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Posted on Fri, Apr 28, 2006 09:55

Marzen759 write:
46andlooking write:
hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

Read the other threads. There are no good or nice guys here. Just ax murderers and people who want puppies. I love puppies. LOL


LMAO YES MARZEN KNOWS. XOXOXX



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 10:07

46andlooking write:
hi im new to this site and i just read the question for the ladies and now im asking the guys.
Is there not any guys out there who wants a good ol'lady. And who isnt gonna dump her after a year. It hurts when you give everything you have and then be told that he wants to be single again. Please tell me.

Read the other threads. There are no good or nice guys here. Just ax murderers and people who want puppies. I love puppies. LOL



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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 04:10

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My opinion, if I may, is that you have to be yourself and you must allow him to be himself as well, women tend to dig for information from men and then when he thinks its safe and exposes part of who he is with honesty, women will use the information against him or use it to make "herself" feel bad about how he feels about her.. we are not made the same... we do not think alike and that's okay. Once we realize that and quit trying to make them be just like "us" and quit trying to be what "we" think they "want" us to be instead of just who we are.. I think most women have a hard time handling the truth inside the man and most men know it and hide it. I believe its our own fault.. women are not very honest about their thoughts and we tend to act more pure than men. We are taught at a young age that girls are bad if they have sexual or impure thoughts..because of that we create images of our self to the opposite gender that make the man feel like he must be a deviant or something. Society has created a monster in a way. Men have a hard time being honest with us because we can not be honest with them!!! We play a role.. they can't live up to it. and in truth we do not live up to it either!!! We just do not talk about it and they do not dig for information about what we think.. Men take things for face value... women read a million things into every word.


WOW!! And brains, too! So, maybe I'm not just a perv, huh? HA! HA! HA! No, I'm a perv

We are ALL pervs!! Especially women in their 40's!! All the puritan acts, us women put on, is our own insecurity about what a man will think of us if he really knew the truth!! That's why women call each other sl@uts and tramps etc... They are all trying to make their halo glow and what better way than to point out something "dirty" in another woman. I have never heard men calling each other names and casting each other out of their click due to his promiscuity.. LMAO!!

Its also a way to control a man by making him think he's abnormal and he's hurting her... Its a bunch of crapola! By the way though, LOL men are mostly to blame for this phenomenon in women. The way you treat your male children vs. your female children and I say you because Men are the ones who set up the mores (sp) in our society. Albeit to protect the females but it still has its draw backs and this is probably the one that drives men insane the most I would imagine.. lol

BTW, thanks for the comment, I have an occasional moment of enlightenment! I think its called "advancing age!"

  


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Posted on Wed, Apr 26, 2006 00:21

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My opinion, if I may, is that you have to be yourself and you must allow him to be himself as well, women tend to dig for information from men and then when he thinks its safe and exposes part of who he is with honesty, women will use the information against him or use it to make "herself" feel bad about how he feels about her.. we are not made the same... we do not think alike and that's okay. Once we realize that and quit trying to make them be just like "us" and quit trying to be what "we" think they "want" us to be instead of just who we are.. I think most women have a hard time handling the truth inside the man and most men know it and hide it. I believe its our own fault.. women are not very honest about thier thoughts and we tend to act more pure than men. We are taught at a young age that girls are bad if they have sexual or impure thoughts..because of that we create images of ourself to the opposite gender that make the man feel like he must be a deviant or something. Society has created a monster in a way. Men have a hard time being honest with us because we can not be honest with them!!! We play a role.. they can't live up to it. and in truth we do not live up to it either!!! We just do not talk about it and they do not dig for information about what we think.. Men take things for face value... women read a million things into every word.

WOW!! And brains, too! So, maybe I'm not just a perv, huh? HA! HA! HA! No, I'm a perv

  


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Posted on Fri, Mar 03, 2006 01:40

THAT WORKS BOTH WAYS THERE ARE MANY WOMEN OUT THERE THAT PLAY THE FIELD ASWELL AS MEN AND WE PROBABLY ALL WANT SOMEONE WE CAN LOVE AND TRUST SOMETIMES ITS HARD TO SORT OUT THE PLAYER FROM THE REAL WOMEN BUT HEY WE WILL GET OVER IT IN TIME AND WHO KNOWS THERE MIGHT BE SOME REAL PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT WANT THE SAME



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Posted on Tue, Feb 28, 2006 06:21

You just meet the wrong. type of men. Why would a guy dump someone who teats him right? And, why would a woman stay with a guy who didn't treat her the same? She should dump him.



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Posted on Mon, Feb 27, 2006 19:05

HI is there any one out there for you? yes but it is going to take alot of searching. Even in Canada it is the same as it is here. I have cuz that lives near you. Remember if a ex-wife has divorced he husband for no good reason that person is going to do just what has been happening to you. Look at the satictics on divorce it on the enternet and read all you can and you will get the answer you are looking for. ITS ON THE ENTERNET ARE YOU NOT ON THE ENTERNET????



