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  • View author's info posted on May 29, 2006 06:41


    Badbikerkitty write:
    I know how it is to miss everyone too.I have made so many wonderful friends here that i will cherish The rest of my life!!!Hope everyone stays safe and live life like theres no tomorrow.Don't judge don't sacrifice happiness for anything if you can.Life is what YOU make of it !!! love to all my bro's and sis's here.I am still here but it;s not the same like kara said.One day we will all be together enjoying one anothers company laffin at what we said here .Love to all be safe!! And have a drink on me!!!

    Have a drink On you? Does that mean Body Shots? woooo weee I get the Bobbies then!!!LMAO Thanks Ms Kitty have a great Day and everyone let's remember why we are doing the Bar B Ques today, It's because of the Brave Men and Woman who have given their lives for our freedom so that we can have our Bar B Ques and ride our bikes and do everyday what a lot of people take for granted so please take a moment and remember our fallen heros. Thanks and Semper Fi!
  • View author's info posted on May 29, 2006 06:07


    Hello hello hello dam it echos in here well lots nice folks in the harleychat look for it if you have not made it there yet
  • View author's info posted on May 28, 2006 14:32


    I know how it is to miss everyone too.I have made so many wonderful friends here that i will cherish The rest of my life!!!Hope everyone stays safe and live life like theres no tomorrow.Don't judge don't sacrifice happiness for anything if you can.Life is what YOU make of it !!! love to all my bro's and sis's here.I am still here but it;s not the same like kara said.One day we will all be together enjoying one anothers company laffin at what we said here .Love to all be safe!! And have a drink on me!!!
  • View author's info posted on May 27, 2006 07:49


    KinMonmouth write:
    Greg ( Ponch) I hope you're doing ok..

    Just doesn't seem fair..but in another light ..it's very fair if you consider your life could have been taken. It's all in how we look at things.

    No drink tonight..just eating ice cream. Cherry Vanilla.

    Missing the way BK was when I first signed on last year. Missing the funny stories and welcoming notes. Missing the energy of H1A, the God fearing of DD and Bear, missing Ponch's word, missing DBS's insight and the way she could make ya think and make ya mad..but that was ok..it's good to get riled up and think. I miss Suzie's planning and Mikes flirting and Cut's devilish remarks and Doc's wiseass remarks ...I miss much...So many are gone or have stopped posting. Too many are angry and that saddens me.
    I'm guilty of not being here as much as well...Danny's taken up a good part of my time and I wouldn't have it any other way. He's great.

    Too many people don't think. They live each day as the one before..almost robotically from work schedules to kid's schedules to our schedules. No time to think..it's a shame.

    I switched cable company's this week. We will be without cable tv for 1 week. My son Alex and my roommate are both freaking out. They literally do not know how to go to sleep without the TV. They don't know what to do with their time now. It amazes me. I am not a big TV watcher, but they are so automated they don't think... they just flip it on and vegetate.

    I think about my life and how so very lucky I am. My parents divorced when I was 3 1/2. I was fortunate as they were that they both remarried shortly after to wonderful people. I couldn't have asked God to deliver me better parents and I got 2 sets.

    Step parents or not they raised me and they are part of who I am. I am eternally grateful for such a blessing. I see others who have 2 not so great parents. I got 4..is it fair? Probably not. Dunno why I was so lucky.

    Through these 4 people who were from Texas, Iowa, Missouri, and New Jersey. I learned how to love, how to think, how to dream and achieve my dreams.

    I had the good fortune of being raised in suburbs of big city's and spending summers on Country Farms. Meeting people from all walks of life. My parents are deaf. That in itself was a challenge most kid's don't face growing up. Sometimes as a child I found it annoying because I had to tell them everything someone said on the phone. Or interpret anything someone was trying to tell them at the pool or park or store. Sometimes I found it embarressing because my parents would use the sounds in their voice box to make a noise and it wouldn't sound "normal". I wish I never did feel that way...I sure don't now. As a kid..it's different I guess.

    They are all high achievers and highly respected in their chosen fields. They are all loving , giving, good hearted people. We have a conjoined family of 8 kids. Five boys and three girls.
    Not one alcoholic, not one drug addict, not one suicide,accidental death , or illness. We have 11 children between us as of today and all are healthy and doing well now.

    We are blessed. I remind myself of this everyday.

    My heart breaks when I see other's suffer so much. My heart aches when I think of what could happen to my own children. I try and make them think..like my parents made me think. I want them to dream and believe they can achieve anything they set out to do.

