I want to thank all of you for the kind words and it is really nice to know that there is someone that would listen. Bless you all!!

You'll find her when the time is right. The same thing happens to women.
Your heart will heal and she will be there where you least expect her.
Good Luck!

I hope you feel happier very soon.

Hey - am I the only one who noticed that bashor & Darlin are both in OH? Hmmm....

BASHOR1....BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE...NOWADAYS MEN LIKE YOU ARE HARD TO FIND...JUST HANG IN THERE AND STAY WHO YOU ARE BECAUSE WITH YOUR QUALITIES I'M SURE SHE'LL FIND YOU!!!! SO SORRY YOUR HEART HURTS, BUT PLEASE BELIEVE IT'S JUST FOR NOW...GOD BLESS...MO

So sorry to hear that your heart hurts. Listen to what the other ladies have said they are right.

Unfortunately our own plan isn't always the same as the plan that God has intended for us. But... when the time is right you will love again!

bashor

we are out there---but like the rest of us we are weeding!!!!!!
sorry for your pain but as Bea and BHG said--stay as you are and don't let the hurt sour you!!!

Sorry dude..join the school of hard knocks, bumps, bruises, a few scars that heal with time and good friends. This too shall pass, but please don't let it sour a good soul, we have all been there, learn from your past, take your lessons with you, and love again.

Women that are honest and faithful...yeah, we exist...but for the most part we're gun shy because of the men that have used us and sent us on our way...sorry that your heart hurts, Sweetie..that's a hell of a pain! I pray to God and all the powers that be that it leaves you soon!

no, were out here.....we just all seem to have the same problem finding someone....i am sorry your heart is hurting, there is nothing worse then that kind of pain.......will be thinking about you and hoping the pain goes away soon....you stay a decent guy, don't let what happened change you.....you will find the one and only, just hang in there........

I just wanted to say that there are alot of Honest & Faithful Women out there. I truely believe that when someone cheats, they are either not happy with themselves or there relationship. Keep the faith, your heart will mend and know that what goes around comes around..keep smilin..

There are good and faithful women out there,I think they just happen to be attracted to the men that will not be faithful and good to them.Hope ypu one day find that good woman.