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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 18:15

well im not sure the extent of all requested but the wipe me beat me make it hurts is fun as long as its not meant and done in the right way.like wet noodles whipped cream and soft care.otherwise i dont believe in bodily injury.
men get the same also, for uncalled for reasons. seems to be excuses either way.
frankly if we are happy with whom we are with and what we are there is no use to extend to other people as long as both know and believe the same,anyway thats what i derive for the bottom line anyway.
females can play the crowd as well as men can usually better, its those whom dont try to play mind games and sincere that ends getting shafted.
we learn and grow from it all and go on,sooner or later we start to read with good knowledge whats happening. and go from there is all we can do,but be happy we had the time and knowledge we have experienced from the whole ordeal anyway right?

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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 16:14

Jalle53 write:
If I ever get it right I will stop back and give anyone who wants it some advice until then I'll just keep looking . Just remember what works for one or two people dont work for everyone . Good Luck we all need it .

I hear ya jalle...I just like to take the good advice and run with it.



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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 16:08

If I ever get it right I will stop back and give anyone who wants it some advice until then I'll just keep looking . Just remember what works for one or two people dont work for everyone . Good Luck we all need it .



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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 16:07

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Msbikerkitty write:

Axel50 write:
I think the main thing we look for in a woman,is being able to trust her. I know from recent past experience,I thought she and I were like 2 peas in a pod,having a blast rallys,goin out ,blah blah,always knowing(or atleast I thought) I was in love with her and she in love with me.Both of us stating that numerous times, but finding out that she had been seeing/sleeping with another for 6 weeks prior to my finding out,somewhat,well hell,completley shot my trust in the female species outta the water,yeah I know Im a big boy and time heals and all that,,,but all Im saying is that us guys seem to be given a bad rap for things we do,and I think possibly just as mant females do the same thing. Maybe if we wern't so quick to get into the sack,and focused on heartfelt conversations,commitment issues and maybe even some guidelines, rather than thinking everything will take care of its self,,,we wouldnt be hurt as deeply and possibly wouldnt be putting out hearts on a kicking tee for some person to come by and try another field goal.
Just my observations really
Hang in there Ladies,,,,just be selective Axel

ok I select YOU!!!!

Very well said Axel....it goes both ways....

Kitty I'm with you.....Do you think you could have one on each arm in the City Axel ??......How many days left Kitty.....I know your counting....Fox

ummmm 18 days ...im not counting im sleeping through them...lol
axel can you share baby?



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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 15:54

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Axel50 write:
I think the main thing we look for in a woman,is being able to trust her. I know from recent past experience,I thought she and I were like 2 peas in a pod,having a blast rallys,goin out ,blah blah,always knowing(or atleast I thought) I was in love with her and she in love with me.Both of us stating that numerous times, but finding out that she had been seeing/sleeping with another for 6 weeks prior to my finding out,somewhat,well hell,completley shot my trust in the female species outta the water,yeah I know Im a big boy and time heals and all that,,,but all Im saying is that us guys seem to be given a bad rap for things we do,and I think possibly just as mant females do the same thing. Maybe if we wern't so quick to get into the sack,and focused on heartfelt conversations,commitment issues and maybe even some guidelines, rather than thinking everything will take care of its self,,,we wouldnt be hurt as deeply and possibly wouldnt be putting out hearts on a kicking tee for some person to come by and try another field goal.
Just my observations really
Hang in there Ladies,,,,just be selective Axel

ok I select YOU!!!!

Very well said Axel....it goes both ways....

Kitty I'm with you.....Do you think you could have one on each arm in the City Axel ??......How many days left Kitty.....I know your counting....Fox

  


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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 10:32

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I think the main thing we look for in a woman,is being able to trust her. I know from recent past experience,I thought she and I were like 2 peas in a pod,having a blast rallys,goin out ,blah blah,always knowing(or atleast I thought) I was in love with her and she in love with me.Both of us stating that numerous times, but finding out that she had been seeing/sleeping with another for 6 weeks prior to my finding out,somewhat,well hell,completley shot my trust in the female species outta the water,yeah I know Im a big boy and time heals and all that,,,but all Im saying is that us guys seem to be given a bad rap for things we do,and I think possibly just as mant females do the same thing. Maybe if we wern't so quick to get into the sack,and focused on heartfelt conversations,commitment issues and maybe even some guidelines, rather than thinking everything will take care of its self,,,we wouldnt be hurt as deeply and possibly wouldnt be putting out hearts on a kicking tee for some person to come by and try another field goal.
Just my observations really
Hang in there Ladies,,,,just be selective Axel

ok I select YOU!!!!



