Feeling a little down & out......need a little help from my friends Friendship

  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 09:03


    BC (HG) That's too funny. Good on you for rolling with the punches. If it was anybody but Mom, you'd owe them, but with Moms it just happens naturally, eh?

    Fndr, sorry you had a tough weekend, perhaps you were looking at things from a perspective that set yourself up for the blues. You seem to have been thinking of the good things about your ex and feeling envious of the other woman. What parts of your ex did you focus on while you were together, the good or the bad? Remember the new girl has to deal with all the things that created all the reasons you two aren't together. There is better out there for all of us, acceptance and a good dose of honest introspection will help us get where we want to be.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 08:53



    thunderunderme write:
    Oh honey...I was lonely as chit Sat. night too. Musta been something in the air.

    HGurl...OMGOSH thanks for sharing that. I was giggling. What a visual. Aunt Booty Cheek...lmal


    Glad I made you laugh!

    In another post somewhere on here...ol'Speedy Jerry called me 'Princess', and I politely corrected him, telling him it was HarleyGurl. I guess now it could be either HarleyGurl or BootyCheek.

    Guess the truth hurts sometimes!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 06:00


    fndr,
    well my friend, like I mentioned in that email; Your recently departed ex only thinks he's happy with this other lady. Late at night, he still thinks of you. So he may be in line for a long list of substitutes to replace you
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 04:59


    well it was a lonely Sat nite for alot of us BK women--did have a good day--rode JR all by myself for about 7 miles or so--yeahhhhhhhh

    yesterday Jenn and I went to rutgers to see the Dalai Lama- they gave him an honorary Doctorate and he gave a talk and answered some emailed in questions

    very soothing day
  • View author's info posted on Sep 26, 2005 00:21


    Oh honey...I was lonely as chit Sat. night too. Musta been something in the air.

    HGurl...OMGOSH thanks for sharing that. I was giggling. What a visual. Aunt Booty Cheek...lmal
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 21:38


    OK fnd...this should at least make you chuckle.

    Here I am, getting out of my car (my dream car "I" bought ON MY OWN...the one my "X" promised to get me. Anyway...) getting out of my car at a Mexican restaurant to have dinner with the family who has come to Austin to get away from Rita.

    OK, I start to head to the front door, then decide I should probably put the top up. I go back, swing the top to my car up, and ooops! Did I just feel my pants rip?

    Well, I feel the seams on my butt, and all seems intact. My little sister walks up and I turn and say "Did I just split my f'ing pants?" Mind you, I'm on the sidewalk at this point, and sticking my a*ss WAY out at her, attempting to try and embarrass HER.

    She screams "OH MY GOD!" Well, THAT answered my question.

    I didn't just split my pants, oh no, that would have been to easy. I ripped the whole left cheek out. From the pocket to the bottom of my a*ss...wide open.

    I'm wearing a thong.

    Therefore, white a*ss galore...just shining for the whole world to see. Well, maybe not the world, but every fool walking up the sidewalk to the restaurant. I seriously wanted to die. The rip was bigger than my hand. My hand would not cover my big fat rip! The whole freakin family is rolling on the sidewalk pointing.

    Luckily, Mom had a long shirt in the car, so I just changed shirts and proceeded with the day. Good ol'Mom.

    I don't hear the waitress when she asks "Ma'am what can I get you?", so my darling 5 year old niece says "Hey Booty Cheek, what are you eating?" Yes, in front of the whole table, plus the 3 tables within ear shot.

    There. Make you feel better? It should. Just doing whatever I can to help. Now smile, damnit.

    Love,
    Booty Cheek
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 20:52



    Bigbear2000 write:
    That's right, varider!
    Sorry, ladies. Just can't bring myself to show my bunny jammies. Might ruin my "dirty old man" image, that misskitty talks about. LOL

    nah nothing ruin that image...lmao
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 20:34


    Hey varider........thanks for the kind words......and yes that is me! That photo was taken in August (only a month ago)....but I'm still sittin' here alone.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 20:25


    That's right, varider!
    Sorry, ladies. Just can't bring myself to show my bunny jammies. Might ruin my "dirty old man" image, that misskitty talks about. LOL
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 18:24


    I don't think you'll be sitting home alone for long. Unless that pic is of someone else
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 13:45


    Hey HappyKitty.........its just a cloudy day and I'm feelin' a bit blue........tomorrow's a new day though.

    Thanks so much for the hug!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 08:45


    I KNOW what you're going thru. I'd like to think that when the time is right, we'll get our place in the sunshine too. Hang in there . . .
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 08:06


    thanks Roxie - I know you're right, but sometimes the blues just kinda grabs ya and holds tight. Wish you guys were closer - I need a big hug!!

    I hope your Sunday is better day too.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 04:57


    Thanks Bear - you are just too kind (and funny)!!

    Now ........lets see that photo of you in those jammies!!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 04:18


    Tell yuh what; Next time you are feeling like this, let me know and I'll send you a picture of me in my bunny jammies. Boy, just don't know how a picture can get sexier than that, with those long ears, cotton tail, feeties. Whew, makes me sweat just to think of it. : )
  • View author's info posted on Sep 25, 2005 03:34


    Hey. You stop that, right now. You are a lovely lady with a great personality. Any man would love to have a kind compassionate woman like you, in his life. So get out there and start flipping rocks over. Can't never tell which one has a prince under it. : )
    Besides, my old granny always said "The best way to get over a heartache is to party hearty and boogie til yuh puke."
    Okay. Maybe she didn't say that, but she should have. : )
    And the next time you are in the dumps, you write old papabear. He'll get you to smile.
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