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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 21:56

AngelP...sorry, pretty much s*u*c*k*s, huh?
Have fun at the bash. I know you've heard it all, but time heals all wounds.

Good luck in love and life!

  


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Posted on Sat, Aug 27, 2005 19:54

Roxie...my heart goes out to you. I have not had much time to read the messages on here but now I have all the time in the world....very same thing that happened to you...happened to me...just a few days ago. Got my heart ripped out....he went back to his wife. I've cried for 2 days...not eaten for 3...but hope Char's OHIO bash will help heal this broken heart...

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 26, 2005 18:18

Bea, Smile, Softail....Thank you so much for your kind words.

Everyone here has made this heartache a little more bearable. You have made me smile when I wanted to cry and made me realize that there are many ways of being loved.

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 26, 2005 17:15

Roxie,, I have also read what every one as written here to you.. Been wondering what to say to comfort you.. First time Im speechless.. cough,cough.. Ya know your loved!!!... Take Care....

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 26, 2005 15:40

Roxie, I'm so sorry for what you're going through right now & I've read everyone's thoughts & the words are very caring & comforting...It's so hard when you care for & love someone & you think this is it...he or she is the one...& then something like this happens or whatever else. There are two sayings that I read every day that as tough as it seems, I have to keep believing these words. "Patience...I will be rewarded" & "What is yours will come to you". From everything that I've read of what you've written on the Forum, you seem like a very caring, kind, loving, gentle soul. It is his loss for going back to his ex. From what friends tell me, they're an "ex" for a reason & going back to an "ex" for the most part doesn't work out. Hugs to you Roxie...Take care

  


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Posted on Fri, Aug 26, 2005 15:19

roxie....i have read what eveyone has written to you, and they are right....listen, you are a beautiful and funny women with so much ahead of you....i wish i had a magic wand to ease this pain of yours, it is the worse pain i think there is...i could go one about this and that, but please try to remember he was just another stone you had to remove to get to the top of the rock......all this, on hindsite, will make sence when you do meet the one you are to meet, and to know that without all your experiences of the past, he could never have come to be....i hope this made some sence....if there is anything you need, don't hesitate

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 21:10

Rozie, you are a smart woman!



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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 12:35


Roxie0215 write:
Thanks babygirl, weenie and others who have offered words of encouragement & kindness. I guess my "so called" Prince fell in love with his princess, but decided to go back to the Queen (which lives near by). I have come to the conclusion that I am worthy and I won't kiss a lot of frogs to find my prince, for he will ride up to me on his beautiful steel horse one day and notice what a treasure he's found!

My heart goes out to all the women & men who have broken hearts and to those who are on the mend. I think the hardest part is that I miss his voice, especially before falling asleep, I'm sure the memories will fade in time.

Remember: That which does'nt kill you, will make you stronger.


Amen Rox, always remember that



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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 12:33

Thanks babygirl, weenie and others who have offered words of encouragement & kindness. I guess my "so called" Prince fell in love with his princess, but decided to go back to the Queen (which lives near by). I have come to the conclusion that I am worthy and I won't kiss a lot of frogs to find my prince, for he will ride up to me on his beautiful steel horse one day and notice what a treasure he's found!

My heart goes out to all the women & men who have broken hearts and to those who are on the mend. I think the hardest part is that I miss his voice, especially before falling asleep, I'm sure the memories will fade in time.

Remember: That which does'nt kill you, will make you stronger.

