Believe in true love Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Feb 22, 2006 16:11


    harleyrose6569 write:
    believe in true love yes
    we'v believed in less know the players you'll know the game .but dont give up because of them .the players are the ones always looking for something better not knowing whats in hand they give nothing and get nothing in return they end up always looking thinking there happy well i hope that happyness keep them on cold nights and they really dont know what they want or they wouldnt always be looking they would know and find the person right for them . when you and the person your with are right you hand them your heart mind and soul you give your all and you get it back when you go to bed thinking of him or her and you wake up that way when you enjoy to the fullest the time you have together maybe you can say if you believe or not

    I BELIEVE! :) Amen Sistah!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 21, 2006 11:25


    Nodey write:
    Hmmmmmm. I believed once.

    But now I beleive that just like the story of Cinderella,love is just a fairytale.



    Yep, pretty much my take on it.

    I don't know...I think "true" love does exist but doesn't come along very often. The "fairytale" type of love is nothing more than an illusion...a setup for disappointment and heartache.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 19, 2006 20:35


    Nodey write:
    sumi2 write:
    nodey ya just gotta have faith !!!!



    Lol,I just loveeeeeeee your smile M. You are a sweetie. Ya wanna learn how to talk with a Suuuuthunnnnnnn draw??

    Who are you converting now, g/f???? Need help??? Hell, I gots a Suuuuuthunnnnnnnnn draw too, ya know? LOL!!!!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 17, 2006 22:43


    r.v. trued, tru?ing, or true?ing trues
    To position (something) so as to make it balanced, level, or square: trued up the long planks.

    n.
    Truth or reality. Used with the.
    Proper alignment or adjustment: out of true.

    Now if you have a warped sense of self how can you experience True Love?
    If you have a warped sense of others how can you experience True Love?
    True Love is the union of two unwarped individuals who have taken a considerable effort to plane themselves, press themselves and make themselves as a personal plank TRUE.
    You can't make one piece of warped wood TRUE by nailing it to a TRUED piece. Eventually the nails will loose their grip or the screws will pull out by the tension of the warp.
    If you want a long lasting union and a good joint in your lifes cabinetry you need two well TRUED pieces of wonderful wood to build with.
    Each piece must be properly seasoned and dried to prevent further warping.
    Some woods are more dense than others and have a great deal of strength. Others are easier to shape and form and more versatile.
    If you join two pieces of wood that are different in nature they will separate over time because they react differently to humidity and temperature that wears them apart.
    A good project will marry complimentary woods that will work together through the years and move as one.

    So what is TRUE LOVE? Two unwarped Souls, properly seasoned and dried whose natures are complimentary that are joined never to separate. A Shaker piece of furniture or canoe, but each must be oiled, polished and tended to over the years to keep the woods from aging prematurely and that is the work of TRUE LOVE.

    Each joint should be unique to the woods forming it and that is why no clear example exist because there isn't one pattern out there that is right for every wood and every joint. Each union is as unique as the individuals comprising it.

    No ONE can make you TRUE. It all comes from YOU.
    If you expect someone else to make your life better you need more seasoning and a good kiln dry to bake off some of those wet ideas.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 17, 2006 09:50


    mspyder write:
    My friends tell me to stop looking so hard and give it time to find me. In the last year I have learned that one place I will not it is on these sites, friends yes.


    Spyder

    i think true love comes to us when we are ready and not before--you maybe but your partner may not be--and true love maybe around the corner or on the other side of the planet

    luv ya friend

    P
  • View author's info posted on Feb 17, 2006 09:44


    mick2003 write:
    Today's Inspirational Story

    Manifesting True Love
    If you don't believe love is possible for you, it will never happen. But if you do believe...
    By Daphne Rose Kingma

    If you've been sitting around in the singles' department, watching the handsome guy at the pool, if you've been overwhelmed by a career that hasn't left time for intimacy, if all your friends are married and you feel like the only person in the world who hasn't found, "the one," then you may believe that there won't ever be a true love for you.

    If that's true, then you need to start believing that love does indeed await you. Just as nobody gets to Paris without believing that Paris exists, nobody falls in love without believing that a wonderful love is possible for them.
    That's because conceptualization creates reality. In the story of almost every successful tycoon, we read that there was a belief that against all odds he or she would succeed some day. It's no different with you: what becomes manifest in your life arrives because consciously and unconsciously, you believe it can happen-whether it's a better job, a new car, or a true love.

    .... etc., etc.

