I naturally beautiful woman that is intelligent, and carries herself with confidence and style without arrogance will catch my attention every time.

Of course if every time she goes out in a faded pair of blue jeans the market price of denim jumps 10 points, that's definitely a bonus as well.

Check their pulse and see their bank account

well since the advent of online dating I would say the ability to write and speak in coherent sentences...lol. Since that is usually the first contact. Then (as a recent new guy can tell you) I look at the eyes. If the eyes smile with the mouth it is a very good thing. If there is humor and honesty in them even better. After that... the hands...love good hands cause they can say so much...even more than words at times. But over all it is the entire make up of the person that keeps me attracted.

I START WITH HANDS,ALWAYS,NEXT IF HE PASSES THAT ONE IS EYES THEN THE BOSEPHUS IN THAT ORDER ,I LIKE EYES THAT TWINKLE

there you are..........

Doc--we all need someone to take care of us at times---whether it is to make chicken soup when we have the flu or because life chit hits us in the head--the thing is it should be shared
there are times i need to be pampered--and there are times i like to pamper

no relationship is 100/100 all the time it can be 130/70 this week and next week 65/135--you never know--but when it is lopsided all the time is when there is a problem

luv ya sweetie--and you will be ok

I agree with Seeme on this one Doc...learn to let go of the things you cannot change, not everyone can or wants to be "saved". Those that don't need anything from you other than you, for who you are, are the ones you should have in your life. It's a one day at a time thing Doc....The path to a wonderful life is going through it side by side...not one in front of the other constantly having to clear the way...kind of a United front. To many ask you to come to their rescue...learn to say no babe....learn to say no.

Man Seeme ya hit a nerve on that one!! When I was a kid my mother used to tell me to stop being everyone's Knight in shining armor!! Chit sorry Ma, I still ain't learned!! But I am workin on it!!

Questioning it?? Yea I've been doin that for a couple of weeks!! I'm gettin better, or like I said as normal as I get!!

Doc that is the knight in shinning armor thing--damsel in distress--we all aren't in distress even if we are going thru a rough time in the present

sooooooooooooo look for the one who is whole dearest Doc--you don't need to complete someone--you need to find the woman that will compliment you--she is out there and you will find her

As long as you are not questioning your own sanity yet, I think you will be ok!

typical!

I'm beginning to think that what attracts me is if a woman is completely insane!!!!

THUNDERUNDERME SAID....."IF HE'S BREATHING" I LOVE IT!!!! (BUT DOES BREATHING REALLY MATTER...ALL THE TIME???)LOL

Kitten I was in Scotland this past may visiting my family, had a new kilt made in the family tarten.

I look at the hands first,i have a thing about hands ,if they pass i look at the eyes next and if both of those are a go look out cheeksss

i so agree with your idea havein a friend that u can talk to is a wonderful gift and friends last longer than lovers do

now havein all your teeth is a good thing but your eyes tell the story your a hunk

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It starts with an overall appearance not any one thing.Eye contact will let me know if there is any reason to go any futher.The eyes tell so much about people!