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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:54

Lol...I agree wiht Jerry. You are a beautiful woman Fndr. And remember that thread you started about the apples.

Once you've tasted love,it is a hard thing to let go. It's only natural for you to hurt. Hun, all you have to do is walk out that door to feel wanted. I'm sure there is a long line of men just dying to get to know you.

Go out and have some fun!!!



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:52


jerryw13 write:
Fndr, sorry you had a tough weekend, perhaps you were looking at things from a perspective that set yourself up for the blues. You seem to have been thinking of the good things about your ex and feeling envious of the other woman. What parts of your ex did you focus on while you were together, the good or the bad? Remember the new girl has to deal with all the things that created all the reasons you two aren't together. There is better out there for all of us, acceptance and a good dose of honest introspection will help us get where we want to be.


MAJOR words of wisdom there, Jerry...thanks.

I find myself at times, "thinking" I am missing my ex, wondering what he's doing, all that crap.

THEN, I remember how he was gone all the time. If not with work, then to the deer lease or off fishing. I remember how I could dress to the hilt, and STILL have to ask "Well, how do I look?", just to get "You look good Babe" and that's without him even looking my way.

Then I think about that long distance ph*one bill I opened to find a month's worth of calls to another woman. Then I think about that trashy woman (and I'm not being ugly...she is pure trash) he's sleeping with while he's telling me he still loves me.

More and more I am finding myself wondering what the hell it was that attracted me to that loser in the first place.

We all get to that point at different times...but we all get there sooner or later.

Thanks again Jerry...you're so right!

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:03

BC (HG) That's too funny. Good on you for rolling with the punches. If it was anybody but Mom, you'd owe them, but with Moms it just happens naturally, eh?

Fndr, sorry you had a tough weekend, perhaps you were looking at things from a perspective that set yourself up for the blues. You seem to have been thinking of the good things about your ex and feeling envious of the other woman. What parts of your ex did you focus on while you were together, the good or the bad? Remember the new girl has to deal with all the things that created all the reasons you two aren't together. There is better out there for all of us, acceptance and a good dose of honest introspection will help us get where we want to be.

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 08:53


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Oh honey...I was lonely as chit Sat. night too. Musta been something in the air.

HGurl...OMGOSH thanks for sharing that. I was giggling. What a visual. Aunt Booty Cheek...lmal


Glad I made you laugh!

In another post somewhere on here...ol'Speedy Jerry called me 'Princess', and I politely corrected him, telling him it was HarleyGurl. I guess now it could be either HarleyGurl or BootyCheek.

Guess the truth hurts sometimes!

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 06:00

fndr,
well my friend, like I mentioned in that email; Your recently departed ex only thinks he's happy with this other lady. Late at night, he still thinks of you. So he may be in line for a long list of substitutes to replace you



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 04:59

well it was a lonely Sat nite for alot of us BK women--did have a good day--rode JR all by myself for about 7 miles or so--yeahhhhhhhh

yesterday Jenn and I went to rutgers to see the Dalai Lama- they gave him an honorary Doctorate and he gave a talk and answered some emailed in questions

very soothing day



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 00:21

Oh honey...I was lonely as chit Sat. night too. Musta been something in the air.

HGurl...OMGOSH thanks for sharing that. I was giggling. What a visual. Aunt Booty Cheek...lmal



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 21:38

OK fnd...this should at least make you chuckle.

Here I am, getting out of my car (my dream car "I" bought ON MY OWN...the one my "X" promised to get me. Anyway...) getting out of my car at a Mexican restaurant to have dinner with the family who has come to Austin to get away from Rita.

OK, I start to head to the front door, then decide I should probably put the top up. I go back, swing the top to my car up, and ooops! Did I just feel my pants rip?

Well, I feel the seams on my butt, and all seems intact. My little sister walks up and I turn and say "Did I just split my f'ing pants?" Mind you, I'm on the sidewalk at this point, and sticking my a*ss WAY out at her, attempting to try and embarrass HER.

She screams "OH MY GOD!" Well, THAT answered my question.

I didn't just split my pants, oh no, that would have been to easy. I ripped the whole left cheek out. From the pocket to the bottom of my a*ss...wide open.

I'm wearing a thong.

Therefore, white a*ss galore...just shining for the whole world to see. Well, maybe not the world, but every fool walking up the sidewalk to the restaurant. I seriously wanted to die. The rip was bigger than my hand. My hand would not cover my big fat rip! The whole freakin family is rolling on the sidewalk pointing.

Luckily, Mom had a long shirt in the car, so I just changed shirts and proceeded with the day. Good ol'Mom.

I don't hear the waitress when she asks "Ma'am what can I get you?", so my darling 5 year old niece says "Hey Booty Cheek, what are you eating?" Yes, in front of the whole table, plus the 3 tables within ear shot.

There. Make you feel better? It should. Just doing whatever I can to help. Now smile, damnit.

Love,
Booty Cheek

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 20:52


Bigbear2000 write:
That's right, varider!
Sorry, ladies. Just can't bring myself to show my bunny jammies. Might ruin my "dirty old man" image, that misskitty talks about. LOL

nah nothing ruin that image...lmao

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 20:34

Hey varider........thanks for the kind words......and yes that is me! That photo was taken in August (only a month ago)....but I'm still sittin' here alone.

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 20:25

That's right, varider!
Sorry, ladies. Just can't bring myself to show my bunny jammies. Might ruin my "dirty old man" image, that misskitty talks about. LOL



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 18:24

I don't think you'll be sitting home alone for long. Unless that pic is of someone else

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 13:45

Hey HappyKitty.........its just a cloudy day and I'm feelin' a bit blue........tomorrow's a new day though.

Thanks so much for the hug!

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 12:40

(((((fndrbny))))) hope you're feeling better today. It's a new day. I sympathize.


Papa Bear, I wanna see the pic of you in your bunny pajamas. Yep, sure do.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 08:45

I KNOW what you're going thru. I'd like to think that when the time is right, we'll get our place in the sunshine too. Hang in there . . .

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 08:06

thanks Roxie - I know you're right, but sometimes the blues just kinda grabs ya and holds tight. Wish you guys were closer - I need a big hug!!

I hope your Sunday is better day too.

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 07:09

Hey bigbear...I want to see you in those bunny jammies!
Thanks again my friend for blessing me.



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 07:08

I had the blues Saturday also. It rained all day and did'nt feel like doing anything. Times like these pass and the next day is better. You are beautiful! It hurts to see our ex with someone even if the love is not there between the two of you anymore, it still pricks your heart. Smile..you're worth it!



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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 04:57

Thanks Bear - you are just too kind (and funny)!!

Now ........lets see that photo of you in those jammies!!

  


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Posted on Sun, Sep 25, 2005 04:18

Tell yuh what; Next time you are feeling like this, let me know and I'll send you a picture of me in my bunny jammies. Boy, just don't know how a picture can get sexier than that, with those long ears, cotton tail, feeties. Whew, makes me sweat just to think of it. : )



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