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Posted on Sun, Mar 12, 2006 09:27

nittekitten write:
i still believe in the fairy tale of happily ever after at my age. i've been on my own a long time now, thought maybe i'd given up a time or two. (i think thats when the fairy Godmother whacked me on the head with her wand so i'd snap out of it) can't ever give up on your dreams...its never too late.

Hey, girl, I understand about losing faith in love. But I still bounce back and believe in life-long love, too, you know, the I would die for you kind of love. Just when I would think I had it, *poof* something gots all fubar'ed up. But, even after all those false starts, haha, I'm still a hopeless romantic.

My heart just fills with joy when I see that old couple who've been married 50 years and still walk down the street holding hands, with a sparkle in their eyes and talking in sweet low voices to each other. Now that's something special. I'd like to wake up 20 or 30 years from now to a beautifully aged and well-lined face that looks back at me with love in their eyes after all those years.


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Posted on Fri, Mar 10, 2006 14:27

pinkpunch write:
i hav to say hiya all, long time no comments from me lol... had alot goin on in my life ... love hmmmmmmmm
thought id found it then moved on... enjoyin what life had to offer through different kinds of love wishing for a miracle....
i hav found love, life is fantastic... just need to get back on my feet to enjoy it even more...
i was givin up on love all 2gether but i changed my mind ... hehehehe im glad i did.....
if u beleave it will happen , if u go lookin for it it wunt happen ... live life and see what happens
pink
x

Pink Hi there,I just wanted to congratulate you if you
ve found love and especially true love.
I
m beginning to think except for family there
s no such thing as true love.So I
m glad to see or hear of someone who has.once again congrats.



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Posted on Thu, Mar 09, 2006 13:27

i hav to say hiya all, long time no comments from me lol... had alot goin on in my life ... love hmmmmmmmm
thought id found it then moved on... enjoyin what life had to offer through different kinds of love wishing for a miracle....
i hav found love, life is fantastic... just need to get back on my feet to enjoy it even more...
i was givin up on love all 2gether but i changed my mind ... hehehehe im glad i did.....
if u beleave it will happen , if u go lookin for it it wunt happen ... live life and see what happens
pink
x

  


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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 17:29

i still believe in the fairy tale of happily ever after at my age. i've been on my own a long time now, thought maybe i'd given up a time or two. (i think thats when the fairy Godmother whacked me on the head with her wand so i'd snap out of it) can't ever give up on your dreams...its never too late.

  


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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 08:56

Y'all write nice words

To be brief for a change, Yes I believe in true love.

Keep your eyes, mind and heart open!!

If it can happen to me it can happen to everyone!!

  


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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 07:43

The road to finding it isn't all fun...just remember this..


Well I, I still can remember times
When the night seemed to surround me
I was sure the sun would never shine on me
And I, I thought it my destiny
To walk this world alone
But now you're here with me
Now you're here with me

And I don't regret the rain
Or the nights I felt the pain
Or the tears I had to cry
Some of those times along the way
Every road I had to take
Every time my heart would break
It was just something that I had to get through
To get me to you
To get me to you

Well I, I still can recall the days
When I had no love around me
Makes me glad for every day I have with you
And I, I look in your eyes and know
I'm right where I belong
And I belong with you
Always belonged with you

And I don't regret the rain
Or the nights I felt the pain
Or the tears I had to cry
Some of those times along the way
Every road I had to take
Every time my heart would break
It was just something that I had to go through
To get me to you
To get me to you

And if I could I wouldn't change a thing
Wouldn't change a thing baby
Because your love was waiting there for me
Waiting there for me baby

And I don't regret the rain
Or the nights I felt the pain
Or the tears I had to cry
Some of those times along the way
Every road I had to take
Every time my heart would break
It was just something that I had to get through
To get me to you
To get me to you



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Posted on Wed, Feb 22, 2006 16:11

harleyrose6569 write:
believe in true love yes
we'v believed in less know the players you'll know the game .but dont give up because of them .the players are the ones always looking for something better not knowing whats in hand they give nothing and get nothing in return they end up always looking thinking there happy well i hope that happyness keep them on cold nights and they really dont know what they want or they wouldnt always be looking they would know and find the person right for them . when you and the person your with are right you hand them your heart mind and soul you give your all and you get it back when you go to bed thinking of him or her and you wake up that way when you enjoy to the fullest the time you have together maybe you can say if you believe or not

I BELIEVE! :) Amen Sistah!!!!



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Posted on Tue, Feb 21, 2006 11:25

Nodey write:
Hmmmmmm. I believed once.

But now I beleive that just like the story of Cinderella,love is just a fairytale.



Yep, pretty much my take on it.

I don't know...I think "true" love does exist but doesn't come along very often. The "fairytale" type of love is nothing more than an illusion...a setup for disappointment and heartache.

