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Posted on Thu, Sep 15, 2005 23:55

LadySundial: Liars: What a great thread idea!
I learned the ropes pretty quickly here on Bk. This guy lied about a lot of things. Said he would fly me to meet him and take me to a great concert and big bike meet. Then said he didn't have the money. Said he would pay me back for 1/2 of the air-fare after I got together with him. I could stay with a female friend of his, so I could feel 'safe'. Then, a few days later, said that we would have to stay in the same bed at her house. Then, a few days later, said it became inconvenient to have her pick me up at the airport, so I could take the bus and meet him--and stay at his 'house', in his bed. Then he said he would be a gentleman, then he changed that to: well, we'll see what happens. Something was smelling not very funny.
Do you hear a changing tune here? Ever heard this particular melody?
So, I said "No thanks!"
He probably would have paid me back for 1/2 of the flight cost and taken me to the concert and the meet. We would probably have laughed and had a good time on the bike and with other biker friends. Got to give him that.
I emailed him afterwards asking for him to be a man and at least acknowledge that he really tried to 'work me' so he could get me in his BED. He didn't bother to answer me on that topic, but became so rude on a bike topic that I blocked him from my alo IM.
I sent one more email asking nicely for the same acknowledgement....and he didn't bother to answer that one at all.
Then he made a joke on a reply to a very, very, vulnerable post of mine, offering no compassion.
Oh, he also said early on in one of our first chats that he could relocate to where I live and wondered if he could live in my house. I am NOT the only woman he has worked in the same way.
Another woman I know personally was asked if he could live in her house, and invited to meet him for the first time and stay in his 'house' for the visit. She met him and decided not to stay. He tore her a new one on the fone. There is a lot more to these stories I could say-but won't. To protect the innocent and to maintain anonymity.
He is probably a straight-up good guy for his friends, and honest in other ways. He sure gave me a quick education! Now, I know what ~lines~ to beware of. I am grateful to him for opening my eyes to the games men can play.
One person's friend is another woman's sad tale. PredatorsRnot4me.


DD

  


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Posted on Wed, Sep 14, 2005 16:21


Glad2Bme write:
A cheat LIAR and a CHEAT will ALWAYS be a liar and a cheat. I found my boyfriend of 6 years recently on this site while still seeing me. He signed up last November and I never had a clue. Now, he says he is just playing games. Yea, with me and every other woman on this site. Watch out for Mikes in NJ


I'm really sorry that happened to you but I think that is one of their favorite sayings. They need to get real with themselves before they can get real with anyone else!...Hang in there!......Mo

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 12:26


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beatitudes_5 write:

angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

Oh Baby Girl..you have NO idea!!!! NONE!!!

we hearing 6..............

Dayum skippy! 6 and headed down fast...I'm leaving on a jet plane, don't know if I'll be back again, leaving on a jet plane...la lal la



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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 12:18


angelrider800 write:

beatitudes_5 write:

angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

Oh Baby Girl..you have NO idea!!!! NONE!!!

we hearing 6..............

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 07:12


beatitudes_5 write:

angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

Oh Baby Girl..you have NO idea!!!! NONE!!!

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 06:42


angelrider800 write:
"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'M SO EXCITED TO FINALLY BE MEETING YOU GIRL..............

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 06:33

"COUNTDOWN-------------7 "

WOOOOOOOOOOOO FRIGGIN HOOOOOOOOOOO!

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 12, 2005 06:25


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People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!


He's just a big ole bear that you want to
sqeeeezzzzzeeee!!!!

And I will next Friday! Hey Doc..you bringing the purple people eater to Logan to fetch my azz??? Please say yes...would love to zip through Beantown on the back of that bad boy!

COUNTDOWN-------------7



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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 11:06


WINDSPIRIT50 write:

Weenie write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:

bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!


He's just a big ole bear that you want to
sqeeeezzzzzeeee!!!!

And I will next Friday! Hey Doc..you bringing the purple people eater to Logan to fetch my azz??? Please say yes...would love to zip through Beantown on the back of that bad boy!

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 10:27


Weenie write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:

bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!


He's just a big ole bear that you want to
sqeeeezzzzzeeee!!!!

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 11, 2005 07:22


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i just have to laugh when these morons spend there time on sites like these when they probably have a very loving wife waiting for them ..if your that freakin desperate quit playing mind games with these wonderful woman on here and go get yourself a 20 dollar lady .lol my god man get a life.wow i had to rewrite this 7 times because they said my language was bad i've seen a heck of alot worse.lol

Hmmmmmmmmm Biker hon you mean like atttt or like ma*l, Biotch, or something like sick fukkkk lmao.. ya just have to know how to get around the words.. I know ask DOC he will show you.. lol

  


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i just have to laugh when these morons spend there time on sites like these when they probably have a very loving wife waiting for them ..if your that freakin desperate quit playing mind games with these wonderful woman on here and go get yourself a 20 dollar lady .lol my god man get a life.wow i had to rewrite this 7 times because they said my language was bad i've seen a heck of alot worse.lol

BikerBear..slap a pic up sweetie so all of us BK Babes can see the face of the man that knows we're wonderful! Oh, and thanks Honey! You're a stand up kinda man!