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Posted on Sun, Jan 01, 2006 04:55

I think the main thing we look for in a woman,is being able to trust her. I know from recent past experience,I thought she and I were like 2 peas in a pod,having a blast rallys,goin out ,blah blah,always knowing(or atleast I thought) I was in love with her and she in love with me.Both of us stating that numerous times, but finding out that she had been seeing/sleeping with another for 6 weeks prior to my finding out,somewhat,well hell,completley shot my trust in the female species outta the water,yeah I know Im a big boy and time heals and all that,,,but all Im saying is that us guys seem to be given a bad rap for things we do,and I think possibly just as mant females do the same thing. Maybe if we wern't so quick to get into the sack,and focused on heartfelt conversations,commitment issues and maybe even some guidelines, rather than thinking everything will take care of its self,,,we wouldnt be hurt as deeply and possibly wouldnt be putting out hearts on a kicking tee for some person to come by and try another field goal.
Just my observations really
Hang in there Ladies,,,,just be selective Axel



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Posted on Sat, Dec 31, 2005 23:14

46andlooking:I'm new to this site also and I know there always those bumps in the road, its just how we ride"em that matters. Be thankful it was only one year with the loser.Some of us have years under our belt only to wake up one day and finally figure out what a piece of crap we've been sleeping next to.The thing is, if we take the experience and learn no matter how many years we devoted then we are ahead of the game. I feel your pain and sense of loss' but really hon'you are the winner in the end! Take comfort in the fact you are not alone in this journey to find your soulmate!! Take care,Dottie

  


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Posted on Sat, Dec 31, 2005 12:47

Can't say I agree with your categorizing and generalizations about men and women. True there are those that try to assume the role they think the other wants them to be but in the end ones true colors shine forth. I try & take things for face value, be myself and follow my instincts. You gotta like who you are first - not seek out someone to make you whole. True, that one true love might complete your life, but they don't complete YOU. Have a safe & Happy New Year! It's 70 in TX today - time to ride.

  


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Posted on Fri, Dec 30, 2005 22:55

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My opinion, if I may, is that you have to be yourself and you must allow him to be himself as well, women tend to dig for information from men and then when he thinks its safe and exposes part of who he is with honesty, women will use the information against him or use it to make "herself" feel bad about how he feels about her.. we are not made the same... we do not think alike and that's okay. Once we realize that and quit trying to make them be just like "us" and quit trying to be what "we" think they "want" us to be instead of just who we are.. I think most women have a hard time handling the truth inside the man and most men know it and hide it. I believe its our own fault.. women are not very honest about thier thoughts and we tend to act more pure than men. We are taught at a young age that girls are bad if they have sexual or impure thoughts..because of that we create images of ourself to the opposite gender that make the man feel like he must be a deviant or something. Society has created a monster in a way. Men have a hard time being honest with us because we can not be honest with them!!! We play a role.. they can't live up to it. and in truth we do not live up to it either!!! We just do not talk about it and they do not dig for information about what we think.. Men take things for face value... women read a million things into every word.


Very insightful, DB


Thanks!! I have a pretty good teacher who has allowed me to really know him... I am learning how special and rare that truly is.



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Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 15:10

DoubleDelight write:
Marzen said: "I would like to really meet someone and possibly start a relationship, but it appears the people are miles away. I have decided that I am not going to react quickly or be worried if I meet someone and they leave. There are too many people in the world.
As for the aithor of this thread I would suggest she forget the "whats inside" theory and be attractive as possible. That is where it starts."
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Marzen: I believe if we work on ourselves to be the best we can inside and out-then we are prepared to have enough self-confidence to be creative and keep that spark and interest going. \
And-Who says we can't be nice and spicy all in one? SweetNSpicy-that's my man.

DD and her 2 cents again...
And I thought I was going be quiet-hhehe.
Need duct tape! lol


I'll gring the tape to Denver when you get in!

  


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Posted on Wed, Nov 30, 2005 08:15

Shallow self-centered stoopid women ... shame.

(((((((Bless you)))))))) I hope it hasn't made you bitter or resentful. Ride, ride, & ride some more brother. Let the wind blow it away.

Bless your daughter and your son also. You did the best you could and that was good. Now enjoy ..



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Posted on Tue, Nov 29, 2005 01:52

ok heres a story.
i married young,had two children, one was dropped after birth in the hospital,
two years later my pan is gone and i had two kids and two dogs with the house.
i raised them both, the male didnt turn out the best, the street gangs became his family,he decided he was going to kill dad, so he left home a few months shy of 18, raised the handicapped daughter,paid the bills for her care and kept up with her, the majority of females wouldnt except the daughter, it was either the daughter or me, but ya know i didnt really miss em that much.
my major problem is getting it outta my head thats the challenges i will still have, she is grown up and doing failry well on her own, all i do is check in and ride some more.
why do some women get such fantasies so entangled they submit such challenges as get rid of your kid or im leaving simply over she was still be taught and had to be handled as a baby at 10 or 12.
i had four challenges of this type yea we had fun but the child hampers her fun, so it was her or it it was ashame her always won.
hope to find new ground upon which to wlk, if you can get me off the hog long enough......



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