  


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Posted on Sun, Feb 19, 2006 20:35

Nodey write:
sumi2 write:
nodey ya just gotta have faith !!!!



Lol,I just loveeeeeeee your smile M. You are a sweetie. Ya wanna learn how to talk with a Suuuuthunnnnnnn draw??

Who are you converting now, g/f???? Need help??? Hell, I gots a Suuuuuthunnnnnnnnn draw too, ya know? LOL!!!!



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 22:43

r.v. trued, tru?ing, or true?ing trues
To position (something) so as to make it balanced, level, or square: trued up the long planks.

n.
Truth or reality. Used with the.
Proper alignment or adjustment: out of true.

Now if you have a warped sense of self how can you experience True Love?
If you have a warped sense of others how can you experience True Love?
True Love is the union of two unwarped individuals who have taken a considerable effort to plane themselves, press themselves and make themselves as a personal plank TRUE.
You can't make one piece of warped wood TRUE by nailing it to a TRUED piece. Eventually the nails will loose their grip or the screws will pull out by the tension of the warp.
If you want a long lasting union and a good joint in your lifes cabinetry you need two well TRUED pieces of wonderful wood to build with.
Each piece must be properly seasoned and dried to prevent further warping.
Some woods are more dense than others and have a great deal of strength. Others are easier to shape and form and more versatile.
If you join two pieces of wood that are different in nature they will separate over time because they react differently to humidity and temperature that wears them apart.
A good project will marry complimentary woods that will work together through the years and move as one.

So what is TRUE LOVE? Two unwarped Souls, properly seasoned and dried whose natures are complimentary that are joined never to separate. A Shaker piece of furniture or canoe, but each must be oiled, polished and tended to over the years to keep the woods from aging prematurely and that is the work of TRUE LOVE.

Each joint should be unique to the woods forming it and that is why no clear example exist because there isn't one pattern out there that is right for every wood and every joint. Each union is as unique as the individuals comprising it.

No ONE can make you TRUE. It all comes from YOU.
If you expect someone else to make your life better you need more seasoning and a good kiln dry to bake off some of those wet ideas.



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 09:50

mspyder write:
My friends tell me to stop looking so hard and give it time to find me. In the last year I have learned that one place I will not it is on these sites, friends yes.


Spyder

i think true love comes to us when we are ready and not before--you maybe but your partner may not be--and true love maybe around the corner or on the other side of the planet

luv ya friend

P



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Posted on Fri, Feb 17, 2006 09:44

mick2003 write:
Today's Inspirational Story

Manifesting True Love
If you don't believe love is possible for you, it will never happen. But if you do believe...
By Daphne Rose Kingma

If you've been sitting around in the singles' department, watching the handsome guy at the pool, if you've been overwhelmed by a career that hasn't left time for intimacy, if all your friends are married and you feel like the only person in the world who hasn't found, "the one," then you may believe that there won't ever be a true love for you.

If that's true, then you need to start believing that love does indeed await you. Just as nobody gets to Paris without believing that Paris exists, nobody falls in love without believing that a wonderful love is possible for them.
That's because conceptualization creates reality. In the story of almost every successful tycoon, we read that there was a belief that against all odds he or she would succeed some day. It's no different with you: what becomes manifest in your life arrives because consciously and unconsciously, you believe it can happen-whether it's a better job, a new car, or a true love.

.... etc., etc.

Yep, it figures, a fantasy written by a woman who either lives in a drug-induced fantasy world or has watched too many romance movies and read too many dime-store romance novels.

Love is one of those fleeting concepts that pretty much defies definition, and it seems that everyone has his or her own subjective (and eternally changing) idea of what it is. If I remember correctly, I believe there is a chapter in I Corinthians, ch 13 about love, but I think I remember it just telling how to recognize it, not really defining it (beyond, "love is kind, longsuffering, etc.). Something like, "I can't define it, but you can recognize it by ......"

And, it is one thing to "love" someone else, and totally another thing to have it reciprocated/mirrored back at you, too.

I am guessing that the reason we are here, is that the other party's idea of love was not what we had in mind or vice versa - i.e. not mirrored either way.

My speculation has been for years, that the ways each party shows his/her feelings/love (by the way (s)he were raised or his/her experience) has to be an acceptable way from the other's perspective. Kind of like that joke where the wife complained to the husband after 30 years of marriage that he never said, "I love you" but once after getting married, and he said, "Yeah, I told you once, I meant it and if it ever changes, I will let you know."

Mick


Mick

that maybe OK except if she told you she needed to hear it!!!!! because if she did and wasn't told once in awhile it devalues her needs!!!!!
been there done that

P



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Posted on Thu, Feb 16, 2006 21:55

My friends tell me to stop looking so hard and give it time to find me. In the last year I have learned that one place I will not it is on these sites, friends yes.



