Early warning signs "oops, wrong Person!" Romance

  • View author's info posted on Sep 13, 2005 11:53



    goddessinca write:
    how about this: you have been dating for 2 months, he says he loves you, and one day you see an email he is sending to another woman on BK. RUN!! He tried to sweet talk his way out of it and tried to weasel his way back into my life 3 more times - most recently a week ago. But fortunately her and I talked and he's busted!

    Goddess..you have NO idea how many times that's happened here! LOL
  • View author's info posted on Sep 13, 2005 11:46


    Good for you goddess!! Sorry to hear that you had to find out the hard way and hope you don't spend too much time hurting over this two timing jerk. Be glad you found now before you really got too involved.

    Nice to see the ladies watching out for one another.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 23:01



    LadyVulcan write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:

    Nodey write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:

    heritage99 write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:
    If all he gives you is his cell #

    LOL....wasn't MY cell!


    LOL!....House, cell, Job....should I continue.....LOL



    On the other hand,there are some I wish I had never given my home number to.It's all a crapshoot. I'm leery of giving up all my numbers to a man right away.


    Nodey...I'm sorry I told some guys my name!

    Now that's funny.... but you know what? I feel the same.


    I know lady V ...this is real sad that we have to feel this way....LOL
  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 22:38



    byndbtch write:
    Hey Double D........I went with a man, whatever, for 3 months, a long distance thing, met in Vegas once, drove right to Cal once and he was so in love with me and 3 weeks later I get the call. I dont love you like that no more. I have been sober for 21 days now!! yikes. that was goood for the 'ol ego. I was crazy about him.......there were signs, chose not to see them ya no?? loneliness can do that to ya. I dont get it!




    Lol! You sure we didn't have the same boyfriend?
  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 22:36


    Lol,yes ladies. I was so sure this creep did it,I called and confronted him with it. He told me he couldn't believe I had the audacity to accuse him of such a thing. When he said that,I let it rip. There was nothing I didn't call him. I have had money go missing before,but never accussed anyone of stealing it before this man.

    Lol..he had the nerve to email me 4 months later and try to talk to me.

    And when I thought I had seen it all.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 16:18



    DoubleDelight write:
    Nodey said"Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy. "
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    OMG! Nodey, what a date! Stealing from your purse. Now. that's lowdownN'dirty. Glad you noticed it early on and could make a quick exit.
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    Lady V- Good to see your posts. It's almost as good as chatting with you direct! I just got back from a 4 day meet up in S.L.O. We did the back roads to Cambria-some coast, was an awesome trip. No traffic, beautiful views, and plenty of curves.
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    Windspirit-love your dreamcatcher pic...
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    DD

    Glad you had an awesome trip, DD. WTG g/f. :)
  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 12:56



    :{{im gonna ignore the first one, but these ARE words of wisdom, {thanx}....

    ChiefTwoKicks write:

    An objective, open perspective should allow you to see the person for who they really are. Usually takes a few encounters to spot trends. And if you can't tolerate something, you'll see it before too long, people don't change colors all that easily.



    very well put there cheif..no need for further discussion i'd say..
  • View author's info posted on Sep 11, 2005 09:00


    Hey Double D........I went with a man, whatever, for 3 months, a long distance thing, met in Vegas once, drove right to Cal once and he was so in love with me and 3 weeks later I get the call. I dont love you like that no more. I have been sober for 21 days now!! yikes. that was goood for the 'ol ego. I was crazy about him.......there were signs, chose not to see them ya no?? loneliness can do that to ya. I dont get it!

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  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2005 20:00



    HarleyGurl35 write:

    Nodey write:

    Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy.



    Oh what a loser! Did you say anything or did he ever realize you knew he took the money?!? THAT is way low.

    I can't handle people who are sneaky and mischievious. If he played it out all cool or even denied it, I'm not sure I wouldn't have invested in a good year long subscription to a gay porn magazine....having it sent to his work, of course!

    NEVER think you've got one over on me!


    You are too funny Harley!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2005 19:42



    Nodey write:

    Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy.



    Oh what a loser! Did you say anything or did he ever realize you knew he took the money?!? THAT is way low.

    I can't handle people who are sneaky and mischievious. If he played it out all cool or even denied it, I'm not sure I wouldn't have invested in a good year long subscription to a gay porn magazine....having it sent to his work, of course!

    NEVER think you've got one over on me!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2005 19:35



    Bigbear2000 write:
    Sorry for ramblin. This is the most I've talked in years. : )



    Keep it up BigBear...we love hearing it!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2005 06:46


    Nodey said"Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy. "
    ~~~~~~~
    OMG! Nodey, what a date! Stealing from your purse. Now. that's lowdownN'dirty. Glad you noticed it early on and could make a quick exit.
    ~~~~
    Lady V- Good to see your posts. It's almost as good as chatting with you direct! I just got back from a 4 day meet up in S.L.O. We did the back roads to Cambria-some coast, was an awesome trip. No traffic, beautiful views, and plenty of curves.
    ~~~~~
    Windspirit-love your dreamcatcher pic...
    ~~~~
    DD
  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2005 01:08



    Nodey write:

