Would you go back to your ex? Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 12:27



    BabyGirl4You831 write:
    Roxie Honey everyone has said their peace.. I am going to say mine.. Bless everyone for helping her out.. I am sooooooooooooooooo sorry about what happened.. Your topic is about going back ot the ex?? Well I did.. Not moved back but thought we would get back together as you saw in some of my posts he is NOT the same person he was when I first met him amd I am NOT the same person I am when he met me.. BK has changed me alot EVERYONE on here has opened my eyes and made me see that I am worth more.. Someone is out there for me I am not sure who but like the saying goes.. "THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE"... So in answer No honey I have gone back and it DOES NOT work.. Once again my heart goes out to you.. May your heart heal fast... As mine is still healing.. Peace and serenity to you sis..


    yes babygirl, you are worth a whole lot more and you deserve better....keep going the way you are going...got your back g/f
  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 12:01


    Roxie Honey everyone has said their peace.. I am going to say mine.. Bless everyone for helping her out.. I am sooooooooooooooooo sorry about what happened.. Your topic is about going back ot the ex?? Well I did.. Not moved back but thought we would get back together as you saw in some of my posts he is NOT the same person he was when I first met him amd I am NOT the same person I am when he met me.. BK has changed me alot EVERYONE on here has opened my eyes and made me see that I am worth more.. Someone is out there for me I am not sure who but like the saying goes.. "THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE"... So in answer No honey I have gone back and it DOES NOT work.. Once again my heart goes out to you.. May your heart heal fast... As mine is still healing.. Peace and serenity to you sis..
  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 10:58


    Oh Roxie girl, I am so so sorry. I hate to see you like this. ((((roxie)))), that is as close as I can get to give you a hug honey. Let me know please if I can help in any way, I have a good shoulder and I listen well.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 10:27


    I couldn't agree more with what everyone has said. We all know the feeling sweetie, you're definitely not alone. It DOES get easier, time is funny that way. I think Bear is on to something with the "expect the worse" attitude, a close male friend of mine told me those exact words when I walked in your shoes. At the time I thought it was just another negative thought I didn't need, I'm growing to like it now. Hold that head high, I have a feeling you're not the only one hurting over this right now.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 10:19


    Roxie I too went through this several months back. it wasn't a ex-wife it was the distance. Now I'm fine and better off for it. His loss, my gain. Take care babe and things will get better. Wish I could take your pain away. Each time makes me tougher.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 09:50


    sorry to hear things didn't work out for you. that's chance you take when you open up. personally i think it's a chance worth taking. i'm willing to risk a few heartaches in order to find the one that will make it all worth while. hopefully you will find your "one" soon. as for getting back with the ex, it would never happen. i know that probably sounds pretty typical. but if you knew the story, u'd understand.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 07:59


    well id go back to my ex depending on the situation on how you broke up and what not however most relationships end for a reason so it makes you wonder.....

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  • View author's info posted on Aug 25, 2005 01:41



    Roxie0215 write:
    I hope you all will bear with me as I type, because my heart is broken. If you read the forums and post regulary then you probally know I met someone from BK about 5 months ago. We fell hard and we fell fast. Yes, it was a long distance relationship, so some might say it was doomed from the start.
    He flew me to see him in July and we had a great time, we made plans for him to come and visit me next. Well, he was supposed to have arrived last night, instead I got that dreaded ph8ne call, the one that you can tell by the sound of his voice that it isn't gonna be pretty. Bottom line is, his exwife had started calling, seems the kids (her kids) are out of the house and now she's lonely and wants him back. He says he is still in love with her and chose her instead of pursuing me. OUCH!!! Needless to say, I cried but maintained my dignity, told him goodbye and cried myself to sleep. Today was pretty rough, but I'll be fine.
    I really thought I had found someone special (well, he found me)Just goes to show, you never can tell.
    Thanks everyone for listening, just had to get this off my chest and wanted some feedback.

    Well unfortunatley i did that twice and it wsnt twice as fun either, so i sympathize with you roxie but you know what it's his lost and someone else's gain remember that, you go girl,
  • View author's info posted on Aug 24, 2005 21:51


    I would go back to my ex. I still have some shiznit in that house I want back.
  • View author's info posted on Aug 24, 2005 21:07


    Roxie, Sweetie...I, like everyone else here, know what you're going through! I just went through it not long ago..it does heal and you do move forward! This man does not deserve you! You're far too good for him! This IS his loss, not yours! I promise you, the right one for you is coming to you! When he does, you'll know the minute you read/hear his name!

    Chin up lil Sister! Positive thoughts...You deserve so much more than he could ever give you!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 24, 2005 19:04


    Roxie,

    My heart goes out to you! You seem like such a sweet and sincere gal it is hard to hear. I pray your dreams will comfort you as well as all your family here on BK. (of course we are your neighbors too)

    Just know while the lust may be strong enough to pull them together there is a reason it went south and he may come your way again. Make sure you stand your ground and keep your dignity. You deserve someone that can really see the treasure you are and not sacrifice it on a whim.

    Be strong till you get the healing done.

    Peace be with you!
  • View author's info posted on Aug 24, 2005 18:44



    Roxie0215 write:
    I hope you all will bear with me as I type, because my heart is broken. If you read the forums and post regulary then you probally know I met someone from BK about 5 months ago. We fell hard and we fell fast. Yes, it was a long distance relationship, so some might say it was doomed from the start.
    He flew me to see him in July and we had a great time, we made plans for him to come and visit me next. Well, he was supposed to have arrived last night, instead I got that dreaded ph8ne call, the one that you can tell by the sound of his voice that it isn't gonna be pretty. Bottom line is, his exwife had started calling, seems the kids (her kids) are out of the house and now she's lonely and wants him back. He says he is still in love with her and chose her instead of pursuing me. OUCH!!! Needless to say, I cried but maintained my dignity, told him goodbye and cried myself to sleep. Today was pretty rough, but I'll be fine.
    I really thought I had found someone special (well, he found me)Just goes to show, you never can tell.
    Thanks everyone for listening, just had to get this off my chest and wanted some feedback.

    Roxie I am so sorry I know you were really excited about him.....if you need anything let me know. And HELL NO I wouldn't go back to my ex....there are reason's he is my ex
  • View author's info posted on Aug 24, 2005 18:13


    awwwww Roxie... wish we could make it all better for ya...
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