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Posted on Sat, Oct 29, 2005 11:30

"i had one guy tell me he was overwhelmed--he was seperated and going thru his divorce--part of the reason i try not dating newly divorced or newyly any status"
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Wow! I have had the same experiences and no more newly separated for me. Being an 'Intermediary' suxx up emotional, physical, and spiritual energy. Their needs may get met-But not the person helping with the 'new life' set up and angst!

Ready for the real deal- The grass is green enough where I am. Looks like Ireland to me...

DD
"i had one guy tell me he was overwhelmed--he was seperated and going thru his divorce--part of the reason i try not dating newly divorced or newyly any status"
~~~~~~
Wow! I have had the same experiences and no more newly separated for me. Being an 'Intermediary' suxx up emotional, physical, and spiritual energy. Their needs may get met-But not the person helping with the 'new life' set up and angst!

Ready for the real deal- The grass is green enough where I am. Looks like Ireland to me...

DD

  


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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 10:52

Weenie write:

there is nothing wrong with that brother, if you can't speak the truth with me, then don't speak at all


that's excellent! it's gonna be my new motto:
"if you can't speak the truth with me, then don't speak to me at all"



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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 08:36

Thanks, I know nothing is wrong with me, I DO know what I want. I,m actually glad it happened now before feelings got any deeper.
But I still think men (and women) should be honest from the start.. if they just want to get laid, then state it instead of playing with others feelings, I would rather be hurt by the truth then a bunch of lies.
Maybe HONESTY is a thing of the past?
Thanks, I know nothing is wrong with me, I DO know what I want. I,m actually glad it happened now before feelings got any deeper.
But I still think men (and women) should be honest from the start.. if they just want to get laid, then state it instead of playing with others feelings, I would rather be hurt by the truth then a bunch of lies.
Maybe HONESTY is a thing of the past?

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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 08:23

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notythots write:
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..



i don't know why people won't just step up to the plate and come clean with a situation..men or women. the line "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" is complete bullsshit. i have been told that i am too blunt. maybe i am or maybe i'm not but people always know where they stand with me.

there is nothing wrong with that brother, if you can't speak the truth with me, then don't speak at all

  


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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 07:34

notythots write:
Why are some of the men even on this site? I won,t say names but wish I could to warn some ladies that are seriously looking for the right 1. I met a man (as I choke to say man) everything was awsome, the rides, the fun we had, etc.. then without a word he was gone... no calls no messages nothing.. finally made contact with him.. his answer? LOL "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" (so we slowed it down to no communication at all) so anyways if your profile says your looking for LTR, then why do you blow us off when everything is good? I won,t lose sleep over this man but it sure has me confused..


i don't know why people won't just step up to the plate and come clean with a situation..men or women. the line "I liked you to much so I got scared and ran" is complete bullsshit. i have been told that i am too blunt. maybe i am or maybe i'm not but people always know where they stand with me.



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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 04:56

i have had the same thing happen!!! not so much this site but others

i had one guy tell me he was overwhelmed--he was seperated and going thru his divorce--part of the reason i try not dating newly divorced or newyly any status
i have had the same thing happen!!! not so much this site but others

i had one guy tell me he was overwhelmed--he was seperated and going thru his divorce--part of the reason i try not dating newly divorced or newyly any status



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Posted on Fri, Oct 28, 2005 03:40

My friend; From what I've seen, in many cases it's the "IF this one is good, then the next might be better" syndrome. Please don't think there's anything wrong with you, it's them.
My friend; From what I've seen, in many cases it's the "IF this one is good, then the next might be better" syndrome. Please don't think there's anything wrong with you, it's them.



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