Would you go back to your ex? Relationship

  • View author's info posted on Oct 11, 2005 07:26


    I've had my heart broke a few times and each time I look back and think of all the time I wasted moaping around depressed over it, it's not easy shaking it off but that's what you have to do, sooner the better, find things to do, it will take your mind off it, worst thing to do is laze around thinking about it, find someone new if it's just to hang out with, hang with your friends, but don't cry on there shoulders, pray, meditate, lift your spirit however you can and someone will notice you!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 13, 2005 16:54



    smile2005 write:

    Roxie0215 write:
    Thank you for the support ladies....Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good. I know My prince will come one day...good things come to those that wait and in the meantime enjoy each day and focus on other things

    You're welcome Roxie. I know what you're saying..."Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good." And like I mentioned before, "Patience...I will be rewarded." Which, boy...it gets tough. But you know what Roxie? I told myself I will never settle just so I'm not alone. No matter how lonely I get. That's what friends are for - to get us through tough & lonely times...Hang in there Roxie. You're a very sweet woman & one day it'll be his lucky day when he finds you.



    You both are right on. Patience has to be the hardest part for me; I also try to keep myself busy so I don't notice.

    As far as going back to an ex, there is only one that I would ever want to be with again. The rest are already forgotten . . . except the ones who keep pesting me of course (rolling eyes).
  • View author's info posted on Sep 12, 2005 10:33



    breezee write:
    I think if things were good between two people, they would still be together? No? If I couldn't work things out with my ex back when, I really don't think it would work now! My belief is that if people in their late forties and mid fifties haven't got "it" by now, they will never get it! I am speaking emotionally. People for the most part, don't change. My ex was a 48, now a 53 year old, angry, immature little boy, and I believe him to be the same today.

    Breezieeeee........hi ya Sis...good to see ya here posting right along with the rest of us! How ya doing????
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 18:43



    Roxie0215 write:
    smile2005....Thank you for your kinds words. I know in my heart what kind of guy I want in my life, Let's NOT settle.

    You're welcome, Roxie...I know in my heart too what kind of guy I want in my life...I wish it would happen sooner but it's not. I'm going to be divorced 5 years in January & I'm tired of being alone. But not that tired to settle. I'm known lovingly by my friends as a "bum" cuz I'm always off & doing something. I love being busy & doing things but you know what? It's lonely coming home alone. I do have my 12 year old cat, DC (Damn Cat), that I adopted from a friend back in May, but it's not the same. So I keep myself busy & away from home. I believe, & so do my friends, that God has a plan & when the time is right, it'll happen. Being patient is hard though. The hard thing too is that I have dated & I'm getting tired of getting my heart hurt. So Roxie? We'll make a pact - we will NOT settle! Take care my friend...If you'd like to keep in touch by email, my email address is smile underscore (_) 53178 at the yellow smiley place. I hope that made sense? Trying to get it past the BK sensors...Hugs & keep strong my friend...
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 13:56



    Roxie0215 write:
    Thank you for the support ladies....Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good. I know My prince will come one day...good things come to those that wait and in the meantime enjoy each day and focus on other things

    You're welcome Roxie. I know what you're saying..."Besides getting lonely sometimes, life is good." And like I mentioned before, "Patience...I will be rewarded." Which, boy...it gets tough. But you know what Roxie? I told myself I will never settle just so I'm not alone. No matter how lonely I get. That's what friends are for - to get us through tough & lonely times...Hang in there Roxie. You're a very sweet woman & one day it'll be his lucky day when he finds you.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 07, 2005 20:29



    Happykitty47 write:

    angelrider800 write:
    I gotta have my say here...in the beginning of a break up, the first thought is "what did I do wrong" or "why wasn't I good enough"..in the end the first thought is "good riddence to bad rubbage"! I'm glad for each and every EX that I have in my PAST! My future holds so much more for me than the past ever offered...even if I spend it alone! I can always hold MY head up with pride and never look back...as for my "EX" going back...LOL...he wouldn't even be given that option! I've moved forward and left all thoughts of that sh!t behind me...it was rough, but thank God and ALL the powers that be for my friends and loved ones that really count! Go back??? Naw...there is nothing "back there" worth any effort at all! Loser...even the "perfect woman" is laughing at you! LOL Lata....One Happy Angel!




    Spoken like a truly spirited and feisty woman, Angel. Cheers!

    Thanks HK...I like to think I'm the better of the equation when it comes to EX's and for the most part, I am! Users and losers...lol...
  • View author's info posted on Sep 07, 2005 18:12


    Could I go back ....yes.I can say that now ...he dont look so bad compared to the guys i have dated lately.But you keep yer head up roxie ... we will have our man who is meant for us....one day!
  • View author's info posted on Sep 07, 2005 14:46


    I gotta have my say here...in the beginning of a break up, the first thought is "what did I do wrong" or "why wasn't I good enough"..in the end the first thought is "good riddence to bad rubbage"! I'm glad for each and every EX that I have in my PAST! My future holds so much more for me than the past ever offered...even if I spend it alone! I can always hold MY head up with pride and never look back...as for my "EX" going back...LOL...he wouldn't even be given that option! I've moved forward and left all thoughts of that sh!t behind me...it was rough, but thank God and ALL the powers that be for my friends and loved ones that really count! Go back??? Naw...there is nothing "back there" worth any effort at all! Loser...even the "perfect woman" is laughing at you! LOL Lata....One Happy Angel!

