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Posted on Thu, Sep 01, 2005 22:42

I was in a 13 marriage and my husband also worked out of town during most of the time. He was gone during the week. He came home late Friday night or early Saturday morning, dumped out his dirty clothes so I could do his laundry for the next week. He turned on his ball games and barked if anyone would touch the dial even though he slept in his recliner in front of it. Sunday was his golf day with his Brother. He left to head back to the job right after golf. One day it hit me, if I have to live alone I want it to be my choice. I was tired of spending holidays, Birthdays, special days alone. I also found out he was cheating so there was really no reason for me to stay. Roxie asked in another forum, would I go back? H*E*L*L*O no! I believe relationships are for sharing, and that means doing things together and being a part of each others life. I won't tolerate less. I also will not tolerate lying and cheating. Ok, there's my two cents.

  


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Posted on Wed, Aug 31, 2005 03:16

Tink said:
BAWK BAWK Come on, spit it out Darlin, inquiring minds need to know!!
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Ok Tink, here goes: Bad manners, table and otherwise. Personally it melts me when a man shows respect in old-fashioned ways. It melts me to have my door opened, to see him stand up when I come back to the table, thoughtful, creative acts. No more mute, selfish, low-libido, cold-hearted, unaffectionate-user types for this girl.
A strong man, secure in his masculinity, knows how to be loving, warm, sensuous and protective in a non-AZZholy way.
Oh-and BORING! Boredom is death...
Fun, funny, passionate and a ZEST for life is the one for me. I'm almost 49- next week!- and been through it, the good and the bad. It's all a learning experience. Wiser now, hoping for good choices from here on out, with my eyes and heart open!
DD

  


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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 17:49

Tink.....bite me!!!! (_:_) !! he he he



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 16:53


Weenie write:
Hmmmm, what I won't tolerate....lying, cheating, being self centered, no manners, being inconsiderate....oh, one more...not willing to go side by side through the rest of my life, considering me as important as they consider themselves...done!



But , but, but...Miss Weenie, much as I like the idea of side by side, my bike don't have a sidecar!!!

  


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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 12:41


softail1999 write:
I can think of sooo many things but ya know, For right now I just cant post them here. It just may have been the things that one person did.. I can think of a no brainer though.. So tell me, whats with the toilet seat thing and who says it should be down all the time... Just doesnt make sense to me.. Im getting tired of having to lift it up all the time.. SO I will not put up with having to put down the toilet seat all the time!!!!



the toilet seat has a lid--not only a seat--i have always kept mine lid down due to pets!!!!!!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 10:14


Bigbear2000 write:
Yup. I agree with you, Weenie. I believe that "two tgether" should be a team. But in my case, yuh have to treat me like an old Harley: Choke the s**t outta me and kick me a few times, before I start. : )


Not a problem bigbear.....that could be arranged with any of us !!!

  


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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 10:03

Yup. I agree with you, Weenie. I believe that "two tgether" should be a team. But in my case, yuh have to treat me like an old Harley: Choke the s**t outta me and kick me a few times, before I start. : )



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 08:48


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Weenie write:
Hmmmm, what I won't tolerate....lying, cheating, being self centered, no manners, being inconsiderate....oh, one more...not willing to go side by side through the rest of my life, considering me as important as they consider themselves...done!


WOW Weenie!


In the case of all of us ladies..been there done that!! Just had to get it out of my system!!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 08:21


Weenie write:
Hmmmm, what I won't tolerate....lying, cheating, being self centered, no manners, being inconsiderate....oh, one more...not willing to go side by side through the rest of my life, considering me as important as they consider themselves...done!


WOW Weenie!

  


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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 06:52

Hmmmm, what I won't tolerate....lying, cheating, being self centered, no manners, being inconsiderate....oh, one more...not willing to go side by side through the rest of my life, considering me as important as they consider themselves...done!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 06:35

what i won't tolerate....someone that would give up the fight of life...i know we all have down times, and your partner should be by your side-holding your hand-supporting you, not ignoring you.... someone who can look you in the eye and lie, it is so much eaiser to forgive a truth then a lie..oh yea also i can't stand it when your out with a guy and he is checking everything out in front of you (don't want any chit here, i know it is only human to check the others out), but doing it so blantely make them look like as azz, and the women look like an azz for being with them, so just hand over the keys-i'll take myself home- go and enjoy-i think that is so disrespectful....



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 06:02


DoubleDelight write:
Welllll.....



BAWK BAWK Come on, spit it out Darlin, inquiring minds need to know!!



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Posted on Tue, Aug 30, 2005 01:57

Welllll.....

  


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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 20:02


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softail1999 write:
I can think of sooo many things but ya know, For right now I just cant post them here. It just may have been the things that one person did.. I can think of a no brainer though.. So tell me, whats with the toilet seat thing and who says it should be down all the time... Just doesnt make sense to me.. Im getting tired of having to lift it up all the time.. SO I will not put up with having to put down the toilet seat all the time!!!!

Well ill put it down but gonna put it down when im done too.That never bothered me...but chewing with yer mouth open I wont tolerate...and finishing yer meal b4 i even get few bites ...now thats a pig!!



Ooohhh...I hate when you go through the "It doesn't matter to me, where do YOU want to go?".

If YOU asked me out, have a freakin plan or something. Don't say "Let's get together Saturday night..." then leave it at that. When Saturday night gets here, suggest something or have an idea!

Whooo...sorry. Got a little wound up on that one!

  


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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 19:50


softail1999 write:
I can think of sooo many things but ya know, For right now I just cant post them here. It just may have been the things that one person did.. I can think of a no brainer though.. So tell me, whats with the toilet seat thing and who says it should be down all the time... Just doesnt make sense to me.. Im getting tired of having to lift it up all the time.. SO I will not put up with having to put down the toilet seat all the time!!!!

Well ill put it down but gonna put it down when im done too.That never bothered me...but chewing with yer mouth open I wont tolerate...and finishing yer meal b4 i even get few bites ...now thats a pig!!



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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 18:39

lying, cheating and making plans for me. come home after a hard days work would like to rest piddle around the house no run here run there not for me



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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 17:33

Won't tolerate lying, I let it slide far too much and after a while I learned to resent it and not trust her. If she lies about the little things, then the big lies aren't far behind.

I know this will sound odd, but I won't tolerate bad table manners either. I was raised to chew with my mouth closed and not scrape my teeth on my fork, so it's a pet peeve of mine, but it quickly grows into an irritation.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 17:02

I wont tolerate a man that wont do things with my daughter and I.My last bf of 3 years i think took us out to eat twice and always had me do things with her and he didnt want to be bothered.I just blew it off but after we split i realized it WAS a big deal.Made me have to have seperate lives almost.one with her and one with him.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 14:00

What I won't tolerate...calling me negative names...causing negative tension. ONLY peace from here on out.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 29, 2005 12:49

Well said, Gurl. I must admit that I have a tendency to "chose wrong", when it comes to relationships. But of course, I'm the happy dummy, until reality hits me between the eyes. Ya give and ya give, but when it comes time for your turn to receive, it just ain't gonna happen. At least, not with them. So it's hotdogs for one. : )
Not complainin you understand. H e l l I got the road, a good machine, the wind in my face and three job portable job skills so I don't starve. Shoot. Was life any better, I'd be illegal ! LOL



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