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 12:27


BabyGirl4You831 write:
Roxie Honey everyone has said their peace.. I am going to say mine.. Bless everyone for helping her out.. I am sooooooooooooooooo sorry about what happened.. Your topic is about going back ot the ex?? Well I did.. Not moved back but thought we would get back together as you saw in some of my posts he is NOT the same person he was when I first met him amd I am NOT the same person I am when he met me.. BK has changed me alot EVERYONE on here has opened my eyes and made me see that I am worth more.. Someone is out there for me I am not sure who but like the saying goes.. "THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE"... So in answer No honey I have gone back and it DOES NOT work.. Once again my heart goes out to you.. May your heart heal fast... As mine is still healing.. Peace and serenity to you sis..


yes babygirl, you are worth a whole lot more and you deserve better....keep going the way you are going...got your back g/f

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 12:01

Roxie Honey everyone has said their peace.. I am going to say mine.. Bless everyone for helping her out.. I am sooooooooooooooooo sorry about what happened.. Your topic is about going back ot the ex?? Well I did.. Not moved back but thought we would get back together as you saw in some of my posts he is NOT the same person he was when I first met him amd I am NOT the same person I am when he met me.. BK has changed me alot EVERYONE on here has opened my eyes and made me see that I am worth more.. Someone is out there for me I am not sure who but like the saying goes.. "THERE IS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE"... So in answer No honey I have gone back and it DOES NOT work.. Once again my heart goes out to you.. May your heart heal fast... As mine is still healing.. Peace and serenity to you sis..

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 10:58

Oh Roxie girl, I am so so sorry. I hate to see you like this. ((((roxie)))), that is as close as I can get to give you a hug honey. Let me know please if I can help in any way, I have a good shoulder and I listen well.

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 10:27

I couldn't agree more with what everyone has said. We all know the feeling sweetie, you're definitely not alone. It DOES get easier, time is funny that way. I think Bear is on to something with the "expect the worse" attitude, a close male friend of mine told me those exact words when I walked in your shoes. At the time I thought it was just another negative thought I didn't need, I'm growing to like it now. Hold that head high, I have a feeling you're not the only one hurting over this right now.

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 10:19

Roxie I too went through this several months back. it wasn't a ex-wife it was the distance. Now I'm fine and better off for it. His loss, my gain. Take care babe and things will get better. Wish I could take your pain away. Each time makes me tougher.



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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 09:50

sorry to hear things didn't work out for you. that's chance you take when you open up. personally i think it's a chance worth taking. i'm willing to risk a few heartaches in order to find the one that will make it all worth while. hopefully you will find your "one" soon. as for getting back with the ex, it would never happen. i know that probably sounds pretty typical. but if you knew the story, u'd understand.



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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 08:13

Bear...I know to open your heart again to love , is also opening it up to pain.
Such is life...
Thanks for your comment, you're such a sweetie!

  


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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 07:59

well id go back to my ex depending on the situation on how you broke up and what not however most relationships end for a reason so it makes you wonder.....

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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 07:48

Thanks lonewolf....



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Posted on Thu, Aug 25, 2005 01:41


Roxie0215 write:
I hope you all will bear with me as I type, because my heart is broken. If you read the forums and post regulary then you probally know I met someone from BK about 5 months ago. We fell hard and we fell fast. Yes, it was a long distance relationship, so some might say it was doomed from the start.
He flew me to see him in July and we had a great time, we made plans for him to come and visit me next. Well, he was supposed to have arrived last night, instead I got that dreaded ph8ne call, the one that you can tell by the sound of his voice that it isn't gonna be pretty. Bottom line is, his exwife had started calling, seems the kids (her kids) are out of the house and now she's lonely and wants him back. He says he is still in love with her and chose her instead of pursuing me. OUCH!!! Needless to say, I cried but maintained my dignity, told him goodbye and cried myself to sleep. Today was pretty rough, but I'll be fine.
I really thought I had found someone special (well, he found me)Just goes to show, you never can tell.
Thanks everyone for listening, just had to get this off my chest and wanted some feedback.

Well unfortunatley i did that twice and it wsnt twice as fun either, so i sympathize with you roxie but you know what it's his lost and someone else's gain remember that, you go girl,



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Posted on Wed, Aug 24, 2005 21:51

I would go back to my ex. I still have some shiznit in that house I want back.



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