    LadyVulcan write:
    DD, I too go by my gut instincts. I am a very good listener and I pick up a lot of what is being said during our conversations. I also notice body language and I see if his actions reflect the words that he speaks? Does he walk his own walk and talk his own talk? I have to share a recent date that I had. You will get a good chuckle over this one. See if you pick up on any warning signals, lol. After date #1 he decided he really wanted to see me again and soon. He called two days later and asked if I would like to have dinner. Sounded good???? WRONG! He said he didn't get paid until Friday (and it was only Wednesday) so he wasn't talking "go out" to dinner. He wanted to bring a couple of cans over to my house and make a batch of spaghetti. I could add some ingredients (like the meat.) And, he asked if he could use my shower when he was here because his place had no running water or electricity. Hmmmmmmm...... needless to say I graciously bowed out and decided he was NOT the right ONE for me. It is little hints like this... lol.




    Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy.

    Egads! Now that guy is the lowest of the lows, Nodey. We really know how to pick em, don't we????? Well from what I see things are really looking up for you, girl. That is sooooooooooooo neat! I wish you the both the best.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 10, 2005 01:04



    WINDSPIRIT50 write:

    Nodey write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:

    heritage99 write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:
    If all he gives you is his cell #

    LOL....wasn't MY cell!


    LOL!....House, cell, Job....should I continue.....LOL



    On the other hand,there are some I wish I had never given my home number to.It's all a crapshoot. I'm leery of giving up all my numbers to a man right away.


    Nodey...I'm sorry I told some guys my name!

    Now that's funny.... but you know what? I feel the same.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 09, 2005 15:50



    mojo2005 write:
    Saw a book that may help...I have not read...."How To Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved" (Hunter House)..by..Sandra Brown


    MoJo,
    I am going to take a little trip to a book store soon- I'm getting behind on my reading. Thnaks for the title-I'll check it out.
    DD
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 20:24



    Nodey write:

    LadyVulcan write:
    DD, I too go by my gut instincts. I am a very good listener and I pick up a lot of what is being said during our conversations. I also notice body language and I see if his actions reflect the words that he speaks? Does he walk his own walk and talk his own talk? I have to share a recent date that I had. You will get a good chuckle over this one. See if you pick up on any warning signals, lol. After date #1 he decided he really wanted to see me again and soon. He called two days later and asked if I would like to have dinner. Sounded good???? WRONG! He said he didn't get paid until Friday (and it was only Wednesday) so he wasn't talking "go out" to dinner. He wanted to bring a couple of cans over to my house and make a batch of spaghetti. I could add some ingredients (like the meat.) And, he asked if he could use my shower when he was here because his place had no running water or electricity. Hmmmmmmm...... needless to say I graciously bowed out and decided he was NOT the right ONE for me. It is little hints like this... lol.




    Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy.


    Damn!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 20:18



    Nodey write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:

    heritage99 write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:
    If all he gives you is his cell #

    LOL....wasn't MY cell!


    LOL!....House, cell, Job....should I continue.....LOL



    On the other hand,there are some I wish I had never given my home number to.It's all a crapshoot. I'm leery of giving up all my numbers to a man right away.


    Nodey...I'm sorry I told some guys my name!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 18:26



    LadyVulcan write:
    DD, I too go by my gut instincts. I am a very good listener and I pick up a lot of what is being said during our conversations. I also notice body language and I see if his actions reflect the words that he speaks? Does he walk his own walk and talk his own talk? I have to share a recent date that I had. You will get a good chuckle over this one. See if you pick up on any warning signals, lol. After date #1 he decided he really wanted to see me again and soon. He called two days later and asked if I would like to have dinner. Sounded good???? WRONG! He said he didn't get paid until Friday (and it was only Wednesday) so he wasn't talking "go out" to dinner. He wanted to bring a couple of cans over to my house and make a batch of spaghetti. I could add some ingredients (like the meat.) And, he asked if he could use my shower when he was here because his place had no running water or electricity. Hmmmmmmm...... needless to say I graciously bowed out and decided he was NOT the right ONE for me. It is little hints like this... lol.




    Lol...good call LadyV. Sounds like the date I had. I thought he was a really cool guy on the first date. Second date we went to his place so he could make me dinner. He stole money out of my purse while I went to powder my nose.

    Oh well,guess he had to find a way to pay for the groceries he had to buy.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 18:22



    WINDSPIRIT50 write:

    heritage99 write:

    WINDSPIRIT50 write:
    If all he gives you is his cell #

    LOL....wasn't MY cell!


    LOL!....House, cell, Job....should I continue.....LOL



    On the other hand,there are some I wish I had never given my home number to.It's all a crapshoot. I'm leery of giving up all my numbers to a man right away.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 10:28



    crazy69 write:
    Now, some of us only have cells for our only communication. We use cable for our computer and live on the road. Why pay for a land line when you never are around it to use it?

    And for the record, that's the only number girls give. So, how does that work. Girls are exempt????

    No girls aren't exempt. I only have a cell p-h-o-n-e my cable provides me internet access. I move around a lot as a traveling nurse and it just isn't worth it to get a land line
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