    I guess I just miss the Good Ole Days....in my life..and here on BK

    Song lyrics to: "Grandpa"

    Lyrics Words and Music by Jamie O'Hara
    Sang by the Judds

    Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days
    Sometimes it feels like
    This world's gone crazy
    Grandpa, take me back to yesterday
    When the line between right and wrong
    Didn't seem so hazy

    Did lovers really fall in love to stay
    And stand beside each other come what may?
    Was a promise really something people kept
    Not just something they would say?
    Did families really bow their heads to pray?
    Did daddies really never go away?
    Oh, Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days

    Grandpa, everything is changing fast
    We call it progress
    But I just don't know
    And Grandpa, let's wander back into the past
    And paint me the picture
    Of long ago

    Did lovers really fall in love to stay
    And stand beside each other come what may?
    Was a promise really something people kept
    Not just something they would say and then forget?
    Did families really bow their heads to pray?
    Did daddies really never go away?

    Oh, Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days
    Oh, Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days

    Kin you have such a great light!! Miss you too!! Very glad you are happy and all snuggled up to someone who deserves you!!
  • View author's info posted on May 25, 2006 08:25


    BadBikerDawg write:
    Hello Everyone I'm no longer a member so I don't know when this will post, I was in an accident on Friday May 12 when a woman in a van stopped suddenly at an intersection she could have gone thru and caused no problems but choose to slam on her brakes and skid to a stop which caused me many problems, The last thing I remember is trying to stop I eventually did head first into the back of her van from what I've been told.
    I am a very lucky man to still be alive I broke my jaw and collasped my inner keft inner ear canal, they wired my jaw and put in what they call a wick to allow the inner ear to heal properly, they tell me I will regain my hearing in my left ear once they remove the wick.
    I thank all of you who have called to see how I was doing I would return calls but my phone was destroyed in the accident thus I have no phone numbers. Thank you all for your prayers and concerns I will tell you this I was wearing a helment and if I had not been I wouldn't be with you today as it is I am very lucky to be living, God has a greater plan for me I don't know what that might be but I am ready for whatever it might be.
    My Bike was totalled and my life could have neen also but it wasn't, it's scary I felt like something was going to happen so I called each of my kids to tell them how proud of them I was and how much I loved them prior to taking off maybe I jinxed myself but I see it as making sure that my loved ones knew how special they are, I'm telling you all this so that maybe you will take the initivite and contact your mom or dad or brother or sister that you haven't spoken with for some stupid reason that you can't even remember anymore and tell them how much they mean to you, life is short and you never know when it will end, take time to let the ones you love know that you love them don't take it for granted that they know.
    For each of my friends here I thank you for your friendship and cherrish each and every one of you for your individuality and kindness. Thank you for being my friend I look forward to meeting each of you one day.

    Ponch

    OMG Ponch,

    Im thinkin you are in need of a streak of good luck dude. I can't think of anyone who deserves blessings more than you at this point. I hope you heal fast and if ya need anything let us know and we'll find a way to make it happen. Thakful you are gonna be okay!!
  • View author's info posted on May 25, 2006 05:42


    Kin
    Sweetheart Thank you so much for your words and sharing part of your life with us. I too miss the BK was when I first joined the fun we had here for Cocktail Hour, Smiles, Ms. Kitty, JJGeorgia Peach, DD Don, I miss you guys and thanks for the phone messages you all are truely the best. Sexybaby you too are awesome thanks for all your kind words.
    It is so easy for each of us to look at our lives and wish things were different but God has a reason for what he gives us and it's up to us to do with what we're given, I've always tried to live by this quote from John Wooden former UCLA Basketball coach who challanged his players by asking them this "Judge yourself not by what you've accomplished but rather by what you should have accomplished given you abilities", It challanges each of of to be our best at all times to look into our inner being and strive for greatness and if we do we can be great.
    I leave you with this thought... try everyday to do one kind thing for someone you don't know, you'll be surprised at how good you feel afterwards. don't do it for the glory do it because it's the right thing to do.
    God bless and keep you all safe.
    I don't know how this dance will finally end but I can tell you I wouldn't change a thing.....
    I'll leave you with this from Garth Brooks the words have special meaning..... The Dance

    Looking back on the memory of
    The dance we shared 'neath the stars above
    For a moment all the world was right
    How could I have known that you'd ever say goodbye

    And now I'm glad I didn't know
    The way it all would end, the way it all would go
    Our lives are better left to chance
    I could have missed the pain
    But I'd have had to miss the dance

    Holding you, I held everything
    For a moment wasn't I a king
    But if I'd only known how the king would fall
    Hey who's to say? you know I might have changed it all

    And now I'm glad I didn't know
    The way it all would end the way it all would go
    Our lives are better left to chance
    I could have missed the pain
    But I'd have had to miss the dance

    Yes my life, its better left to chance
    I could have missed the pain
    But I'd have had to miss the dance
  • View author's info posted on May 24, 2006 19:40


    Greg ( Ponch) I hope you're doing ok..