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Posted on Thu, Feb 16, 2006 11:21

sumi2 write:
nodey ya just gotta have faith !!!!



Lol,I just loveeeeeeee your smile M. You are a sweetie. Ya wanna learn how to talk with a Suuuuthunnnnnnn draw??

  


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Posted on Wed, Feb 15, 2006 14:40

nodey ya just gotta have faith !!!!

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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2006 13:04

harleyrose6569 write:
believe in true love yes
we'v believed in less know the players you'll know the game .but dont give up because of them .the players are the ones always looking for something better not knowing whats in hand they give nothing and get nothing in return they end up always looking thinking there happy well i hope that happyness keep them on cold nights and they really dont know what they want or they wouldnt always be looking they would know and find the person right for them . when you and the person your with are right you hand them your heart mind and soul you give your all and you get it back when you go to bed thinking of him or her and you wake up that way when you enjoy to the fullest the time you have together maybe you can say if you believe or not


Not to 'dis' BK but I feel somewhat inhibited by not being able to make use of BB Code. That and impact added by the ability to direct image linking [img][/img] leaves me feeling somewhat hobbled.

I will do my best, to share my thoughts nonetheless...

From my perspective:
Players' efforts are at growing their ability to 'play the game'.

Good for them, I wish them luck - NOT

Personally, I've found that being involved, rather than being a player, living the game we know as life - has UNLIMITED rewards.

True LOVE - you_bet_cha.

REWARDS - off_the_charts

Been hurt? I see two choices:
build walls
OR
grow strong, look forward to the unprecented rewards that are in fact available.

As a footnote -
I've lived most of my life 'flying without a net'
OR
as some might relate, not so much living life near the edge but finding it hard to find those instances in which I was not well beyond the edge - that which has been refered to as being 'DEEP IN'.

Happy 'Hearts Day' for those that aren't 'players'.

:afterthought:
I'm basking in the afterglow of a most rewarding Full Moon Fiesta.

For those that might possibly share my perspective of life that excludes all that are not familiar with the essence of motorcycling - pitty to those that never experience the overwhelming emotion of blowing a heartfelt kiss to a beautiful woman as you knowingly choose to wander off into the Magic of the night.

Little will ever haunt my soul more than the above scenario...

Southbound PCH (Pacific Coast Highway), winter night, full moon shinning down from the easten sky, reflecting off the the ripples and crashing high tide surf.

Dancing the canyons until the eastern sky starts to glow, adds all the more to the wonder of a Full Moon ride.

Fuckin_A, [quote - Randy Newman] "My life is good..."[/quote]

A 'Happy Hearts' Day.
Hugs and kisses to all that feel my touch has been sweet...



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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2006 11:35

I believe in magic and reality. They go hand in hand.
Hugs:Happy Heart Day. A great day to celebrate Love for friends, the kids, the dog! May someone give you love today. I am going to lavish those I care for with hugs, sweet words and big smiles today!
Muahhhhhh........

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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2006 07:17

Happy Valentine's Day to each & every one of you...

  


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Posted on Tue, Feb 14, 2006 06:12

Reign write:
I believe in love ...even true love ...got it too :) He looks just like mommy haha! what I don't believe in is fairy tales! Leave unconditional love for your children. Love in a relationship definitely has conditions if it didn't we would stay in bad relationships... the condition being behavior. true love? hmmm ...wanna define that for me? I'm a realist too and I'm not jaded about it. I like truth in all things and hate pretenders ...so if it's good ...roll with it ...if it isn't ...move on with a smile ...it's all good!
Reign


Reign--i believe that we must first love ourselves unconditionally--accepting unacceptable behavior has nothing to do with unconditonal love for anyone especially ourselves

it has taken me a lifetime to realize that by accepting unacceptable behavior i'm enabling not truely loving unconditionally--because in a mutual relationship of unconditional love i have the right to tell the other my likes, dislikes and fears without being judged and vice versa

soooooooo do i believe in true love--yes i do--butttttt just because we find doesn't mean we can take it for granted--we need to tell the other and show the other all the time

HAPPY V-DAY TO YOU ALL



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Posted on Mon, Feb 13, 2006 18:43

believe in true love yes
we'v believed in less know the players you'll know the game .but dont give up because of them .the players are the ones always looking for something better not knowing whats in hand they give nothing and get nothing in return they end up always looking thinking there happy well i hope that happyness keep them on cold nights and they really dont know what they want or they wouldnt always be looking they would know and find the person right for them . when you and the person your with are right you hand them your heart mind and soul you give your all and you get it back when you go to bed thinking of him or her and you wake up that way when you enjoy to the fullest the time you have together maybe you can say if you believe or not



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