  


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WINDSPIRIT50 write:

bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!


Amen to that MO!



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i just have to laugh when these morons spend there time on sites like these when they probably have a very loving wife waiting for them ..if your that freakin desperate quit playing mind games with these wonderful woman on here and go get yourself a 20 dollar lady .lol my god man get a life.wow i had to rewrite this 7 times because they said my language was bad i've seen a heck of alot worse.lol

just don't say....a-t.....that seems to be the biggie lately......thank-you for what you said.....

  


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bikeman542a write:

Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!


You all ready tarnished it....you can't hide how caring you really are!!!!!

  


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Posted on Wed, Aug 10, 2005 20:05


Weenie write:

bikeman542a write:

WINDSPIRIT50 write:
People actually think that they can get over..and I found that the only way they could was if I allowed it......It still amazes me the energy they will put into it....as a grown woman I've listened to plenty and please do they think you are really that stupid or desperate that you will hang on to their every word.....I love the wisdom that comes with age!


What I've seen on this board more then anywhere else is how not only the fact that you ladies get your chit together more and more as you age but also that I have never seen so many ladies over 40 that are absofukkinlutely smokin!! Y'all are fukkin amazing!!

I think it is all radiating from the inside out. I'm thinkin that the fact that you all got the need for the wind has something to do with your soul that is very profound in a number of ways!! But to all the ladies on here that know me all I can say is keep doin what you're doin because you are all some smokin hott ladies and more importantly ya even are great friends. BK has a ton of pain in the azz issues with the site, but they have attracted some world class people that has become an amazing extended family, that obviously includes all the brothers on here, and I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know, and in some cases get close to all of you!!

God where da fuk did all that mushy chit come from?? I gotta go ride

peace to all my brother's and sister's on here!

Yea I know I hijacked another thread!!

WTF???

HI HO SILVER!!


keep the mushy stuff coming then Doc, you seem to be a truly wonderful man.


Shhh don't tell nobody dat chit!! I have a reputation to tarnish!!!

  


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Posted on Wed, Aug 10, 2005 17:40


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Angelrider800 & Beatitudes_5:

Thank you for your kind words. The heart can be a confusing thing sometimes and hopefully we'll all cross paths with someone who enhances our lives without confusing it.

Both people need to be comfortable with themselves, who they are, what they want -- and know in their own heart that they are ready to be with one person without having to wander away to others in order to fill some void.

In the meantime, for those who need to play then hopefully they'll seek out the appropriate playmates and leave the rest of us alone.

Live, Laugh and Love -- Life Is Too Short

your welcome luvNWind..........isn't it sad how some people need to hurt other people just to have some sort of excuse for their existance...........the bad get weeded out, and the good remain......we are all looking for someone i think who can stand beside us, not in front or behind and to accept us as we are.........were pulling for you..........

Yeah...what my Bea said!

  


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Posted on Wed, Aug 10, 2005 16:41

i just have to laugh when these morons spend there time on sites like these when they probably have a very loving wife waiting for them ..if your that freakin desperate quit playing mind games with these wonderful woman on here and go get yourself a 20 dollar lady .lol my god man get a life.wow i had to rewrite this 7 times because they said my language was bad i've seen a heck of alot worse.lol



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Angelrider800 & Beatitudes_5:

Thank you for your kind words. The heart can be a confusing thing sometimes and hopefully we'll all cross paths with someone who enhances our lives without confusing it.

Both people need to be comfortable with themselves, who they are, what they want -- and know in their own heart that they are ready to be with one person without having to wander away to others in order to fill some void.

In the meantime, for those who need to play then hopefully they'll seek out the appropriate playmates and leave the rest of us alone.

Live, Laugh and Love -- Life Is Too Short

your welcome luvNWind..........isn't it sad how some people need to hurt other people just to have some sort of excuse for their existance...........the bad get weeded out, and the good remain......we are all looking for someone i think who can stand beside us, not in front or behind and to accept us as we are.........were pulling for you..........

  


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Posted on Wed, Aug 10, 2005 15:22

Angelrider800 & Beatitudes_5:

Thank you for your kind words. The heart can be a confusing thing sometimes and hopefully we'll all cross paths with someone who enhances our lives without confusing it.

Both people need to be comfortable with themselves, who they are, what they want -- and know in their own heart that they are ready to be with one person without having to wander away to others in order to fill some void.

In the meantime, for those who need to play then hopefully they'll seek out the appropriate playmates and leave the rest of us alone.

Live, Laugh and Love -- Life Is Too Short

  


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