    Just doesn't seem fair..but in another light ..it's very fair if you consider your life could have been taken. It's all in how we look at things.

    No drink tonight..just eating ice cream. Cherry Vanilla.

    Missing the way BK was when I first signed on last year. Missing the funny stories and welcoming notes. Missing the energy of H1A, the God fearing of DD and Bear, missing Ponch's word, missing DBS's insight and the way she could make ya think and make ya mad..but that was ok..it's good to get riled up and think. I miss Suzie's planning and Mikes flirting and Cut's devilish remarks and Doc's wiseass remarks ...I miss much...So many are gone or have stopped posting. Too many are angry and that saddens me.
    I'm guilty of not being here as much as well...Danny's taken up a good part of my time and I wouldn't have it any other way. He's great.

    Too many people don't think. They live each day as the one before..almost robotically from work schedules to kid's schedules to our schedules. No time to think..it's a shame.

    I switched cable company's this week. We will be without cable tv for 1 week. My son Alex and my roommate are both freaking out. They literally do not know how to go to sleep without the TV. They don't know what to do with their time now. It amazes me. I am not a big TV watcher, but they are so automated they don't think... they just flip it on and vegetate.

    I think about my life and how so very lucky I am. My parents divorced when I was 3 1/2. I was fortunate as they were that they both remarried shortly after to wonderful people. I couldn't have asked God to deliver me better parents and I got 2 sets.

    Step parents or not they raised me and they are part of who I am. I am eternally grateful for such a blessing. I see others who have 2 not so great parents. I got 4..is it fair? Probably not. Dunno why I was so lucky.

    Through these 4 people who were from Texas, Iowa, Missouri, and New Jersey. I learned how to love, how to think, how to dream and achieve my dreams.

    I had the good fortune of being raised in suburbs of big city's and spending summers on Country Farms. Meeting people from all walks of life. My parents are deaf. That in itself was a challenge most kid's don't face growing up. Sometimes as a child I found it annoying because I had to tell them everything someone said on the phone. Or interpret anything someone was trying to tell them at the pool or park or store. Sometimes I found it embarressing because my parents would use the sounds in their voice box to make a noise and it wouldn't sound "normal". I wish I never did feel that way...I sure don't now. As a kid..it's different I guess.

    They are all high achievers and highly respected in their chosen fields. They are all loving , giving, good hearted people. We have a conjoined family of 8 kids. Five boys and three girls.
    Not one alcoholic, not one drug addict, not one suicide,accidental death , or illness. We have 11 children between us as of today and all are healthy and doing well now.

    We are blessed. I remind myself of this everyday.

    My heart breaks when I see other's suffer so much. My heart aches when I think of what could happen to my own children. I try and make them think..like my parents made me think. I want them to dream and believe they can achieve anything they set out to do.

    I guess I just miss the Good Ole Days....in my life..and here on BK

    Song lyrics to: "Grandpa"

    Lyrics Words and Music by Jamie O'Hara
    Sang by the Judds

    Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days
    Sometimes it feels like
    This world's gone crazy
    Grandpa, take me back to yesterday
    When the line between right and wrong
    Didn't seem so hazy

    Did lovers really fall in love to stay
    And stand beside each other come what may?
    Was a promise really something people kept
    Not just something they would say?
    Did families really bow their heads to pray?
    Did daddies really never go away?
    Oh, Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days

    Grandpa, everything is changing fast
    We call it progress
    But I just don't know
    And Grandpa, let's wander back into the past
    And paint me the picture
    Of long ago

    Did lovers really fall in love to stay
    And stand beside each other come what may?
    Was a promise really something people kept
    Not just something they would say and then forget?
    Did families really bow their heads to pray?
    Did daddies really never go away?

    Oh, Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days
    Oh, Grandpa, tell me 'bout the good old days
  • View author's info posted on May 24, 2006 09:42


    Hello Everyone I'm no longer a member so I don't know when this will post, I was in an accident on Friday May 12 when a woman in a van stopped suddenly at an intersection she could have gone thru and caused no problems but choose to slam on her brakes and skid to a stop which caused me many problems, The last thing I remember is trying to stop I eventually did head first into the back of her van from what I've been told.
    I am a very lucky man to still be alive I broke my jaw and collasped my inner keft inner ear canal, they wired my jaw and put in what they call a wick to allow the inner ear to heal properly, they tell me I will regain my hearing in my left ear once they remove the wick.
    I thank all of you who have called to see how I was doing I would return calls but my phone was destroyed in the accident thus I have no phone numbers. Thank you all for your prayers and concerns I will tell you this I was wearing a helment and if I had not been I wouldn't be with you today as it is I am very lucky to be living, God has a greater plan for me I don't know what that might be but I am ready for whatever it might be.
    My Bike was totalled and my life could have neen also but it wasn't, it's scary I felt like something was going to happen so I called each of my kids to tell them how proud of them I was and how much I loved them prior to taking off maybe I jinxed myself but I see it as making sure that my loved ones knew how special they are, I'm telling you all this so that maybe you will take the initivite and contact your mom or dad or brother or sister that you haven't spoken with for some stupid reason that you can't even remember anymore and tell them how much they mean to you, life is short and you never know when it will end, take time to let the ones you love know that you love them don't take it for granted that they know.
    For each of my friends here I thank you for your friendship and cherrish each and every one of you for your individuality and kindness. Thank you for being my friend I look forward to meeting each of you one day.

