definately the eyes ,,,if she has trustfull sweet eyes i go from there a knockout smile helps ,,,if she takes care of herself thats an added bonus but through out the years i've realized if someone doesnot take care of there teeth they don't take care of there body..just my opinion..the body is inportant for the initial physical attraction ,but you really need to sit down and get to know that person then thats when you can tell if you have anything or everthing in comman.i've met alot of the so called super hot gals with a chip on there shoulder like there gods gift to men ....no thank you dolls average to a lil above or even a lil under average is were you meet the best /honest/caring/truthfull ..ladys out there ...don't get me wrong i'm sure alot of you gorgeous gals have alot to offer but i just have not met many that did';nt care more about there self and there looks than anything ewlse ...
just my self obsewrvation
Its the Eyes and a smile that I look for.
now as for security and self assurance.
I lost all that after 20 years and getting Burnt, finding her cheating..
I lost all self confidence, and ambition to do anything. that does not make me a bad guy. just one that had his Heart Ripped out.
razar65 write: OK, this may sound corny, but I went through a marriage class years ago with my ex. The class was titled, "Men are Buffalo's and Women are Butterflies". It talked about the actual physical and psychological differences between us. Men are like Buffalo's in that we're just out there grazin, and we're happy with that. A 30 mile an hour wind doesn't bother us. Throw a 15 lb bowling ball at us, we'll look up and go back to grazing. On the other end, a 30 mi an hr wind can kill a butterfly. Drop a 15 lb bowling ball on a butterfly and you'll crush it. Our words and actions are like the wind and the bowling ball. Made me thing. I decided that in real life, buffalo's and butterfly's don't mix too well. I tried to start thinking like a butterfly would. For example, one year for Valentines Day, I couldn't decide on the perfect card. So I bought 12 of them, and gave her one on the 14th of every month to let her know she was my Valentine all year. What did I get in return? Two years later she was having an affair on me. Guess I wasn't very smart because I stuck around and tried to work it out. 10 years later, she does it again, so she got the boot. Worked out well for me in the end, but back to the subject at hand. I think women want security. Someone they know will be there. Someone strong, and not neccesarily always physically, but mentally and emotionally. Men on the other hand want a "cheerleader", and not neccesarily looks or body wise. We want someone to encourage us, even when we fall flat on our face. Someone who when we mess up, and we are pretty good at that, that will still look at us with passion in their eyes and we will know we're still number one to them. Sound too cheesy? Just my take on it.....
Wow what a nice guy card on the 14th of every month sorry it didn't work out but I'm sure the right one will come along for you