    Yep, it figures, a fantasy written by a woman who either lives in a drug-induced fantasy world or has watched too many romance movies and read too many dime-store romance novels.

    Love is one of those fleeting concepts that pretty much defies definition, and it seems that everyone has his or her own subjective (and eternally changing) idea of what it is. If I remember correctly, I believe there is a chapter in I Corinthians, ch 13 about love, but I think I remember it just telling how to recognize it, not really defining it (beyond, "love is kind, longsuffering, etc.). Something like, "I can't define it, but you can recognize it by ......"

    And, it is one thing to "love" someone else, and totally another thing to have it reciprocated/mirrored back at you, too.

    I am guessing that the reason we are here, is that the other party's idea of love was not what we had in mind or vice versa - i.e. not mirrored either way.

    My speculation has been for years, that the ways each party shows his/her feelings/love (by the way (s)he were raised or his/her experience) has to be an acceptable way from the other's perspective. Kind of like that joke where the wife complained to the husband after 30 years of marriage that he never said, "I love you" but once after getting married, and he said, "Yeah, I told you once, I meant it and if it ever changes, I will let you know."

    Mick


    Mick

    that maybe OK except if she told you she needed to hear it!!!!! because if she did and wasn't told once in awhile it devalues her needs!!!!!
    been there done that

    P
  • View author's info posted on Feb 16, 2006 11:21


    sumi2 write:
    nodey ya just gotta have faith !!!!



    Lol,I just loveeeeeeee your smile M. You are a sweetie. Ya wanna learn how to talk with a Suuuuthunnnnnnn draw??
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    nodey ya just gotta have faith !!!!

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 14, 2006 13:04


    harleyrose6569 write:
    believe in true love yes
    we'v believed in less know the players you'll know the game .but dont give up because of them .the players are the ones always looking for something better not knowing whats in hand they give nothing and get nothing in return they end up always looking thinking there happy well i hope that happyness keep them on cold nights and they really dont know what they want or they wouldnt always be looking they would know and find the person right for them . when you and the person your with are right you hand them your heart mind and soul you give your all and you get it back when you go to bed thinking of him or her and you wake up that way when you enjoy to the fullest the time you have together maybe you can say if you believe or not


    Not to 'dis' BK but I feel somewhat inhibited by not being able to make use of BB Code. That and impact added by the ability to direct image linking [img][/img] leaves me feeling somewhat hobbled.

    I will do my best, to share my thoughts nonetheless...

    From my perspective:
    Players' efforts are at growing their ability to 'play the game'.

    Good for them, I wish them luck - NOT

    Personally, I've found that being involved, rather than being a player, living the game we know as life - has UNLIMITED rewards.

    True LOVE - you_bet_cha.

    REWARDS - off_the_charts

    Been hurt? I see two choices:
    build walls
    OR
    grow strong, look forward to the unprecented rewards that are in fact available.

    As a footnote -
    I've lived most of my life 'flying without a net'
    OR
    as some might relate, not so much living life near the edge but finding it hard to find those instances in which I was not well beyond the edge - that which has been refered to as being 'DEEP IN'.

    Happy 'Hearts Day' for those that aren't 'players'.

    :afterthought:
    I'm basking in the afterglow of a most rewarding Full Moon Fiesta.

    For those that might possibly share my perspective of life that excludes all that are not familiar with the essence of motorcycling - pitty to those that never experience the overwhelming emotion of blowing a heartfelt kiss to a beautiful woman as you knowingly choose to wander off into the Magic of the night.

    Little will ever haunt my soul more than the above scenario...

    Southbound PCH (Pacific Coast Highway), winter night, full moon shinning down from the easten sky, reflecting off the the ripples and crashing high tide surf.

    Dancing the canyons until the eastern sky starts to glow, adds all the more to the wonder of a Full Moon ride.

    Fuckin_A, [quote - Randy Newman] "My life is good..."[/quote]

    A 'Happy Hearts' Day.
    Hugs and kisses to all that feel my touch has been sweet...
  • View author's info posted on Feb 14, 2006 11:35


    I believe in magic and reality. They go hand in hand.
    Hugs:Happy Heart Day. A great day to celebrate Love for friends, the kids, the dog! May someone give you love today. I am going to lavish those I care for with hugs, sweet words and big smiles today!
    Muahhhhhh........