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  • View author's info posted on Sep 06, 2005 22:31


    You just hang in there Roxie.....we all get disappointed....but the love and caring our friends give us gets us through this journey and makes it bearable....till the time passes where it truely doesn't matter anymore!

    and to return to an ex....they are called an ex for a reason!......Mo
  • View author's info posted on Sep 06, 2005 18:00



    Roxie0215 write:
    ....just some of the time...right?
  • View author's info posted on Sep 05, 2005 16:48


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    Well I must say restores my faith in all man kind...A man admitting hes wrong....



    Yes, well we're not all creeps, at least not all the time.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 05, 2005 07:14



    mhines191 write:
    Roxie, I have removed the post in question. I agree with you all, this was not the place for this. I do apologize to Roxie for causing her more grief than she has already been through.

    Well I must say restores my faith in all man kind...A man admitting hes wrong....
  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2005 12:09


    Roxie, I have removed the post in question. I agree with you all, this was not the place for this. I do apologize to Roxie for causing her more grief than she has already been through.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2005 11:10



    TNBrowneyes write:

    mhines191 write:
    I think some of you should ask Roxie about the guy she was dating in Mobile at the same time she was 'seeing' the guy from Tampa. Seems Roxie likes to live a double life. One at home and one on the road. Tell them who is the real owner of your Honda.........I dare you. And yes, I know all about getting your heart ripped out.



    Hey grey person. First & foremost, don't come here to trash one of our regulars. You don't have balls enough to show your face, yet you want to come here & spew crap. If you have something to say to Roxie, say it in private, but don't come here & expect those of us that consider her family not to stand to her defense. You aren't very much a man in my book if that is the path you want to take. Go back to the place were the grey non-people reside WHICH AIN'T HERE!



    dirty laundry gets aired out in private--not here in the forums!!!!!!!

    Roxie is a sister to us all here and life happens!!!!!!!

    we all meet ppl that aren't the ones for us immediately and believe that they might be--then we meet someone that the vibes are there at 1st

    so please take it to private quarters
  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2005 10:45


    Bigbear, the bike was not a gift, it was on loan to her so she could learn how to ride. I am the legal owner. Actually I do regret not being able to work things out with her, but there are only so many times you can forgive someone.

    I've had my say here and will now return to the place the grey people reside. If anyone else wants to take a shot at me, go ahead, just don't expect a reply.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2005 10:05


    Hey dude, a gift is a gift. In my opinion, you have no claim on the bike.
    As to the rest of it, not my business.
    Personally, I think you messed up by not tryin to work things out with this fine lady, but once again, it's not my concern.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2005 08:15


    Sorry I put that in wrong place that was meant for the guy trying to air his crap about Roxie...Keep it to yourself dude...
  • View author's info posted on Sep 04, 2005 08:12



    Roxie0215 write:
    I hope you all will bear with me as I type, because my heart is broken. If you read the forums and post regulary then you probally know I met someone from BK about 5 months ago. We fell hard and we fell fast. Yes, it was a long distance relationship, so some might say it was doomed from the start.
    He flew me to see him in July and we had a great time, we made plans for him to come and visit me next. Well, he was supposed to have arrived last night, instead I got that dreaded ph8ne call, the one that you can tell by the sound of his voice that it isn't gonna be pretty. Bottom line is, his exwife had started calling, seems the kids (her kids) are out of the house and now she's lonely and wants him back. He says he is still in love with her and chose her instead of pursuing me. OUCH!!! Needless to say, I cried but maintained my dignity, told him goodbye and cried myself to sleep. Today was pretty rough, but I'll be fine.
    I really thought I had found someone special (well, he found me)Just goes to show, you never can tell.
    Thanks everyone for listening, just had to get this off my chest and wanted some feedback.

    OMG..... here we go again someone trying to air dirty laundry on here. Hey buddy you got a problem with
    Roxie dont bring it on here to air keep it in private..Have some respect.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 01, 2005 21:55


    And to answer your question, would I go back to my ex? My ex is an ex for a reason. No need to go back and repeat that mistake, lol.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 01, 2005 21:51


    Awwwww Roxie, I am so sorry to hear this. I know how excited and happy you were. After reading everyones posts to you I have to agree. The guy just wasn't the right one for you and you surely deserved better, sweetie. Be glad that this happened now early into the relationship. Had several more months gone by it would hurt so much worse. He did you a favor, Roxie. I know it doesn't feel like it now, but your heart will heal and you will meet a guy who believes that the world rises and sets around you. It will erase all of the hurt that you feel in your heart, trust me. Take good care of you and you sound like you need a hug..... so (((HUG.)))
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