Hang in there buddy! There ARE GOOD women looking for the same as you. Problem for both sides is shifting thru the "gold diggers" "users" & "players" to get to a "real" person! Sometimes its difficult to tell the good from the bad. They are "talented" & "polished" in the crafts of deception.
I was single too for a long spell....and I wasn't happy with the choices....then I met someone who changed my life. YOU will meet someone special too! Keep the faith & never stop believing in love.

Bob

have you ever heard that a watched pot doesn't boil????? same for a relationship--when you are looking there are times that you are looking past the relationship because you are looking to far ahead instead of who in standing next to you---patience my friend--it will happen

Peg

True...
If some guy wanted to meet me after only talking to him once or twice on here, he never posts in the threads. There's no way I'm off running to meet a guy I know nothing about... That's just me though. I'm sure there are gals that see this quite differently.
If you wanted to meet women in a fast manner, where were you during the NY meet. You weren't that far, and there were more women than you could shake a stick at... You'd a been in women heaven...
Marz, you've been here a while, you post, and usually have positive interesting things to say... I was surprised to run across this thread, and you in a tight knot.
There must be a lot more going on than what I'm seeing....

That's true.

You have to keep doing the foot work like you are doing now and play the waiting game at the same time.

Good relationships are very hard to find. And bad ones are easy to come by. As I am sure everyone knows.

Don't get impatient though. Woman pick up on that and mistake it for something else like an insecurity or something. Just enjoy yourself in the meantime. get out and have some fun. Try not to think about it so much. In other words don't let your feelings get in the way of your search. It won't help you any. Especially if you do met someone. They will sense something is not quite right.

Something else to think about is the person you are looking for may not even be from this site. The site is a good way to look for someone but don't expect to met someone here. If you expect to it will make it really hard for you. Keep your eyes open around you also. Sometimes, the one we are looking for is not as far as we think. :)

Anyway, hope I did not say to much.

True Marzen, I am hoping it will and yes it can happen at anytime. I am keeping the faith here!!! (smile)

Good things come to those who wait. So I been told lol

Marzen
I would be interested if only there werent so many miles lol

Explain that please? Maybe establishing a relationship takes time, but the meeting could happen any time at all. Just because you wait doesn't mean it will happen.

Hang in there man. It will come.

so many players on here and yes plenty of B.S. I hear that!

good things take time