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  • View author's info posted on Feb 14, 2006 07:17


    Happy Valentine's Day to each & every one of you...
  • View author's info posted on Feb 14, 2006 06:12


    Reign write:
    I believe in love ...even true love ...got it too :) He looks just like mommy haha! what I don't believe in is fairy tales! Leave unconditional love for your children. Love in a relationship definitely has conditions if it didn't we would stay in bad relationships... the condition being behavior. true love? hmmm ...wanna define that for me? I'm a realist too and I'm not jaded about it. I like truth in all things and hate pretenders ...so if it's good ...roll with it ...if it isn't ...move on with a smile ...it's all good!
    Reign


    Reign--i believe that we must first love ourselves unconditionally--accepting unacceptable behavior has nothing to do with unconditonal love for anyone especially ourselves

    it has taken me a lifetime to realize that by accepting unacceptable behavior i'm enabling not truely loving unconditionally--because in a mutual relationship of unconditional love i have the right to tell the other my likes, dislikes and fears without being judged and vice versa

    soooooooo do i believe in true love--yes i do--butttttt just because we find doesn't mean we can take it for granted--we need to tell the other and show the other all the time

    HAPPY V-DAY TO YOU ALL
  • View author's info posted on Feb 13, 2006 18:43


    believe in true love yes
    we'v believed in less know the players you'll know the game .but dont give up because of them .the players are the ones always looking for something better not knowing whats in hand they give nothing and get nothing in return they end up always looking thinking there happy well i hope that happyness keep them on cold nights and they really dont know what they want or they wouldnt always be looking they would know and find the person right for them . when you and the person your with are right you hand them your heart mind and soul you give your all and you get it back when you go to bed thinking of him or her and you wake up that way when you enjoy to the fullest the time you have together maybe you can say if you believe or not
  • View author's info posted on Feb 11, 2006 10:58


    Believe in true love?

    Without any doubt I can say I believe in true love.

    Can't think of any reason or justification to not enjoy life to its fullest, why should love be any different?
  • View author's info posted on Feb 11, 2006 06:53


    KinMonmouth write:
    I want a fairy Godmother...

    hehe... Get to the party at DOC's or the Cape Run and I'll make sure you get to Provincetown.....you can pick your own
  • View author's info posted on Feb 10, 2006 11:46


    I believe in love ...even true love ...got it too :) He looks just like mommy haha! what I don't believe in is fairy tales! Leave unconditional love for your children. Love in a relationship definitely has conditions if it didn't we would stay in bad relationships... the condition being behavior. true love? hmmm ...wanna define that for me? I'm a realist too and I'm not jaded about it. I like truth in all things and hate pretenders ...so if it's good ...roll with it ...if it isn't ...move on with a smile ...it's all good!
    Reign
  • View author's info posted on Feb 10, 2006 10:54


    True Love is RARE but oh sooo REAL!! Its a scary thing though... In order to have it you have to submit EVERY SINGLE thread of who you are!! What I have come to realize is that is the most difficult thing in the world to actually do! But the MOST rewarding!!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 10, 2006 06:59


    Bigbear2000 write:
    Been sitting here thinking about this question for a couple of days. Just got too much time on my hands, I guess. : )
    While I believe in the Power of Love and have given an unconditional love a few times, I'm gonna say "No". At least not for me.
    Nope. Not whinin, cryin or any of that, just being a realist.


    Jess, u know that's horseshit. u may not have a true love right now, but u know u believe in it. i could dig up ur old posts if you need me to prove it.
    peace brother!
  • View author's info posted on Feb 10, 2006 06:33


    Been sitting here thinking about this question for a couple of days. Just got too much time on my hands, I guess. : )
    While I believe in the Power of Love and have given an unconditional love a few times, I'm gonna say "No". At least not for me.
    Nope. Not whinin, cryin or any of that, just being a realist.
  • View author's info posted on Feb 09, 2006 15:24


    stillme67 write:

    Nodey write:
    Lol. Not chicken. Just becoming a realist these days.



    being a realist is fine. and if you are a realist then you already know some relationships work, some don't, some are bad and some are good. just don't let the fear of getting hurt make ya bury your head in the sand. a realist would know that he or SHE needs to keep that head up and eyes open to be able to spot the good ones. a realist also knows that if all you are looking at is dirt then dirt is all you will find.
    peace fellow realist!


    Hello fellow realists, Still, did you realize that all relationships work? Some work extremely well and others work very poorly, it's up to us to choose to go or stay, it is our choice of personal preference, to put our hearts out there and keep trying. I do agree about looking for the dirt, that's all you'll find and you'll overlook the good. There's a lot of good in most of us, and if we focus on the good, we'll find that too.
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