This is my first posting so please bear with me. I would never go back with my x husband. Nor would I go back with my x boy friend. There are reason why things didn't work out in the first place there is no use to get back together to break up again
HI I'am sorry to here what happen but it happens. I'am not mr know it all or any thing of the kind. I believe most of the people should go read statictisc about relationalships and you will see they are only good for 6 years and women file for divorced about 75% of the time. My first guestion is Why did you divorce? Some states divorce rate is 83% so if you think you will find a soul mate based on statictics do not even go there. 85% of divorce today is because it is legal and no fault. You might better stay single and just date until you do not like the other person and dump them and move on. That is the way of the usa today and now be real to your self. X are X for a reason but did you fail some where along the way also. I know there is some people that do not see it that way but relationship are for only 6 years for the average person which could be the other person always. Please every one do not band me from here I'am just stating the facts and they are all on the enternet just see for your self.
I TOTALLY AGREE AN X IS AN X FOR A REASON AND SHOULD STAY IN THE PAST THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT KNOW HOW TO TREAT PEOPLE PROPER AND WITHOUT THE HASSLE WE CAN ALL MISS THE THINGS THAT ONCE WERE BUT THINK OF THE FUTURE AND WHAT WE CAN HAVE THE NEXT PERSON MIGHT JUST BE THE SOUL MATE YOU HAVE BEEN SEARCHING ALL YOUR LIFE FOR WELL THATS WHAT I TELL MYSELF IT DOESNT STOP ME MISSING THE CUDDLES AND HUGS AT NIGHT BUT HEY THATS WHAT TEDDIES ARE FOR LOL
Truthfully though, after years of examination I sometimes do find myself missing what we shared. The first 10 years were very good and the last two were very bad.
I wouldn't go back because life has to move forward and there is too much pain under that bridge. But honestly I do miss what we had and if I really believed that we could have that again? Of course I would do it. I know that isnt true though.
My X and I are better friends now that we are divorced. We have always loved each other but we quit liking each other. We didn't divorce until our daughter graduated from high school. One day we just looked at one another and decided we didn't like who the other person had become and split up. He took me out for an early birthday dinner and we had a great time just being friends. I am very lucky to still be friends and we like each other again. As for going back I don't think that is possible on a number of levels. I am certainly not the woman he married 25 years ago, I am now a strong, fiercely independent and confident woman.
Well, sh!t happens. Doesnt it?
It's not the best all the time.
I hate playing ph-one tag.
I call 2 times a day and get 1 return call a week on average.
Would I go back to my ex? Only for the funeral.
Will I stay the present course? Until the wind blows a different direction for her.
Being what you are isnt enough for others sometimes, only for you.
Accept change when you have to. Change what you can to do what you have to.
When it's all done, your still you and the cards that your playing. But atleast the tables been cleared.
Roxie0215 write: Doc....plans are underway, in the meantime, can you hug him for me?
Well, maybe I can get my room mate to do that for ya, I'm thinkin I don't want to horrify the man!!!
Hey....pick me...pick me!!!! I am a good hugger!!!!woooofreakinhooooo!!!
Hey, let me jump on that HUG train.... Hugs are GOOD!
You can have a hug anytime LadyV!!
Just wear the chaps!!
hey Doc...speaking of chaps!!!! LOL Weenie did good going through all kinds of company, still under construction from last year AND sitting through the winds and rain of Wilma, not to mention power outage for days....I got my beautiful chaps today! GAWD, are they nice!!! Fit perfectly, just long enough for these long legs too! Man, you shop good Brother...now for Christmas.......just kidding...but I did want to say thank you and tell you they're perfect...I'll get a pic with them on and let you see soon, k? Love you Brother...thanks for the wonderful gift!!!!
If they made ya smile then they're worth a hundred times what I paid for em!!!
Remember the ride and me on the Virago?? Nuff said then!