"I won't tell you I love you unless I do, and if I do, that doesn't depend on whether we work out or not."
Zee...I couldn't agree with this statement more! I've said these three words very rarely in my life and have meant them each time I've said them! Unconditionally and wholeheartedly! The degrees of love are different..as are relationships between men and women...we need to be sure what status we hold in the other persons life...it's all so friggin mind boggling! lol I long for the days of my Barbie dolls and summer days of nothing but play time to worry about...being a woman is the hardest job I've ever had!
Your spelling is very confusing. But to me it reads as if you're offering your sister up for a swap meet? Not sure if you mean that or if you need assistance with your post and profile. If it is correct that you are looking for some fun with your sister may I suggest one of the incest dating sites?
Ok, got truncated (ouch, careful with that axe Eugine) ...
The best friendships come out of what we felt as people for each other, and that includes lovers that didn't work out, but still loved each other.
Ok, this is totally sappy now, but it's fair dinkum real. Nobody can betray me until we're really "lovers" and that doesn't always mean sex. Ok, this is too weird, why I am posting this I have no idea.
Ride on, into the sunset, and never look back at those who didn't stay with you till the end.
Be careful how easily or not the feeling of "betrayal" comes on ... we try to hook up with folks and I'm sure most of us are hoping to meet someone that goes on to become something special, well I know I am anyway, and I doubt I'm alone in this at all.
We meet someone, where is it headed afterwards ? Sometimes we have no idea (at least I don't B) ... if the attraction and chemistry was not "wow !" in that first meeting, maybe we need to look elsewhere.
Maybe we need to go aout again. If we agree to go out again and in the meantime, another "chance" turns up ... well sometimes you have to invetigate if your current situation is slow, or maybe not working out. Maybe this new one will be the "wow !" and we all owe it to ourselves to experience that if the angels decide that's what we're going to get a shot at.
I am not into two timing or anything of that sort. I don't think it's a good idea at all. But if I'm not committed to a person on the MUTUAL understanding or attraction that says "OMG we have to give this a shot !" then both of us have every right to go out and look for exactly that.
It just gets kind of screwy when you're in the 1 time/2nd time phase, it may not have been "wow !" but you're not saying "see you later never again" either. That's where it gets hard to manage, and my advice is to not sweat developments, or rely on them, until you know each other a lot better and reach a point where you can, actually, be betrayed.
When you're not really ann item, it's hard to consider a change in planes a "betrayal" unless someone outright lied to you. I don't mean IMPLIED a lie, assumptions are dangerous things and you should try not to make any assumptions, they are almost always wrong. I mean an outright lie, where what was said is not what was done.
I won't tell you I love you unless I do, and if I do, that doesn't depend on whether we work out or not.
hello i read ure think and ure profile i want ride with u ,i have older sister we r open minded and we do many fun , so if u like we can chat or talk in detail,s we will want swing with honest good cpl with so i saw ure thinks then i write u now waiting ure comments ,if u like then also send me ure mail address
As long as there are computers (and the people that use them) that can "hide" facts about themselves, there are those who will want to try and mask their true identies for whatever reason. Those of us that put honest responses to the questions will therefor always be questioned because of a few. But take sometime and get to "really" know the person on the other end and yea, get a phone number. It is much harder to lie via a phone.
Lady's sound like we have a repeat of the "BuilderBoy" syndrome!! Hope she didn't give you a hard time because we have every right to be at this sight..
I am single and assume everyone that I meet here is available.. If you are not, don't play us...we stick together and you will be found out!!
You make stupid sound smart
hd glad you were found out..
And Wife to stupid give his boys a good yankin and remind him who they belong to...Blue is a nice color..
If that doesn't get his attention...and it might take more considering...he has to sleep sometime!!!=.)
That must have been an interesting phone call. Keep smiling though. Most folks want the same thing, for someone to be straight up. If that's what you want that's the way you got to be so most of us will be honest. Laugh at the ones that aren't because eventually their old ladies will find out and kick their a**. Good luck. Peace.
oh dont i know the married ones>>. i thought of posting each and everyone of them. guys tsk tsk - there are some major clues girls and i think we know them.. did the wife rip into him? i think perhaps showing him to the door would be appropiate.. god married men get a grip!!
I am sorry you had a bad experience and thats for "outing" this gentleman. My regrets from the male side to his wife and you. I hope she dumps him and I hope you don't clam up. Some rules I read somewhere about dating and meeting on-line.
Do ask for a day time number
Do ask for a evening number
Do in the early stages of the actual dating ask to see where he lives.
Look for tell tale signs. Such as mostly unavailable on the phone. If he has a hard time getting away. Seems to work odd hours. A tan line where his ring should be.
Most of all, don't hang your heart out too fast for a smooth talker.
Any yes, there are some good guys right in your backyard.