Ah Roxie i am so sorry girl, but I know how you feel. I had a great guy go back to his ex on me. She was trying to weasel her way in the whole time we where together. It mixed him up and in the end i lost him to her. Hurt like hell! His loss, my gain. You'll get through it girl! chin up!
Truthfully though, after years of examination I sometimes do find myself missing what we shared. The first 10 years were very good and the last two were very bad.
I wouldn't go back because life has to move forward and there is too much pain under that bridge. But honestly I do miss what we had and if I really believed that we could have that again? Of course I would do it. I know that isnt true though.
My X and I are better friends now that we are divorced. We have always loved each other but we quit liking each other. We didn't divorce until our daughter graduated from high school. One day we just looked at one another and decided we didn't like who the other person had become and split up. He took me out for an early birthday dinner and we had a great time just being friends. I am very lucky to still be friends and we like each other again. As for going back I don't think that is possible on a number of levels. I am certainly not the woman he married 25 years ago, I am now a strong, fiercely independent and confident woman.
Well, sh!t happens. Doesnt it?
It's not the best all the time.
I hate playing ph-one tag.
I call 2 times a day and get 1 return call a week on average.
Would I go back to my ex? Only for the funeral.
Will I stay the present course? Until the wind blows a different direction for her.
Being what you are isnt enough for others sometimes, only for you.
Accept change when you have to. Change what you can to do what you have to.
When it's all done, your still you and the cards that your playing. But atleast the tables been cleared.
Outlaw_Woman write: Take the X back? well I almost did last week until he opened his mouth and that killed it for me. If he would only sit in the corner, not speak and look pretty everything would be peachy. LOL
angelrider800 write: hey Doc...speaking of chaps!!!! LOL Weenie did good going through all kinds of company, still under construction from last year AND sitting through the winds and rain of Wilma, not to mention power outage for days....I got my beautiful chaps today! GAWD, are they nice!!! Fit perfectly, just long enough for these long legs too! Man, you shop good Brother...now for Christmas.......just kidding...but I did want to say thank you and tell you they're perfect...I'll get a pic with them on and let you see soon, k? Love you Brother...thanks for the wonderful gift!!!!
If they made ya smile then they're worth a hundred times what I paid for em!!!