman and take charge of her life. She chose to stay with him instead; so now all I can say is "Well, you choose your own bed--lie in it with him or burn the motha fucka." (Remember that movie? LOL)

I have one comment on being called an ol' lady or "property of". The way I see it is, by the time you are cherished enough to be called an ol' lady you have already given him your heart and your soul anyway; so if it makes him feel good to say he owns yer azz, who cares. It's all semantics anyway because the underlying energy is love and giving all you have to another person--and that's what it is all about!



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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 11:30

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I am honored to be Guy's Ol' Lady, I wouldn't want to be anything else.


You go girl!!! And a fine-azz ol' man ya got there! Hugz!

Hey Babygirl waz up wit you??? Sure miss everybody!! Hope all is to the good!!


I miss you too!! I let my membership here run out cuz I hardly have time to be at the computer. Life is a whirlwind. I am dating and partying and trying to live life to the fullest.



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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 11:05

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Char, i understand what you are saying and do not think there is anything wrong with the term ol' lady when it used as a term of endearment. i have used it in the past myself. but the post "What is an ol' Lady" was about being owned and being someone's property (or at least that is how i took it). there is a big difference in being owned and the giving oneself to another out of love. i guess it surprised me to see you agreeing to it knowing what i do of you. i also know that i am a little abrupt in what i say sometimes. i wasn't trying to offend you or Sno, but emphatically (maybe over-emphatically) expressing my opinions on being "owned".

Sno, i am hell's only angel and only read books for the pretty pictures.

Peace and chicken grease, don't get any on ya!

NP...we were in two different mindsets at the time...

  


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Posted on Tue, May 16, 2006 09:04

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i just think babygirl just needs a good spanking.

~Slim

Rescue1 writes:
Can I be the one to do it?

i got dibs on being first. lol. seconds maybe?



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