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Posted on Wed, Nov 02, 2005 23:09

hell no-not unless desert sands froze over and camels came running home would i go back babe.



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Posted on Wed, Nov 02, 2005 15:13

I'd never go back with an ex...no matter what type of ex that was...but that's just me!



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Posted on Wed, Nov 02, 2005 09:26

Thanx shadow....things ARE looking up



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 16:07

Hey, just remember, like the open road...and no reverse gear on a bike (unless you're a Winger)...life is a constant move forward.

Always look forward with hope and don't look back. Remember the lessons from the past so you don't repeat them, but keep moving forward.
Hey, just remember, like the open road...and no reverse gear on a bike (unless you're a Winger)...life is a constant move forward.

Always look forward with hope and don't look back. Remember the lessons from the past so you don't repeat them, but keep moving forward.



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Posted on Tue, Nov 01, 2005 08:07

Roxie,I just went through the samedeal-the ex(his) was there in his face-using the kids (not his) for leverage.It all but destroyed me when he called to tell me he still loved her and was going back. She's cheating on him to boot and he doesn't even see it!! Would I go back to him? NO. Now that I see he had the power to destroy me I wouldn't take the chance. I've taken that back now-the hold he had on my heart-and I'm keeping it.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. What have you learned from that though? I guess thats what really counts as now it is part of your make up so to speak.
Roxie,I just went through the samedeal-the ex(his) was there in his face-using the kids (not his) for leverage.It all but destroyed me when he called to tell me he still loved her and was going back. She's cheating on him to boot and he doesn't even see it!! Would I go back to him? NO. Now that I see he had the power to destroy me I wouldn't take the chance. I've taken that back now-the hold he had on my heart-and I'm keeping it.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. What have you learned from that though? I guess thats what really counts as now it is part of your make up so to speak.



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Posted on Tue, Oct 11, 2005 18:23

Sorry you had to go through such an experience. That really SUXED.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND how some people can be such jerks, but worse yet it leaves a bad impression and puts people on the defensive.

  


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Posted on Tue, Oct 11, 2005 07:26

I've had my heart broke a few times and each time I look back and think of all the time I wasted moaping around depressed over it, it's not easy shaking it off but that's what you have to do, sooner the better, find things to do, it will take your mind off it, worst thing to do is laze around thinking about it, find someone new if it's just to hang out with, hang with your friends, but don't cry on there shoulders, pray, meditate, lift your spirit however you can and someone will notice you!



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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 16:54


smile2005 write:

Roxie0215 write:
Thank you for the support ladies....Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good. I know My prince will come one day...good things come to those that wait and in the meantime enjoy each day and focus on other things

You're welcome Roxie. I know what you're saying..."Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good." And like I mentioned before, "Patience...I will be rewarded." Which, boy...it gets tough. But you know what Roxie? I told myself I will never settle just so I'm not alone. No matter how lonely I get. That's what friends are for - to get us through tough & lonely times...Hang in there Roxie. You're a very sweet woman & one day it'll be his lucky day when he finds you.



You both are right on. Patience has to be the hardest part for me; I also try to keep myself busy so I don't notice.

As far as going back to an ex, there is only one that I would ever want to be with again. The rest are already forgotten . . . except the ones who keep pesting me of course (rolling eyes).



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Posted on Tue, Sep 13, 2005 08:55

Hot4Hogs...HI! First let me say It's good to hear from you, was wondering how you made out after the hurricane?
Glad you're safe

Secondly, I would like to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for the comment...WOW!...I really needed that today.
All's fair in love and war and it's the way we conduct ourselves that show true character. Thanx!

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 12, 2005 10:33


breezee write:
I think if things were good between two people, they would still be together? No? If I couldn't work things out with my ex back when, I really don't think it would work now! My belief is that if people in their late forties and mid fifties haven't got "it" by now, they will never get it! I am speaking emotionally. People for the most part, don't change. My ex was a 48, now a 53 year old, angry, immature little boy, and I believe him to be the same today.

Breezieeeee........hi ya Sis...good to see ya here posting right along with the rest of us! How ya doing????

  


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Posted on Mon, Sep 12, 2005 09:30

I think if things were good between two people, they would still be together? No? If I couldn't work things out with my ex back when, I really don't think it would work now! My belief is that if people in their late forties and mid fifties haven't got "it" by now, they will never get it! I am speaking emotionally. People for the most part, don't change. My ex was a 48, now a 53 year old, angry, immature little boy, and I believe him to be the same today.

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 08, 2005 18:43


Roxie0215 write:
smile2005....Thank you for your kinds words. I know in my heart what kind of guy I want in my life, Let's NOT settle.