    Ponch
  • View author's info posted on May 12, 2006 16:35


    DubbleD write:
    STaRyDeR write:
    Dad is coming along well getting stronger everyday got to ride a couple times down there didn;t get the time to go meet up with Weenie tho not making it ot mrtyle beach but i got time off work for cut's party so I be there for sure

    HEY star, what's up ?? how you doin bro, glad to hear your dad is doing better,take care, DD

    hey DD nice to hear from ya things is well here June is getting close wooohoooooooo
  • View author's info posted on May 11, 2006 07:13


    STaRyDeR write:
    Dad is coming along well getting stronger everyday got to ride a couple times down there didn;t get the time to go meet up with Weenie tho not making it ot mrtyle beach but i got time off work for cut's party so I be there for sure

    HEY star, what's up ?? how you doin bro, glad to hear your dad is doing better,take care, DD
  • View author's info posted on May 10, 2006 10:40


    well I hope it works out good for you Ponch be nice to see you there
  • View author's info posted on May 09, 2006 08:53


    STaRyDeR write:
    Dad is coming along well getting stronger everyday got to ride a couple times down there didn;t get the time to go meet up with Weenie tho not making it ot mrtyle beach but i got time off work for cut's party so I be there for sure

    Star Gld to hear your dad's doing well good to see your post my friend, sorry you won't be at Myrtle I am trying to arrange it so that I can be at Cut's but things are not looking real well right now, I might only be at Cut's for Saturday evening and night.
  • View author's info posted on May 09, 2006 02:10


    Good to here your dad is doing good
  • View author's info posted on May 04, 2006 11:11


    Dad is coming along well getting stronger everyday got to ride a couple times down there didn;t get the time to go meet up with Weenie tho not making it ot mrtyle beach but i got time off work for cut's party so I be there for sure
  • View author's info posted on May 01, 2006 12:53


    STaRyDeR write:
    I am still reading these lol lets see how good bk gets things going maybe I will join back before fall and I wil lsee you in Virginia Kitty

    Yes you will.No myrtle beach for you ? and how the heck was fl? and yer dad?
  • View author's info posted on May 01, 2006 12:49


    Just passing thru and I thought I would leave you with a song from a band called Nickle Creek called When you come back down.
    Josh I'm thinkng about you every minute of every day.

    You got to leave me now, you got to go alone
    You got to chase a dream, one that's all your own
    Before it slips away
    When you're flyin' high, take my heart along
    I'll be the harmony to every lonely song
    That you learn to play

    When you're soarin' through the air
    I'll be your solid ground
    Take every chance you dare
    I'll still be there
    When you come back down
    When you come back down

    I'll keep lookin' up, awaitin' your return
    My greatest fear will be that you will crash and burn
    And I won't feel your fire
    I'll be the other hand that always holds the line
    Connectin' in between your sweet heart and mine
    I'm strung out on that wire

    And I'll be on the other end, To hear you when you call
    Angel, you were born to fly, If you get too high
    I'll catch you when you fall
    I'll catch you when you fall

    Bridge:
    Your memory's the sunshine every new day brings
    I know the sky is calling
    Angel, let me help you with your wings

    When you're soarin' through the air
    I'll be your solid ground
    Take every chance you dare

    I'll still be there
    When you come back down
    Take every chance you dare,
    I'll still be there
    When you come back down
    When you come back down
  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2006 07:21


    IKE2005 write:
    Miss Kitty we all love you did we upset them at the chatroom

    No yahoo just got greedy again is all....it wasnt me...lmao
  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2006 03:48


    I am still reading these lol lets see how good bk gets things going maybe I will join back before fall and I wil lsee you in Virginia Kitty
  • View author's info posted on Apr 27, 2006 01:47


    Miss Kitty we all love you did we upset them at the chatroom
  • View author's info posted on Apr 26, 2006 16:39


    Hey friends...Been awhile again here...How is everyone? Sorry Kitten that you've been sitting here by yourself it seems lately...Sure miss a lot of the regulars...you know...Bear, Weenie, DD, Star...oh well...I guess life moves on right?
    Well anyways...anyone care to join me in a drink? I'm enjoying a glass of red wine at the moment...
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