You're welcome, Roxie...I know in my heart too what kind of guy I want in my life...I wish it would happen sooner but it's not. I'm going to be divorced 5 years in January & I'm tired of being alone. But not that tired to settle. I'm known lovingly by my friends as a "bum" cuz I'm always off & doing something. I love being busy & doing things but you know what? It's lonely coming home alone. I do have my 12 year old cat, DC (Damn Cat), that I adopted from a friend back in May, but it's not the same. So I keep myself busy & away from home. I believe, & so do my friends, that God has a plan & when the time is right, it'll happen. Being patient is hard though. The hard thing too is that I have dated & I'm getting tired of getting my heart hurt. So Roxie? We'll make a pact - we will NOT settle! Take care my friend...If you'd like to keep in touch by email, my email address is smile underscore (_) 53178 at the yellow smiley place. I hope that made sense? Trying to get it past the BK sensors...Hugs & keep strong my friend...

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 08, 2005 15:36

smile2005....Thank you for your kinds words. I know in my heart what kind of guy I want in my life, Let's NOT settle.

  


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Posted on Thu, Sep 08, 2005 13:56


Roxie0215 write:
Thank you for the support ladies....Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good. I know My prince will come one day...good things come to those that wait and in the meantime enjoy each day and focus on other things

You're welcome Roxie. I know what you're saying..."Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good." And like I mentioned before, "Patience...I will be rewarded." Which, boy...it gets tough. But you know what Roxie? I told myself I will never settle just so I'm not alone. No matter how lonely I get. That's what friends are for - to get us through tough & lonely times...Hang in there Roxie. You're a very sweet woman & one day it'll be his lucky day when he finds you.

  


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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 20:29


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angelrider800 write:
I gotta have my say here...in the beginning of a break up, the first thought is "what did I do wrong" or "why wasn't I good enough"..in the end the first thought is "good riddence to bad rubbage"! I'm glad for each and every EX that I have in my PAST! My future holds so much more for me than the past ever offered...even if I spend it alone! I can always hold MY head up with pride and never look back...as for my "EX" going back...LOL...he wouldn't even be given that option! I've moved forward and left all thoughts of that sh!t behind me...it was rough, but thank God and ALL the powers that be for my friends and loved ones that really count! Go back??? Naw...there is nothing "back there" worth any effort at all! Loser...even the "perfect woman" is laughing at you! LOL Lata....One Happy Angel!




Spoken like a truly spirited and feisty woman, Angel. Cheers!

Thanks HK...I like to think I'm the better of the equation when it comes to EX's and for the most part, I am! Users and losers...lol...



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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 19:03

Thank you for the support ladies....Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good. I know My prince will come one day...good things come to those that wait and in the meantime enjoy each day and focus on other things



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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 18:12

Could I go back ....yes.I can say that now ...he dont look so bad compared to the guys i have dated lately.But you keep yer head up roxie ... we will have our man who is meant for us....one day!

  


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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 15:07


angelrider800 write:
I gotta have my say here...in the beginning of a break up, the first thought is "what did I do wrong" or "why wasn't I good enough"..in the end the first thought is "good riddence to bad rubbage"! I'm glad for each and every EX that I have in my PAST! My future holds so much more for me than the past ever offered...even if I spend it alone! I can always hold MY head up with pride and never look back...as for my "EX" going back...LOL...he wouldn't even be given that option! I've moved forward and left all thoughts of that sh!t behind me...it was rough, but thank God and ALL the powers that be for my friends and loved ones that really count! Go back??? Naw...there is nothing "back there" worth any effort at all! Loser...even the "perfect woman" is laughing at you! LOL Lata....One Happy Angel!




Spoken like a truly spirited and feisty woman, Angel. Cheers!

  


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Posted on Wed, Sep 07, 2005 14:46

I gotta have my say here...in the beginning of a break up, the first thought is "what did I do wrong" or "why wasn't I good enough"..in the end the first thought is "good riddence to bad rubbage"! I'm glad for each and every EX that I have in my PAST! My future holds so much more for me than the past ever offered...even if I spend it alone! I can always hold MY head up with pride and never look back...as for my "EX" going back...LOL...he wouldn't even be given that option! I've moved forward and left all thoughts of that sh!t behind me...it was rough, but thank God and ALL the powers that be for my friends and loved ones that really count! Go back??? Naw...there is nothing "back there" worth any effort at all! Loser...even the "perfect woman" is laughing at you! LOL Lata....One Happy Angel!

  
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Posted on Tue, Sep 06, 2005 22:31

You just hang in there Roxie.....we all get disappointed....but the love and caring our friends give us gets us through this journey and makes it bearable....till the time passes where it truely doesn't matter anymore!

and to return to an ex....they are called an ex for a reason!......Mo

  


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